Role Play Ideas - The Day Spa

By Greg O Simpson

Role Play is an excellent tool to use in your sexual repertoire. Role Play gives you the ability to become someone else, either to help you lose your inhibitions or just to have a different kind of fun in the bedroom. One role play idea that we like is the concept of a Day Spa, with you as the "Service Provider" and your lover as the "Client."

You can create a mock spa environment for you and your lover and combine all the benefits of a day spa with all the heat and passion of truly amazing sex. Now that's our kind of spa! And no, we are not talking about a shady massage parlor located down a dark stairwell, in a back alley, advertising free "special touches." That's a different role play idea altogether.

Set the mood with candles and soft music. Set up a massage table in the bedroom or living room for massage appointments (you can use a futon or get a real massage table). Give your lover a variety of choices for fabulous spa treatments, from traditional baths, buffs and manicures to intimate oil rubs or more erotic deep tissue massages. And of course, by "deep" we mean "internal", if you get our drift. You can even offer "extra features" that can be added to enhance your treatments. The best part is, it all takes place in the comfort of your own home (or at least, in whatever private venue you choose). If you want to take it to another level, you can provide coupons for free treatments. Otherwise, we will leave the payment details up to you.

We just hope that at some point, your lover lets you switch roles.

If you would like to try out the Day Spa in your role play activities, get the Gentle Encounters Spa Coupons and give them to your lover as a gift. This article is written by Greg Simpson, one half of a very orgasmic couple. Men and Women, You can become more orgasmic too, alone or as a couple. We are dedicated to helping committed, loving couples improve their sex lives. Visit http://www.orgasmsforlife.com and sign up to get our excellent content and newsletter.

Is Premature Ejaculation an Issue in Your Relationship?

By Greg O Simpson

We prefer to use the phrase "early orgasm" instead of premature ejaculation because that may not be what you are experiencing. Of course, if orgasm happens within seconds of penetration, after only a short arousal period, that may be the case. On the other hand, if you have been working up the sexual tension all day, spent a long time in foreplay and air is thick with passion, then early orgasm may be the result of poor self-control or pure abandon.

The latter issue can have its merits, if both partners understand that is what is going to happen or you are under serious time constraints (read Quickie). And sometimes, you really do have to take care of yourself to be able to clear your head to take care of your partner. Also, if you are able to continue sexual activity even after the first orgasm, then just focus on having more of them! As many as you can!

The more pressing issue and the one which we want to focus on today is the former - poor self-control.

Poor sexual self-control is not something to be ashamed of. Our entire society is designed around instant gratification - gotta have it - gotta have it NOW! So instead of looking at the issue with shame, look at it with a desire to improve. First, you have to recognize that you are having trouble controlling your ability to hold off. Second, you have to realize that by holding off, you will experience something much greater.

Self-control is a skill that can be developed with practice. The easiest way to practice is alone, during masturbation. By focusing on yourself you will be able to read your body's signs, indicating that you are about to orgasm. What you want to do is stimulate yourself the way you like best and bring yourself to a point "just before" the point of no return and then stop all stimulation and let the energy dissipate. Then begin again and bring yourself back up the arousal ladder. Repeat the cycle as many times as you can. You might miss the "just before" point the first couple of times, as it is not something that you are used to, but don't worry. Just keep practicing.

As you get better at reading the signals, trying changing things up when you restart the cycle. You can change the intensity, try different erogenous zones, change your breathing, change the image in your mind, etc. Learn to read the changes you experience and how they affect your arousal. Over time, you will be able to sense when it is time to change and know what you need to do to slow down your arousal cycle so that you can last longer and achieve a much higher state of arousal and ultimately a better, stronger orgasm.

Also, don't forget to practice this during your actual lovemaking as well. You always learn faster when thrown right into the fire and this fire is only going to get hotter and hotter.

This article is written by Greg Simpson, one half of a very orgasmic couple. Men and Women, You can become more orgasmic too, alone or as a couple. We are dedicated to helping committed, loving couples improve their sex lives. Visit http://www.orgasmsforlife.com and sign up to get our excellent content and newsletter.

Learn to Talk Dirty Through Body Language

By Chris J Roberts

You may not realize it but your body language can be used as a form of talking dirty. You bat your eyelashes, lick your lips, swirl you tongue around a Popsicle you get the picture I'm sure you all watch TV and in many episodes this form of dirty talk is used.

If you are new to talking dirty I suggest you start with the body language and let your body do the dirty talking for you. Eventually your voice will catch up and be able to form words and sentences with the wild thoughts that are running through your head.

