Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Starting With F

By Levi Reiss

Do you want to improve your sex life? It seems that most people do, whether they are heterosexuals, homosexuals, or somewhere in between. If you are like most of us, you want more sex and you want better sex, and you want it now. Don't believe that there is a magic pick-up line, pill, potion, or perfume that will make it happen immediately, if not sooner. But we do believe that our articles can make a major difference in your sex life, and even in your love life, if that's what you want. Why not give them a try?

We have so many suggestions for improving your sex life that we are putting together an alphabetical list of what to do. Just so you don't miss out, we are also putting together an alphabetical list of what not to do. Don't waste all your time, effort, perhaps money, and perhaps love by putting your foot in your mouth when what you really want; we all know what you really want. This article focuses on fantasy, feeling, and footsie.

F is for fantasy. Fantasies are great in the bedroom or elsewhere as long as they are within bounds (no rough stuff, no degradation, I think you get the idea) and as long as you don't let them take over. It may be true that reality bites, but we do have to live with it. More or less. If you are up to it, trade fantasies with your partner or partners. But you really should be careful. Some people will use a partner's fantasies against him or her. This could be as simple as constantly repeating, "So you don't think I'm as attractive as Cindy Crawford," or "I know you wouldn't tell Billy-Boy no if he wanted that." Billy-Boy could be Clinton, Gates, or that twenty-two year-old who just moved in the apartment across the hall. Don't let fantasies take over. And why not give your partner as much as you would give Billy-Boy?

F is for feeling. Feelings... Feelings. When you are feeling it's great if you are surrounded by feelings. Share you feelings and I don't just mean the jingling and jangling of your favorite nerve endings. Let your partner know that you feel for him or her across the room, and across the continent. You may even share feelings about a work of art (not necessarily nudes) or a tasty stir-fry. If you really feel for each other, that may enhance your sexual feelings as well.

F is for footsie. Playing footsie is fun. You can always pretend it was an accident if the response is more or less "Get your stinking feet off of me before I call the cops." On the other hand an energetic yet sensual reply is almost a promise of things to come. Unless the object of your affectionate toes is a foot fetishist. Then you may be in trouble. Let's hope that he or she washes his feet, preferably with an anti-fungal disinfectant. By the way, with the exception of Immelda Marcos who was more of a shoe fetishist, have you ever heard of a female foot fetishist? But there are women who like to play footsie and I don't blame them.

Levi Reiss has authored or co-authored ten books on computers and the Internet, but to be honest, he would rather just drink fine wine, eat fine food, and enjoy life. He teaches classes in computers at an Ontario French-language community college. Among his many web sites he is particularly proud of his new site celebrating all kinds of love including physical love at http://www.sexsexesex.com You will find a wide range of jokes, articles, and quotes devoted to various aspects of sex and a great collection of photos. If you don't know French, enjoy the translations. Check out his global wine website at http://www.theworldwidewine.com

Natural Cures For Loss of Sexual Desire - Herbs For Men and Women to Increase Desire Quickly!

By Kelly Price

While men and women's sexuality has certain differences, there are similarities and here we will look at some proven herbs which will boost libido and increase sexual desire and sex drive, in both men and women and are proven to work...

Before we look at the solutions, let look at the problems.

Testosterone is seen as critical for the male sex drive but women need it to and if they dot get enough, libido plummets. Another key chemical is nitric oxide which regulates blood flow into the sexual organs of both men and women. It is important the sex organs are filled with blood and nitric oxide performs the critical function, of relaxing the blood vessels so they can expand enough and let sufficient blood in.

Another key reason for low libido is you need enough blood in the genital region in the first place before it is let in and poor blood circulation is a key problem, which contributes to low sex drive. You quite simply need your blood pumping strongly around the body.

Another key reason is a combination of stress, anxiety, fatigue and low energy levels and when this combination occurs the body will devote the energy that it has to more important matters, even if you consider sex drive is, your body doesn't!

