By Kat Williams
Most women finish a sexual encounter feeling dissatisfied. This is because, in most cases, she did not reach orgasm from the efforts of her partner. Now this is not strictly the man's fault, there are many things a woman can do to maximize her experience. However, most men who are successful in any endeavor, do so by taking responsibility for all outcomes. So why not take responsibility for getting your woman to climax from intercourse alone?
For starters, you can take responsibility without taking it personal. According to a survey of over 500 women, by sex therapists Solot and Miller, only 6% of women climax strictly from sexual intercourse. Most women can only climax through masturbation, either with their own hands or with a vibrator. Many women have better luck climaxing through oral stimulation.
If you feel you have been unsuccessful in getting your woman to climax through intercourse alone, do not be ashamed to try other means, initially. The more she reaches orgasm, through any means, the easier it become for her to reach orgasm through intercourse. A complex neural muscular system is responsible for the female orgasm and it requires training and practice just like any other neural muscular system.
Practice using your fingers and mouth on your woman before intercourse. While doing so, listen to her vocalizations and pay attention to the tensing of her muscles and movement of her body. Learn what motions she enjoys.
Foreplay: Foreplay is the most consistently overlooked stage of the sexual encounter. Stimulate her as much as possible before intercourse. And not just sexually. Remember, a woman's brain is her largest sexual organ. Through sensitive, sensual and prolonged foreplay you are building sexual tension in her mind and body that only orgasm can relieve.
Talk to her in a low, passionate, yet masculine fashion. Practice teasing her with gentle touches from lips or fingers. Don't give her what she wants immediately! When touching her erogenous zones, start light with hints of what's to come. Whisper in her ear and tease her with your lips. Learn how to seduce her with eye contact. Let your eyes express to her your desire and virility.
Do your best to stimulate her as much as possible, through gaze, speech, touch before touching intimate areas. Always start gently! Every woman likes to be touched differently and you may even have her guide or show you how she masturbates herself. Pay attention to place, pace and pressure.
Intercourse: Experiment with different positions. Let her take a female dominant position so she can be in control. Some women only climax through rear-entry positions. Many women are benefiting from Coital Aligned Technique (C.A.T).
Be sensitive and aware. Experiment and vary depth, pace and motion of your hips. Experiment in finding the right spot and the right motion then "lock in"!
Communication: Yes it is your responsibility to be sensitive and aware of the many non-verbal cues a woman will provide, either voluntary or non-voluntary. But you can't read minds and shouldn't be expected to do so. Ask her what she enjoys!
| Kat Williams |
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