Learn Dirty Talk - Just 3 Easy Steps

By Duncan Roberts

Learning dirty talk is not difficult. Sure, it takes practice, a little bit of confidence and a partner willing to participate and learn with you. It can be a fun journey, as involved as you want but with one major benefit - there is no end.

The results of you taking the time to learn dirty talk is a greatly improved sex life, a more open and honest relationship and a breaking down of the barriers that often exist between two people even after they have known each other (or been married) for many, many years.

For something that still (wrongly) carries such a social taboo and earns a sharply indrawn breath from those less honest with themselves than you are - talking dirty really does pay out huge dividends for very little investment of your time and thought!

So here are three easy steps to help you learn dirty talk in next to no time. Study them and apply them; you will be surprised how easy talking dirty will come to you after you give it a shot.

Step 1 - Get Started

Starting dirty talk is the most difficult part. It is hard just to come outright with some dirty speak out of nowhere. For this reason, why not ask your partner straight out if he/she is interested in talking dirty? If they say yes then great! You can lead into it by using some subtle dirty talk language and describing to each other what you enjoy. If they are unsure about talking dirty then they are more than likely just a bit shy of being quite so honest and truthful. You may need to take the lead here and start off with some fun and light dirty talk first to help them get into it.

Step 2 - Set Some Rules

Whilst you do not want to be overly restrictive as it can ruin the mood, it is still wise to ask your partner whether there are any words he or she doesn't like. Some words may simple not be appropriate for some people and that is fine; dirty talk does not have to mean having a filthy mouth. It just means being erotic and raunchy and a little more naughty than you normally are. Once you have set some ground rules for words either of you don't like, you can continue.

Step 3 - Feel Your Way Around (Stop smirking!)

After a while you will be able to talk dirty with no prompting but in the first stages it can be easier if you are in close contact and touching each other. When touching each other it is more likely that you can let out dirty talk words easier as your senses will be heightened.

These three easy steps to becoming a dirty talk expert are a simple guide for anyone wishing to delve into the world of erotic talk. Talking dirty really enhances a relationship and takes you places you never dreamed of! To help you more to learn dirty talk, check out the site at http://www.howtotalkdirty.info/