How to Last Longer in Bed - Without Pills Or Potions

By Jeff Hartman

Let's face it, the worst thing for any relationship is an issue with premature ejaculation. You and your partner can have the best relationship but if you suck in the sack then it will never be a truly perfect relationship.

Perhaps it is not a relationship you are after and you just want to cure you early ejaculation problems. In this article will we will discuss exactly what you need to be aware of in order to cure your premature ejaculation.

There is no worse advice than "just take these pills" or "rub this ointment into your penis". None of these "remedies" work. These kind of remedies prey on insecurities in order to make a fast buck. The answer to your problems is not in some quick-fix wonder drug, but in the way you have allowed yourself to view sex.

When you were young the primary purpose of masturbation was to orgasm. For most teenagers there is absolutely no other reason. As a result you have effectively trained your body to react in specific ways to stimulation. The stories you hear about some men orgasming simply by being touched are not myths.

The solution to your premature ejaculation issue is to change. Change the way you view sex. In your teenage years you had to orgasm in a rush. You didn't want your parents, friends or even teachers to catch you. Now that life is not so rushed, you can slow down.

Don't worry, you don't need to involve others in your "re-training". This is something that you can do on your own. Start getting used to gentle stimulation (and eventually strong stimulation) while holding back the urgency to come.

Download the step by step how to last longer guide at http://howtolastlonger.org

Problems in Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Starting With E

By Levi Reiss

Whether heterosexual, homosexual, or somewhere in the middle we all want to improve our sex life. Who wants to be alone? We can't offer you an article, magic pill, perfume, potion, or pick-up line that will automatically send you and your intended partner to the bedroom. However, I really do believe that you can perk up your sex life whoever you are.

This article focuses on the problems and pitfalls that prevent you from improving your sex life. Another series focuses on what you should be doing. Both our "negative" and "positive" suggestions will help you get what you want. Here we look at embarrassed, evasive, and exaggerate.

E is for embarrassed. Don't be embarrassed. Don't be embarrassed about your body. Don't be embarrassed that certain special parts are too small, too big, too soft, too hard (that's a good one), or too misshapen (that's a bad one.) Don't be embarrassed about your partner. Or partners. Or partner's partners. It can get hairy. Don't be embarrassed about your hair, or anyone's hair. If you are bald, don't be embarrassed about that. Now that I think of it, don't be embarrassed about you. Let's change the subject a bit. What should you do if your partner is embarrassed about you? The answer is simple, be embarrassed. And change partners.

E is for evasive. What does evasive mean? Simple, beating around the bush. Isn't that what you really want to do, beat around the bush? (By the way, I'm not talking about beating around the Bush. That's another subject, which we will continue to avoid in these articles.) Don't be evasive, be straight-forward. On occasion this means saying in effect No Comment or I'm not going to tell you. Such an answer is much clearer than trying to do an end run. It may even convince your partner not to ask you again, even if he or she remains curious.

E is for exaggerate. The biggest and the best. You are not the biggest and the best. It is not the biggest and the best. Don't you hate people who always exaggerate? I do. I really can't stand them. They make my blood boil. Literally. But seriously, if you tend to exaggerate then you are probably dissatisfied with the truth. Take a look at the way things really are. Do what you can to make them better. But just saying that things are better than they truly are doesn't make it so. On the contrary, if you believe your exaggerations then there is no reason to change things. You are already there. Only one problem, you are here, and not there. Constant exaggeration will not make it happen.

Are you tired of all this negativity? Take a look at our companion series that accentuates the positive.

Levi Reiss has authored or co-authored ten books on computers and the Internet, but to be honest, he would rather just drink fine wine, eat fine food, and enjoy life. He teaches classes in computers at an Ontario French-language community college. Among his many web sites he is particularly proud of his new site celebrating all kinds of love including physical love at http://www.sexsexesex.com. You will find a wide range of jokes, articles, and quotes devoted to various aspects of sex and a great collection of photos. If you don't know French, enjoy the translations. Check out his global wine website at http://www.theworldwidewine.com.

Over 40 Sexual Problems

By Marlene C. Griffin

What are sexual problems?

Sexual problems prevent a person or couple from enjoying sexual activity. Sexual problems may develop gradually over time or may start suddenly. They include problems like not being interested in sex, not being excited about sex, being unable to have sex, or not being able to have an orgasm.

