By Tony Higgins
There is an old joke about masturbating, that there are two kinds of people: those who masturbate and those who do not want to admit it...:-)
Masturbating is not such a taboo anymore, but masturbating while your partner watches you? This is on the one hand an exciting idea, and on the other hand, for a lot of people a bit scary.
To make this more exciting than scary there has to be a lot of trust between the two of you. If you have a good sex-life together, and the idea of seeing your partner playing with herself excites you, then you should try it together. The better you know each other sexually, the more you will enjoy having sex together.
Sometimes, all it takes to introduce this game in your sex-life, is to pick a moment when you are both naked and horny, and then guide your partners hand down, while you say: "It would really excite me to see you play with yourself, will you do that for me, please?" If she starts playing with herself, tell her how exciting this is, how beautiful it looks, and how much you enjoy this. Tell her: "Keep going, I want to see you come, I want to see you make yourself come..."
If this is all it takes, great. If not, and your partner is more hesitant, then a bit of gentle seduction can help.
On the day you want to introduce the game, take a long shower or bath together. Create a relaxed atmosphere, with relaxing music, candles, whatever brings the two of you in the most erotic mood. Then give your partner an erotic massage on the front-side of the body, using a lot of massage oil.
Once your partner is getting excited, put your hands on top of her hands, and massage together. Gently move her hands all over the body, and then down to the genitals, and tell how good this looks, how good this feels. Tell her to keep going, continue massaging the most sensitive spots, do it together and finish what you started.
If you build it up slowly, then most people will happily go along with the game, because it is a game for mutual pleasure, like all good games should be...
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