So what can you do about the above? here are some herbs which provide natural cures for loss of sexual Desire and they work!

Horny Goat Weed

A powerful Chinese herb to increase libido which increases both testosterone and nitric oxide levels in the body. It is also very effective at reducing stress and giving the whole body an energy boost.

Cnidium

This herb is renowned for its ability to increase nitric oxide levels in the body put also acts as a circulatory herb helping to pump blood around the body and acting as a blood tonic

Ginkgo Biloba

Ginkgo Biloba is a tonic herb and is a great circulatory tonic and is renowned for its health affects on the blood it improves blood flow and oxygen throughout the body and helps get blood to all areas of the body. In its anti-oxidant role it assists in maintaining healthy tissue, protects the blood vessels and reduce arteriosclerotic lesions.

Ginseng

The most popular herb in the world and acts in various ways to improve overall health and of course, sexual health. It helps heal the sex organs naturally and helps with increasing energy, lifting mood and also acts as a circulatory tonic. All in all one of the best herbs you can take for improving wellness.

Get them ALL and Lift Your Libido

These are not the only herbs you can take but they cover the 4 main problems of low libido we mentioned earlier and help cure libido problems by, boosting the blood flow, increasing nitric oxide and testosterone levels and finally improving your mood and lifting the energy levels in the body.

Today male and female sex pills are blended for both men and women, with these herbs and others specifically for men or women which can act as natural cures For loss Of sexual desire and they also boost your overall health at the same time. Try them and you maybe glad you did.

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Transcendent Sex - Ancient Secret Rediscovered

By Kat Williams

Transcendent Sex is nothing new. Since the dawn of history, people have reported mystical and spiritual experiences during love making. Records of "sacred sex" may be found from all ancient civilizations including Mesopotamia, Egypt, Greece, Rome, China, and India. Thanks to several modern fictional works such as Dan Brown's The DaVinci Code, Transcendent Sex is coming into our modern day consciousness.

So what is Transcendent Sex?

According to prominent psychologist Dr. Jenny Wade, people engaged in Transcendent Sex may report the following occurrences to have taken place during or after sex:

• Seeing visions
• Reliving past lives
• Sensing a Divine Presence
• Feeling sensations of "Bliss"
• Feeling One with everything
• Enlightenment

According to reports, to experience Transcendent sex, you don't have to be using drugs or practicing tantric sex. These occurrences may take place at anytime for anybody. They may be experiences that change your life and your perspective on spirituality. Or they may just change your attitude about sex in general. It may take a Transcendent Sexual experience to help some heal from sexual abuse, trauma or inhibition.

There are many avenues of research available, to learn more about Transcendent Sex. Modern writers Deepak Chopra and Dr. Jenny Wade are great places to start. For a historical background, you can pick several spiritual or religious texts including Shaman-ism, Yoga, Buddhism, Mystical Christianity or Wiccan.

Do you think you've had an experience with Transcendent Sex? You may have. Many people do but don't understand them or are afraid to report them. Like most things of a sexual nature, you can only grow and develop by keeping an open mind and being truthful to yourself.

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How to Talk Dirty to Him - Advice For Women

By Jordy Johnson

There's no denying that men love intimacy. Women do too. When you're in a loving, close relationship, intimacy is going to be a part of things. Sometimes it's incredibly alluring to spice things up a bit. It keeps the relationship from getting stagnant and it can even renew the attraction between your man and you. One easy and effective way to drive your man wild is to be more vocal in the bedroom. When it comes to how to talk dirty to him, it's actually much easier than you think.

If you've never wandered down the path of talking dirty, you may feel a bit intimated or embarrassed. Many women are under the mistaken impression that nice girls don't express themselves in bed. That's not the case at all. Men love women who are vocal and they certainly don't label them as anything other than nice. In fact, there's a very good chance that if you talk dirty to your boyfriend or husband he'll classify you as more than nice. He'll find you irresistible.

