Sexy Kiss and a Lot More - Guide to Erotic Kiss

By Arunraj V.S.

With a kiss, you can explore and ignite the sensuality of a person. Sexy Kisses can be maddeningly seductive and the most erotic process of making love. In fact for most women, sexy kissing is the most stimulating and engrossing part in foreplay. Do not bypass the process of sharing an intimate sexy kiss in a bid to go for the penile intercourse.

Kiss the girl with a lot of passion. French kissing is hot but you need to incorporate your individual touch to the kiss. PERSONALIZE YOUR KISS. A woman's mouth is a cavern of unimaginable delights. Incorporate flavor in the sexy kiss by using an edible juicy piece of fruit like strawberry, grape, orange etc. Keeping the fruit in your lips, kiss her squarely on the mouth. Nibble half of the juicy fruit while the girl nibbles on the other half. The fruit should break into half, and the juicy nectar will flow freely into each other's mouths. Talk about a sexy mess!

Just prior to kiss, move your tongue along your partner's lip. In fact, sucking the lower lip during the sexy kiss is a turn-on for most women. The Reverse Kiss is another type of sexy kiss. Here you start from the scalp and move southward. In this kiss, the man's upper lip sucks on the woman's lower lip, nibbling it and relishing it. You begin to kiss and then start kissing some more...Oh, yes...you open the door for 69. More on that later...

Vary your kisses, their intensity and pace. Creativity is another name for sex. Do not pay attention to just her lips. A woman is a cornucopia of pleasure and a giver of love in its infinite abundance. Pop an ice-cube in your mouth and draw circles of 8 or concentric circles around her navel region. Apply delicate feather touch with the ice-cube as the sexy cool water drips around her belly. The cool ice will stimulate the erotic heat and intensify the wetness she feels within. Use your tongue as you give gentle open mouthed kisses following the dangerously sexy route the melted ice water takes from her belly to the crotch. If you tie the hands gently with a scarf, or blindfold her in the act, then the heights of arousal are increased manifold. In your endeavor to keep the sexy kiss rolling, use another piece of ice and run it around and the tip of the hood of the clitoris, kissing and tonguing it slowly and succulently.

You can also pass cubes of ice as you lip lock and smooch with wet lips melted from the icy feeling. While going on for a sexy kiss, lick your partner's lips and blow air on it gently. The hot and cold mix is quite an invigorating experience.

Surprise your girl with a sexy kiss. Usually women have erogenous sensitive zones at the back of their neck, the collar bone and just above the cleavage. Hug your lady from behind and rain kisses at the back of her neck and collar bone. Turn her around and look into her eyes. Gently turn your head and kiss her face, around the lips and then zero into her lips for the sexy kiss. Hold her tight as you kiss her. You can either do it articulately or out of sheer animal desire. If you are kissing gently, run the tip of your tongue along her lips as if you are tasting them. Then kiss the upper lip while sucking the lower lips. Use your tongue to probe her mouth open and commence a sexy French kiss.

Women value post orgasmic bliss. After you are done with making love, having sex, making out or bang-bang (whatever you may call it), hold her close and take her into your arms. Hold her face up to yours and kiss her hair, her face and lips (of course) as she falls asleep on your shoulder.

V.S.ARUNRAJ believes that kissing is the most pleasurable form of intimacy and love. Learn more about kissing

Hot Kiss, Sexy Kiss, Love Kiss - It is Smooch Time!

By Arunraj V.S.

Let us look at some of the hottest kissing techniques:

1. The Beginner's Kiss- In this sexy kiss, your lips caress and brush against her lips gently. While kissing this way, you have to relax and make your lips move around her mouth. Hovering and zeroing is the key in this intimate hot kiss.

2. The Butterfly kiss: In this hot kiss, lightly flicker your lips across your lover's eyelids, chin, cheeks, and neck. Move the tip of your lips, breezing in feather stroke touches around her body, her breasts, nipples, thighs, belly button etc. This is the Butterfly kiss. You can also use the above two techniques the Beginner's kiss and the Butterfly kiss to initiate a technique known as the Eastern Swirl and Poke, where your lips twirl and poke at the erogenous zones.

3. The Droplet: This is a kinky kiss which is prevalent when you are kissing her passionately. In this form of hot kiss, you have to retract your lips slowly from her and drip a few droplets of your saliva into her mouth.

4. French kiss: In the world's most popular form of kiss, the guy has to kiss the girl open-mouthed. Here the tongue probes and turns around the inside of the mouth, exploring the woman's mouth in its entirety.

5. The Medieval necklet-One of the most seductive of all kisses. It was a technique employed by knights to kiss their women who wore low necked outfits. In this form of sexy kiss, kiss the girl, by circling around her neck with a string of sexy kisses, journeying from behind the ear, around the area at or near the cleavage and then back to the region behind the other ear. Quite a necklace kiss!

