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August 19, 2008

Sex Game - Race Against the Clock

By Tony Higgins

In "Race against the Clock" you make a bet with your partner that you can give her a climax within X minutes. If you win, you get a reward, if you lose, she gets a reward.

This is a game for people who know each other well. You have to know how to satisfy your partner before you can play this game. How you satisfy your partner is up to you; oral sex is the most common way to play this game. Here is some advice on how to do it:

1.Decide who plays which role. Once that is clear, determine the amount of time. How many minutes does she have to give you a climax? This is sometimes the best part of the game, this chat, and our expectations about how we can perform. Make it realistic but challenging!

2.You will have to agree on which rules you will use. Most commonly, you are not allowed to move during this game, otherwise it would not be fair. But you can "cheat" a bit, and relax as much as possible, or think about things that don't excite you, to delay your climax.

3.The reward for the winner has to be discussed before you start. Be creative, there are several options: an erotic massage, a sex toy, oral pleasure, a dinner in town, you name it. Don't make the reward so small that it is not interesting, or so big it introduces stress in the game. Just pick something in between.

4.You then need a timer, preferably an electronic countdown timer, with an alarm. You will both be too distracted to watch a clock while you are busy. And it has to be crystal-clear when the game is over, because only then will we know who the winner and who the loser is!

5.When the button is pressed, you start and give it your best shot. And unless you hear the alarm ring, you keep going, because the race is still on. Once the alarm sounds or the climax is achieved, the game is over, and the winner can claim the reward.

When you both like games and competition, this is a very exciting game to play, something you will like to repeat.

Visit http://www.sex-manuals.com, to download the Ebook: "Sex Games - 50 Sex Games for Adventurous Couples." I ask for a small, voluntary donation, AFTER you have read the Ebook, and you donate ONLY if you are happy with it.

If you prefer a paperback version of the book, please visit http://www.lulu.com - "Sex Games" for more information.

Ebook or paperback, both options will guarantee that you have more fun and excitement in the bedroom! Tony Higgins

Sex Game - Peaches in Syrup

By Tony Higgins

Peaches in syrup are the perfect food to play with in the bedroom. Sweet, soft, sexy and healthy. There are lots of ways to enjoy peaches in the bedroom. It may be a good idea, to cover the bed with a plastic sheet, so you don't have to be too careful about spilling a drop or two.

When you buy the peaches in a can, do not take the ragged can into the bedroom after opening it. Put the peach and syrup in a bowl, to avoid cutting yourself in the heat of the game. This is not a joke; you do not want to have to interrupt this game because you have to look for band-aid.

1. The first game you can play, is simply feeding her. Take a sip of syrup from the bowl and let her drink from your mouth, in small sips. Take a piece of peach and let her eat it from your hand. When she is ready she can lick your fingers clean.

2. Take a piece of peach and trail a path over her body with it. Start with her lips, her neck, her earlobes, her breasts, her belly... When you are finished you follow the trail with your tongue, licking up all the syrup and giving pleasure meanwhile.

3. Give her most sensitive parts a peach-massage. A piece of peach is just as soft, if not softer, as your lips and tongue. Massage her lips, earlobes, nipples, and then move slowly down to her genitals. Use your fingers to spread her genital lips and softly massage her most sensitive spots...

4. The Peach Marker: she is lying down and rubs the spots of her body where she wants to be licked. You lick all the spots she touches with the peach, and take your time to lick every little drop from her skin.

5. The Alternative Peach Marker: You rub a part of your body you want her to lick with peach, and then bring it to her mouth, so she can just lie on her back and lick it, enjoying both the peach syrup and giving you pleasure.

6. For the most adventurous: she lies on her back and inserts small pieces of peach in her vagina. She then straddles you, sitting on your face, so you can retrieve these pieces with your tongue. You are not allowed to stop until the last piece is retrieved.

Visit http://www.sex-manuals.com, to download the Ebook: "Sex Games - 50 Sex Games for Adventurous Couples." I ask for a small, voluntary donation, AFTER you have read the Ebook, and you donate ONLY if you are happy with it.

If you prefer a paperback version of the book, please visit http://www.lulu.com - "Sex Games" for more information.

Ebook or paperback, both options will guarantee that you have more fun and excitement in the bedroom! Tony Higgins

Sex Game - Masturbating While Your Partner Watches

By Tony Higgins

There is an old joke about masturbating, that there are two kinds of people: those who masturbate and those who do not want to admit it...:-)

Masturbating is not such a taboo anymore, but masturbating while your partner watches you? This is on the one hand an exciting idea, and on the other hand, for a lot of people a bit scary.