Baby steps are what you need to take if you are just venturing into the world of talking during intimacy. If you want to know the first step in how to talk dirty to him, learn to express yourself through sounds. If something feels good, let out a moan. Purr for him and he'll love it. Once you start doing that you'll notice a strong reaction from your man. He'll know he's pleasing you and it will drive him even more to satisfy you.

Once you feel comfortable with sounds, graduate to words. You don't have to master a vocabulary filled with words that would make your mother blush. Even telling your man that what he's doing feels good or saying yes when he touches you is a perfect start. Men just want to know that they are making you feel wonderful. They also want to know that you are self confident enough to express yourself. This is a huge turn-on for men. Try it once or twice and soon your man won't be able to get enough of you.

Specific things you say and do during lovemaking can make a man feel compelled to please you and want to be with you. Saying the wrong words can actually turn him off and make intimacy with you far less appealing. For more informative tips about how to talk to him during sex, including exactly what to say so he'll find you utterly irresistible, visit this Helpful Site!

Sex Every Day For a Year, Lessons Learned

By Howard Earl

In 2006 Charla Muller decided to give her husband, Brad, a very unusual 40th birthday present. Was it a set of gold plated golf clubs?

No, it was the offer of sex every day for a year.

What happened next offers some insights into their relationship and what happens when couples become more intimate. There are lessons for everyone in a long term intimate relationship here.

Sex as a chore?

Charla thought Brad would be really pleased with her birthday suggestion but what actually happened is that Brad turned her down because he "didn't want her to feel that she had to have sex with him". Charla was stunned that she actually had to talk him into it.

Lesson Learned : Has your sexual relationship deteriorated so much that one or both of you now think of sex as a chore? Has one of you become the "sex gatekeeper" who always decides when you will make love?

Finding time for intimacy

One of the hardest things about making love every day for a year was finding the time. With a young family, business trips and family visits to work around finding the time to make love wasn't easy. It required planning and a schedule. At first Brad was against this, he felt that lovemaking should be spontaneous.

What Charla and Brad discovered is that you have to make time for sexual intimacy. When they thought that they were too tired for sex it was really because they chose to watch TV until late. They hadn't been making time in their schedule for lovemaking, it was a low priority for them.

Lessons Learned: Not making love like you used to? Have you made it one of your priorities?

Less than perfect sex

Making love every day for a year meant giving up on the idea of making love as it is shown in the movies with candlelight and soft music. There were days when neither of them wanted to have sex but they did anyway. As Charla says in an interview with a UK newspaper "I can't say that it was easy making all the effort. Sometimes it was awful. But I reasoned with myself that it was important."

Lessons Learned: Sex doesn't always have to be perfume-scented and perfectly staged.

End Results

Charla and Brad didn't manage a perfect 365 days of lovemaking but they say they averaged about 28 days a month over the year. They discovered a lot about each other and their relationship was changed as a result.

Some months into their experiment Brad admitted that he had been hurt by her rejections. Charla had thought that she was turning down sex not rejecting Brad but Brad had come to feel that he was the one begging for sex.

Charla became more self confident as a result of the experiment, coming to understand that her husband really loved and desired her for who she was and how she was. They became closer as a couple, being so intimate every day made them more attentive to each other in the small things that make for a happy relationship.

Lessons Learned: Being more intimate made Charla and Brad feel closer to each other and with the whole concept of "earning sex" taken out of their relationship they were able to see the things they did for each other as acts of love and affection rather than point scoring.

Planning your own journey

365 nights of love takes a lot of commitment and effort. Why not start with a pledge to have sex 7 days straight. Don't expect the sex to be fantastic but do expect some positive changes in your relationship.

Howard Earl is a writer for http://AutomaticRomantic.com A website dedicated to the science, practice and improvement of your romantic relationship. Schedule your own Romantic Reminders for free at http://AutomaticRomantic.com and browse the collection of Romantic ideas and articles.