6. The Lush lap: This is a sexy form of tongue kiss. Part your lips and keep your tongue firm and give tongue swipes to the desirable area on her body or her lips.

7. Lover's Pass- This is all about blending erotica and food. Hold food with sensual significance like strawberry, chocolate, ice-cream etc in your mouth. Let her mouth come close, with her tongue touching the food. As her mouth parts open, gently drop the sexy fruit into her waiting mouth.

8. The Sliding kiss: The Lover's Pass graduates into the Sliding Kiss. Here you use your tongue to push at hers, sharing erotic food like strawberry, chocolate sauce etc.

9. The Stretch: This hot, sexy kiss is another extension of the French kiss. Stretch or elongate your tongue to rub the roof of your woman's mouth. This is an area which people do not focus much on, but can give incredible pleasure to the person being kissed.

10. The Mediterranean Flick-One of the sexiest kisses ever, this has a Latin birth. The Mediterranean Flick is all about gentling swiping your tongue, in teasing little circles around the lips, neck, nipples, belly button and the clitoris of a woman's body. A personal favorite, this hot and sexy kiss is sure to make the woman arch her hips and let loose a sexy moan.

V.S.ARUNRAJ believes that kissing is the most pleasurable form of intimacy and love. Learn more about kissing

The Secret Behind the Best Female Orgasms

By Bernice L

Yes, there are orgasms, plain and simple, and there the best female orgasms. How you get from plain orgasms to the best orgasms is completely up to you and your partner. Women should know the secrets to reaching the best orgasms and it is imperative that their partners should lend a hand and participate as well.

Sometimes, in order for women to experience the best orgasms ever, they only need to be placed in the right setting. Make your man understand that in order for you to experience the best climax out there, the right mood has to be set first. Create a romantic and sexy atmosphere conducive to making love at the very end.

Both of you should be comfortable in the mood created. Think of it as the foundations of foreplay. Foreplay is very much crucial for every woman to reach orgasm. If the foundations are laid right with the right atmosphere, you will not only experience an orgasm but the best female orgasms.

Now that the mood is set, it's time to get stimulated. There are many areas, called erogenous zones that women can be stimulated. These areas heighten a woman's sex drive.

The place that your man should never forget to stimulate, however, is your clitoris. This is as important and just as sensitive to any woman as a penis is to a man. Also, your man should learn to caress and stimulate your breasts. Many women have experienced the best female orgasms from breast fondling alone.

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The Number One Difference Between A Great Lover And The Not So Much Guy!

By Arlene Krieger

It is a rainy Sunday afternoon and I am sitting down to write on this very important subject of, 'What makes your lover great.'

FYI:
Also mentioned in this blog are safe-sex practices for those in the dating and mating scene. Many often take sexual health risks without understanding the consequences of unsafe sex. If you do not know your intended lover and haven't discussed previous dating practices, health records, blood work and STD, HIV testing measures, please do so before entering any new intimate relationship for your own safety.

As to what constitutes a "Great Lover"...it is a delicate subject indeed, and I do not profess to be the world's expert on differentiating between great lovers and not, however, being an expert in the field of human sexuality, I am often privy to numerous opinions on the subject, both unsolicited and randomly provided in my daily interactions with people (meaning on the street opinions, not those of my patients).

I was talking to a massage therapist the other day on this subject. I respect her ideas and she is a savvy woman of the world. Yes guys, we women do talk about such things. Possibly a bit differently than males do, but we talk.

So then, let's begin. It seems that there is a general consensus among women as to what makes for a not so good, a good and a great lover!

THE NOT SO GOOD LOVER:

In general, this man will brag at first meeting of his sexual prowess in the bedroom. Also, it is often alluded to as to how well endowed he is. It seems that if the man was such a Casanova in the bedroom, he wouldn't be having to put out a pre-show documentary on his circus act abilities. Also, this man may have a Bad Boy persona, which usually doesn't get him too far. Many men think that women like Bad Boys, but believe me, its an urban myth !

Also, the "not so good lover" is generally all about himself, in multi-dimensional ways. It is maintained that this NSG lover is all about his own performance and pleasure. It is usually his way or the highway, and when suggestions are made, he maintains his reasoning for his own selfish proclivities, standing his ground like a spoiled child. Great sex is about sharing, communication, negotiation and most of all playfulness. Too many rules in the bedroom are a capital TO for Turn Off!

SEXUAL HEALTH NOTE:

Danger: Equal-Opportunity STDs

Here's another reality check: sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are incredibly common in the U.S. -- even if your social circle is affluent and educated. The most common STDs are: Chlamydia, genital herpes, genital warts caused by human papillomavirus (HPV), and HIV/AIDS.
To reduce risk, use a condom every time you have sex. Ask your partner if he or she has ever had an STD -- even if the question feels awkward. Limit your number of sexual partners. Don't have sex with someone who has sores on his or her genitals. Don't receive oral sex from somebody with a cold sore. Ask your partner to be tested. Try alternate forms of sexual intimacy.