In the mean time spend a little time watching couples in public and you will learn how to talk dirty using your body language. Couples often think no one notices these little things and most of the time they are right people are doing their own thing and not really paying much attention to what's going on around them.

That is what makes "couple watching" an ideal way to learn how to use their body language to talk dirty to their lovers. As with everything else you need to follow a few rules. First NEVER stare; you don't want them to know you're watching them. This will create the image of a pervert in their minds and your lesson for the day will be over as they give you a disgusted look and walk away. But it doesn't end there they will remember you and the next time you're at the mall, the park or wherever you where they will they will recognize you and if you are with your boyfriend and they just happen to know him you may have some undesired explain to do.

People watching is an art, you are not going to learn anything if they know they are being watched. Be discreet but present, in other word hiding the bushes is not a good idea, nor is taking out a notebook and taking notes!

Once you learn the basics of using body language to talk dirty the act of speaking dirty talk will come naturally.

Chris Roberts writes articles focusing mainly on relationships, love and romance. He recommends The Ultimate Talk Dirty Manual. Get everything you need to know and will never run out of ideas by visiting How-To-Talk-Dirty-To-Your-Boyfriend.com.

Getting Over Your Fear of Talking Dirty

By Chris J Roberts

If talking dirty is new in your relationship and not something you have experience in doing it can be a little embarrassing. For some women just the thought of talking dirty creates a fear. You don't have to fear what your boyfriend will say or how he will react if you talk dirty to him. You can easily get over your fear of talking dirty in a few simple steps.

First and most importantly follow your boyfriends lead if he is always whispering dirty little thoughts into your ear or talking dirty during sex then chances are he would very much appreciate you talking dirty to him. My best advice is to try it start with something low key and see how he reacts if he seems to enjoy it you will know. The same is true if he doesn't care for it you will be able to tell that as well just by the funny look on his face.

When all else seems to fail ask him! Most men will say yes talk dirty to me 99 out of a 100 times. Once you know how he feels about it then ask him if there is anything he would prefer you didn't say. This is also the perfect opportunity for you to tell him if there are some things that he already says that makes you uncomfortable. This is will allow you to set up your dirty talk boundaries.

If you still have a fear of talking dirty to your boyfriend, and then practice when he isn't around and start slow don't rent a porn movie to see how they do it! If you need a little help read an erotic story and pay close attention to how the characters in the story converse, including their timing and the types of words they use.

We all know there are two types of dirty talk the sweet loving talk you share with your lover and then the raunchy stuff you hear in a porn movie.

Follow these few tips and you'll be over your fear of talking dirty in a very short time and you will no doubt begin to enjoy it!

Chris Roberts writes articles focusing mainly on relationships, love and romance. He recommends The Ultimate Talk Dirty Manual. Get everything you need to know and will never run out of ideas by visiting How-To-Talk-Dirty-To-Your-Boyfriend.com

Sexual Foreplay Tips - How to Drive Your Woman Wild in Bed Immediately

By Lee John

According to experts, women needs 20 minutes of arousal time before they reach the "orgasmic platform" (Source: Cosmopolitan). As a matter of fact, many women complained that their partners do not spend enough time in foreplay and move to penetration too quickly! If you are making the same mistake, an affair will not be very far behind. In this article you will learn the sexual foreplay techniques that will drive her wild and put back to smile on her face.

1. Massage: to begin with, slowly take off her cloth as well s yours. Then, gently massage all part of her breast. Gently rub, stroke and caress her breast. Devour all your efforts and attention to the breast like it is a piece of art. As you massage, monitor her body response and her breath to feel how she responds to your touch. Or, you may even ask her how she would like you to do it better.

2. Blind folding: blind folding is a perfect way to provide exciting and unpredictable foreplay. You don't need to buy a special blind fold just for this purpose, anything that is enough to cover your eyes (eg. her scarf) will do the jobs. Here's how to do it: blind fold her and let her lie on her back while you try to stimulate her. You can surprise her with some unusual patterns and methods that you have not before. For example, if you always start with French kissing her, try kissing her thighs or bite her breast instead. It will add a lot more fun to the foreplay and stimulate her to higher level.

3. Teasing technique: you may use this technique with your lips, tongue, fingers or hands. Here's how it works: suppose her sensitive area is clitoris. You start by caressing or stroking the areas around clitoris gently, but do not touch her clitoris at all. While you are stimulating her, monitor her breath and monitor response. After her breath becomes deeper and faster, it's a sign that she is near climax. Next, slowly move your hands or lips to clitoris and touch the areas gently. It will help her climax very quickly. Here I am using clitoris as an example, you may experiment the technique in other sensitive areas.

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