How Long You Need to Wait Before Sexual Encounter

By Alexander Berson

Women may not be aware of this but when men start to date women, they have tendency to put women into two different categories. One would be called "worthwhile" and the other one would be called "good time only". You need to be careful which category you want to be in, because if he decides to place you into category that he chooses to, it will be hard to get out of that place.

If you decide to have sexual intercourse with him for the purpose of winning him, he will definitely sense your intentions and I can almost guarantee you that, slowly, he will begin to lose respect for you. If you are not sure what "good time only" and "worthwhile" means, I will describe them for you.

"Good time only" category is when women who usually talk a lot about sex on the first date or in there first phone conversation. Men will right away place you into this category. If your outfit is very short and overstated or you compliment him non-stop and basically hang all over him. I recommend avoiding this kind of behaviour if your intentions are serious long-term relationship with him.

"Worthwhile" category is simply opposite of the above listed. Women would more likely use body language to convey her sensuality. She would wear something that's' slightly sheer. Her sexuality seems like part of who she is. It does not seem intentional or forced but rather natural. She would give him chance to come close but not too close. She would give him hope, to make it look like he is still "in the game".

So the big question is: how long do you have to wait before you decide to have sexual encounter? My opinion is: as long as you can. If it takes six months or a year then I suggest do it only after that period of time. If your intention is to have healthy long-term relationship then I suggest you follow this rule. It also benefits you in other ways.

For one: if his intentions is just to get to you bed and nothing more than that, then most likely, men like that would not stick around, they would simply give up and leave. A man who really appreciates, respects, honors you will have no problem waiting for that long before sexual encounter.

Second: you will know more about him in that period of time before getting sexual. You never know if he is married or has a girlfriend. You will most likely find out in that period of time.
Waiting for that long also ensures that the man develops a habit of putting forth effort so that you are treated the way you want to be treated.

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