Please beware of the lover that will insist on not utilizing safe-sex practices. If a new lover demands that he not use a condom because he "can't feel anything", I'm sorry to say that's his problem, not yours. Don't risk contracting STD's or other sexually contracted diseases with this man's power play.

THE GOOD LOVER:

The 'Good Lover' takes responsibility and provides his own safe-sex protection. This man is a grown up all the way and usually knows what he wants. He is not too quick to jump the starting gate on the first date and knows the basic rules of not choking you to death with his tongue at first kiss. The Good Lover knows how to follow your lead both in and out of the bedroom.

THE GREAT LOVER:

Ahhhh... this man is a unique creature. Seriously he really does exist! The makings of a Great Lover depends on how healthy he is both mentally and physically himself. This man wants a partner who challenges and supports him towards being a more awake, present and open lover.
This man is not into playing games and is ready for the work and play it takes to co-create an extraordinary relationship together. This lover is looking for a woman who wants more than a partner "for masturbation by other" who wants to learn to flow and co-create together.

Dr. Arlene G. Krieger is a Board Certified Clinical Sexologist. She is well known in the community for her work in the fields of Marriage and Family therapy and Clinical Sexology in the tri-county areas of Palm Beach, Dade County and Broward Counties. Dr. Krieger specializes in Relationship and Intimacy issues in her private practice in Boca Raton, Florida. She can be reached via her website: http://www.Bocatherapy.com

10 Things You Didn't Know About Condoms

By Tim Leach

Along with many issues surrounding sex, condoms are still a bit of a taboo in polite society. But as well as preventing pregnancy, condoms help prevent the transmission of most sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).

However, despite the dangers of unprotected sex, statistics from STD tests show that condoms are not used as often as they could be.

Perhaps if we just got to know them a little better, we'd feel more comfortable about using them. With that in mind, here are 10 of the most interesting things about condoms.

1 - Condoms were used by ancient civilisations

Although the subject is disputed amongst archaeologists and historians, some experts claim that condoms appeared in cave paintings going back 15,000 years. The oldest known representation of a condom in use is in a painting in the Grotte des Combarrelles cave in France. Also, societies in ancient Egypt, Greece and Rome preferred small families and are known to have practiced a variety of birth control methods.

2 - First known use against STDs

In medieval times there probably weren't any reliable STD tests, nevertheless, most people would have known if they had one! It was therefore in 16th century Italy that Gabriele Falloppio wrote the first-known published description of condom use for STD prevention. He recommended soaking cloth sheaths in a chemical solution and allowing them to dry prior to use. Falloppio claimed to have performed an experimental trial of the linen sheath on 1100 men. The experiment supposedly indicated protection against syphilis.

3 - Oldest found condoms

The oldest condoms found (rather than just pictures or descriptions) are from 1640, discovered in Dudley Castle in England. They were made of animal intestine, and it is believed they were used for STD prevention.

4 - The Japanese made theirs out of tortoise shells

In 19th century Japan, both leather condoms and condoms made of tortoise shells or horns were available. Similar devices made from oiled silk paper have also been described in China.

5 - Dr Condom

The alleged invention of the condom by 'Dr. Condom' or the 'Earl of Condom' is believed to be false. It has also been hypothesized that a British army officer named Cundum popularized the device between 1680 and 1817. However, the true origin of the word is unknown.

6 - Time-consuming recipes

Condoms weren't always so easily available. An 1824 text offers a recipe with twelve very time-consuming steps involved in making condoms from sheep's 'intestina caeca.' After that much effort, it is hardly surprising that early condoms were considered reusable.

7 - Condoms used to be available only by prescription

In the US, there was a time that condoms were available only by prescription. Doctors would prescribe them to men so that husbands could protect themselves against getting STDs from prostitutes. However, they wouldn't prescribe them to women so they could prevent themselves from getting pregnant or for any other reason.

8 - Condoms have been sold in vending machines since 1928

The vending machine condom celebrates its 80th anniversary in 2008, courtesy of the company who manufactured the first brand-name condom, Germany-based, Fromm's. Their product, Fromm's Act, not only appeared in vending machines first - they also, somewhat bizarrely, had Mickey Mouse as their pitchman.

9 - Invisible condoms

Clinical trials on the 'invisible' condom, in fact a gel that hardens with increased temperatures, have been carried out by Quebec's Laval University. It is one of a number of products being developed which falls into the category of a female condom, some of which have received government approval. The Invisible Condom, however, is still awaiting approval.

10 - Spray-on condoms

German scientist Jan Vinzenz Krause of the Institute for Condom Consultation in Germany recently developed a spray-on condom that is currently in the stages of test marketing. Krause says that one of the advantages to his spray-on condom, which is reported to dry in about 5 seconds, is that it is perfectly formed to each penis.

Tim Leach is the Marketing Manager of American Lab Testing, providers of STD tests.