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July 27, 2008

G Spot - Learn the Secret Orgasm Techniques That Really Work

By Bryan Burbank

Yes it is true men think that they know how to please a woman and hit her G Spot and make her have an explosive orgasm without even trying. The truth is that it takes effort to get your partner in the mood to have a mind blowing orgasm. The G Spot area is a great way to help her climax and get your partner aroused.

First you want to make sure that you set the mood just right because there is nothing worse than trying to have the perfect romantic experience and then the phone rings or you have the TV on and you get distracted. It is best to set time aside away from the kids and the daily hassles so that you and your partner can be alone and concentrate on each other. It is always a good idea to use romantic music and candles to set the mood just right, you want to do something you do not normally do to get your partner excited about being alone with you.

Make sure that when you are arousing her that you spend a lot of time with foreplay because this is one of the best ways to get her into the mood. Remember that women always take longer to reach a climax than a man does and if you try to rush things you will get disappointed. Also make sure that you touch the sensitive areas on your partner because this will help to get her ready for an orgasm.

It is always a good idea to be prepared and always have the most information you can so that you know what tips and tricks work well for you and your partner, remember that you want the experience to be special.

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Does a Female Orgasm Feel Good? Does it Happen Often?

By Bryan Burbank

Having an orgasm should be something that a man and a woman should experience and enjoy but all too often this is something a man has and a woman is left out wondering how a female orgasm feels. One of the biggest problems is that a lot of men are looking for quick pleasure and by doing this it leaves the woman short changed. A woman takes a longer period of time to experience an orgasm and climax and with men it takes a much shorter time.

You need to open the channel for communication up more when you are intimate because this will allow you to know what your partners needs and desires are. For a woman it is important to talk and find out what her desires are because it takes a longer period of time to reach a orgasm.

Men sometimes want to rush through sex like it is a race and get through as quick as possible but for a female they want to be intimate and they must get into the mood in order to climax. Foreplay is the best way to get her into the right mood so that she can have a mind blowing orgasm.

The best way to know if she has reached a orgasm is to communicate with her so that you know if you have helped her reach the climax. Many times you can tell by her reaction if she has reached it or not.

Remember that you always want to be as informed as possible so that you know the best ways to please your partner.

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How Long You Need to Wait Before Sexual Encounter

By Alexander Berson

Women may not be aware of this but when men start to date women, they have tendency to put women into two different categories. One would be called "worthwhile" and the other one would be called "good time only". You need to be careful which category you want to be in, because if he decides to place you into category that he chooses to, it will be hard to get out of that place.

If you decide to have sexual intercourse with him for the purpose of winning him, he will definitely sense your intentions and I can almost guarantee you that, slowly, he will begin to lose respect for you. If you are not sure what "good time only" and "worthwhile" means, I will describe them for you.

"Good time only" category is when women who usually talk a lot about sex on the first date or in there first phone conversation. Men will right away place you into this category. If your outfit is very short and overstated or you compliment him non-stop and basically hang all over him. I recommend avoiding this kind of behaviour if your intentions are serious long-term relationship with him.

"Worthwhile" category is simply opposite of the above listed. Women would more likely use body language to convey her sensuality. She would wear something that's' slightly sheer. Her sexuality seems like part of who she is. It does not seem intentional or forced but rather natural. She would give him chance to come close but not too close. She would give him hope, to make it look like he is still "in the game".

So the big question is: how long do you have to wait before you decide to have sexual encounter? My opinion is: as long as you can. If it takes six months or a year then I suggest do it only after that period of time. If your intention is to have healthy long-term relationship then I suggest you follow this rule. It also benefits you in other ways.

For one: if his intentions is just to get to you bed and nothing more than that, then most likely, men like that would not stick around, they would simply give up and leave. A man who really appreciates, respects, honors you will have no problem waiting for that long before sexual encounter.

Second: you will know more about him in that period of time before getting sexual. You never know if he is married or has a girlfriend. You will most likely find out in that period of time.
Waiting for that long also ensures that the man develops a habit of putting forth effort so that you are treated the way you want to be treated.

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July 19, 2008

Examples of Talking Dirty - Simple Yet Stunningly Effective

By Rufus Steele

With something as potentially involved as talking dirty, learning what to say is just as important as learning how to say it.