To make this more exciting than scary there has to be a lot of trust between the two of you. If you have a good sex-life together, and the idea of seeing your partner playing with herself excites you, then you should try it together. The better you know each other sexually, the more you will enjoy having sex together.

Sometimes, all it takes to introduce this game in your sex-life, is to pick a moment when you are both naked and horny, and then guide your partners hand down, while you say: "It would really excite me to see you play with yourself, will you do that for me, please?" If she starts playing with herself, tell her how exciting this is, how beautiful it looks, and how much you enjoy this. Tell her: "Keep going, I want to see you come, I want to see you make yourself come..."

If this is all it takes, great. If not, and your partner is more hesitant, then a bit of gentle seduction can help.

On the day you want to introduce the game, take a long shower or bath together. Create a relaxed atmosphere, with relaxing music, candles, whatever brings the two of you in the most erotic mood. Then give your partner an erotic massage on the front-side of the body, using a lot of massage oil.

Once your partner is getting excited, put your hands on top of her hands, and massage together. Gently move her hands all over the body, and then down to the genitals, and tell how good this looks, how good this feels. Tell her to keep going, continue massaging the most sensitive spots, do it together and finish what you started.

If you build it up slowly, then most people will happily go along with the game, because it is a game for mutual pleasure, like all good games should be...

Visit http://www.sex-manuals.com, to download the Ebook: "Sex Games - 50 Sex Games for Adventurous Couples." I ask for a small, voluntary donation, AFTER you have read the Ebook, and you donate ONLY if you are happy with it.

If you prefer a paperback version of the book, please visit http://www.lulu.com - "Sex Games" for more information.

Ebook or paperback, both options will guarantee that you have more fun and excitement in the bedroom! Tony Higgins

Why Most Women Love a Big Penis

By Temitayo Olatunde

Although your lover might not openly admit it to you, the truth is that when it comes to penis size, most women love a big penis. First of all what is the definition of the "big" that most women refer to. A large number of women refer to "big" as being above seven inches long and five inches in girth. The problem of a small penis size is among the top three causes of sexual frustration for women, the others being premature ejaculation and impotence. It seems due to the caring nature of women they seem to assist their lovers in solving other issues in their lives and their relationship but when it comes to the issue of their lover's penile size they tend to hide under the statement of "it is not the size that matters but what you do with it."

But is the preference for a bigger penis size just based on the fact that a big penis is more aesthetically pleasing than a small one to women? Definitely not! One of the reasons that women tend to prefer a bigger size is that a bigger penis is capable of physically stimulating the sexual pleasure centers which are located both around the walls of the vagina and deep in the vagina. Although you could assist your lover in achieving orgasms by stimulating her clitoris, such orgasms are short-lived when compared to orgasms achieved by the combination of deep penetration of the vagina and stimulation of her clitoris due to the thickness of a "bigger sex organ". Such orgasms are much more explosive and longer lasting.

Another reason why a woman would tend to love a big penis is that it excites her and makes her much more open to orgasms. The sight of a large penis makes a large number of women go into overdrive. In simple words a large penis makes a lot of women sexually excited before foreplay even begins. This situation makes it much easier for such women to achieve multiple orgasms since their bodies are in a more receptive state of anticipating penetration by their large sized lovers.

In an anonymous survey carried out in 2004, it revealed that 85% of women wished it were possible for their lovers to increase their penile size. Meaning what most women want is a bigger penis size. It also revealed that such women have not told their lovers that their penile size is not enough for them. It seems most women are sensitive to their lovers and don't want to hurt his feelings because they feel that a man is stuck with whatever size of genitals he was born with.

But how wrong are such women. A large number of men with small and average penises have increased their "sexual member" with either penile exercises or a combination of penis enlargement pills and exercises. The exercises work in stretching and expanding penile tissues by forcing blood into the penile chambers. During rest days the penile tissues heal and grow into longer and wider sizes resulting in a bigger penis size.

Penis pills work by aiding blood flow to the genitals, healing stretched and expanded tissues and aiding in penis growth. These pills are similar to the supplements bodybuilders use in increasing the size of their muscles. Although penis pills would give you gains without engaging in a penile exercise program, such gains are usually short-lived. For this reason some penis pills merchants give you an exercise program to follow when you purchase their pills.

If you are worried about the small size of your penis, you should hurry and sign up for a quality penile enlargement exercise program and begin taking a herbal penis pill to fasten your gains. With these after a few weeks you would be surprised at the size of your "sexual member".

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Temitayo Olatunde is passionate about educating couples both young, middle aged and old on how they can enjoy a great sex life. Visit his site at PenisEnlargementUrl.com where he discusses a lot more on how to achieve an explosive sex life!

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