By Rob Dev
As the self-professed "dating guru" I always strive to let men know that gender stereotypes still exist. What do I mean by that? I mean that women will more often than not, wait to be asked for a date, wait to be asked for the second date, and wait to be lured into bed. We are taught at an early age, that this is the way it should be. In many ways, gender gaps have been narrowed, and differences have been bridged and that is good. This is still not the case where sex is concerned.
The only way for a man to know if the woman he is with wants sex is to be more forward, and find out. I try to make a point in all my articles and websites that no means no. If she says no, then its over, end of story. But short of that, it is true that women want sex too.
That is also true of successful women. Successful women want sex too, so why does this prize tend to allude us? Precisely because we think of it as a prize. If you are looking for a trophy for you mantel then forget about it, you are looking the wrong way.
You have to approach her as an equal. You both have brains, make sure she sees you that way. When I was a lowly retail clerk, I had the pleasure of an executive of a major international airline. She knew what I did, but she saw me for what I was, not what I did. If you approach her right, she won't be looking down on you, so you will not have to look up to her.
You need to strip down, psychologically. If there is any hint of a power struggle, its over.
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