You could just try lying back and saying the first thing that comes into your imagination but that does sort of depend on how good and free ranging your imagination is.

When you are not quite on the boil and feeling off key, actually thinking of something to say can be seriously difficult.

Now, this article being printed on a family site, it's a bit hard to actually give you any written examples of dirty talk.

But what we can do is point your imagination in the right direction for finding examples of dirty talk.

Apart from the obvious source, there are a couple of great resources you could use.

The first would be via an adult film. Now granted, the majority of conversation in these films wouldn't exactly gain a pass mark in the most basic of English exams but there are quite a few snippets of comments and lines spoken that you can easily use when alone with your partner.

Heck, why not go even further with this idea? If you and your partner would be comfortable enough, why not watch a film together? Make it fun as opposed to just sitting watching - start watching the film together and then one of you hits the mute key. The other partner then has to provide the speaking parts to the action on screen. This will either end up as a great laugh or a pleasant surprise as you find your partner or you are actually very good at articulating in dirty talk the action playing on screen!

Second option is to buy one or two adult books. No, I don't mean the kind that come in glossy covers perched high on the top shelf that help Hugh be able to afford even more dressing gowns - I mean the book type books!

There are adult books to sort all favor of taste and desire - finding something that lights your fire should not be a problem at all.

Once you have the book, again you have two options. Either read it to yourself prior to settling down with your partner, using what you have just read as examples and suggestions for you to expand on or actually read some of the juicier passages out to him. If you find something especially intoxicating to you both, make him act out what s written with you!

Finally, if neither of these ideas appeal - you can always just cast your mind back to any previous times you have enjoyed making love with your partner. Remember what he did, what you did and how it felt. The simply talk to him about it, tell him what you remember, how it made you feel and why it gave you pleasure.


How to Talk Dirty to My Boyfriend - Dealing With the Hardest Bit, Getting Started

By Duncan Roberts

Without going into your reasons and motivation for talking dirty to your boyfriend (because there is another article in that subject alone!) you are faced with a second choice to make following your first of deciding to actually talk dirty to him.

How do you get started?

More specifically, how do you get started in such a way that you don't surprise him so much he jumps out of bed thinking you are someone else, trip over the discarded clothes left strewn around the floor in your build up of lust and end up breaking his leg?

Well, there are a couple of things that you can do to 'ease' him into this new found pleasure.

Let's take a clinical view of your relationship for a second shall we?

Is your boyfriend or relationship the type where you tend to talk about most things in an open and free manner?

If it is, you have the option to actually ask him outright if he fancies you talking dirty and vice versa. Now I don't mean you should include it as just any other old subject like who's parents you are visiting this weekend and what shopping needs picking up from the store later - take a break, take a walk or have a 5 minute cuddle on the sofa and gently broach the subject, something along the lines of "Baby, I was just thinking the other day, remembering some of the great sessions we've had together in bed and out of it. The nicest thing was, as I was thinking about it all, I found I was getting quite aroused again - and that led me to think about trying talking dirty sometime. Would you like that, would you enjoy it do you think?"

Excellent way of broaching the subject and getting his feedback. Your explaining to him that just thinking about you and him together does it for you and you'd like to introduce another level of pleasure, verbal stimulation!

If you're both talkers and communicate - he'll answer you, don't worry!

But what if you aren't great talkers or you feel to shy to actually ask him first? How do you deal with introducing it now?

Here's what you do.

Break him in gently.

If you launch into your first session as soon as his hand touches you, reeling off the 15 most famous Porn film lines of all time - he'll pass out probably.

Be subtle, move into it slowly and gently.

Introduce it during some mutual foreplay or build up play.

Tell him how what he is doing to you makes you feel. Slip in a sentence here and there that is descriptive and emotional:-

"I love it when you touch me there like that, it makes me feel all tingly everywhere"

"Your touch is so gentle and soft, it really does turn me on."

If your boyfriend doesn't shy away or look at you as though you have suddenly developed two heads (don't worry, he won't!) then carry on talking softly, almost whispering.

And this is important - don't talk normally, don't shout. Whisper, murmur or even mumble. By lowering your voice and whispering, you create a sensed air of privacy, intimacy and closeness between just the two of you - and that will help your boyfriend join in, enjoy and ultimately want to participate in talking dirty!

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