How do they occur?

The causes of sexual problems can be physical, emotional, or both.

Physical causes include:

• alcohol or drugs such as nicotine, narcotics, stimulants, blood pressure medicines, and some antidepressants
• chronic pain
• an enlarged prostate gland
• problems with blood supply
• nerve damage, for example from a spinal cord injury or from surgery
• diseases such as heart disease, diabetes, cancer, or lung disease thyroid, pituitary, or adrenal gland problems
• hormone problems such as low testosterone or low estrogen.

Emotional causes of sexual problems include:

• lack of trust or poor communication between partners
• depression
• past sexual abuse or memories of painful intercourse
• believing sexual intercourse is a duty or only for the purpose of having children
• religious beliefs that sex should not be enjoyable
• fear that sex is dangerous if you have health problems
• fear of being rejected or of being unable to perform well
• feeling awkward or embarrassed
• anger
• not finding your partner attractive
• having a poor body image or lack of self-esteem
• fear of pregnancy.

When women feel that they are misunderstood, unappreciated, or unattractive, they will often have less sexual desire. Sexuality is both pleasure and communication.

Many men blame their lack of sexual desire on stress or worries. Rather than talking about these issues, they may avoid sex.

What are the symptoms?

• lack of interest or desire in sex
• being unable to feel aroused
• pain with intercourse (much more common in women)
• trouble having an erection or not being able to keep an erection long enough to finish having sex
• premature ejaculation
• being unable to relax vaginal muscles enough to allow intercourse
• not enough vaginal lubrication before and during intercourse
• being unable to have an orgasm.

How are they treated?

Treatment depends on the cause of the sexual problem. If you are concerned that you have a sexual problem, see your healthcare provider. Physical causes may be treated with medicine or, in some cases, with surgery. Physical therapy and mechanical aides may help people with some illnesses, conditions, or disabilities.

Talking openly and supporting each other is a very important part of treating emotional causes of sexual problems. Education about sex and sexual behaviors or responses may also be helpful. Books, videos, and movies offer the chance to watch different sexual behavior. You and your partner may want to discuss and try something new if you feel it might improve your relationship.

Some couples may benefit from sexual therapy. Sex therapy is based on the beliefs that sex is healthy and that relationships should be meaningful. Sex therapists believe sexual skills are learned, and that learning more about sex may help correct some sexual problems. The therapy is short, usually 10 to 20 sessions. Between sessions you may be given homework assignments. These assignments may include exercises involving communication or touching. The goal is to help couples improve their intimate relationship.

Psychotherapy may help people deal with anxieties, fears, inhibitions, or poor body image.

What can I do to help myself?

Talking with your partner in a clear and positive way may be the most important part of a healthy sexual relationship. Open and effective communication can go a long way insolving sexual problems.

Find a time when you both are free to listen and talk with one another. Don't try to have a conversation while everyone is getting ready to leave the house in the morning or when things are hectic. If you already have a time when you often talk about personal things, that might be a good time to start the conversation.

Start by saying something like: "Lately I've been thinking about ...," or "Sometimes I've been worried about ..." and then say as clearly as you can what is on your mind. It's okay to not always have the right words. It can help to use "I" language. For example, say "I feel...I need...I want...."

The final step to good communication is listening. Sometimes your partner says things you don't agree with or don't want to hear. The best communication is when each partner says clearly what they think and feel and also tries to understand what the other person is thinking and feeling.

Nearly every couple has sexual problems at some time in their lives. Most sexual problems can be treated. The first step is to accept that there is a problem, and then get the needed help.

Marlene Griffin R.N. Website URL--http://womenover40health.com Email: marlenegriffin@womenover40health.com I've been a registered nurse for 30 years and nearing retirement. However, I would like to continue helping my "patients" by way of my website. My focus is primarily on women over age 40 issues, but I receive emails from women younger and that's fine. Please send your comments, suggestions, questions and remarks to me and I will try my very best to respond within a few days. I like to read your email very carefully and try to put myself in your position to understand your concerns, before responding. I am genuinely a "people person" with a big heart; very empathetic and sympathetic, intuitive and caring. Medical issues are difficult to handle online sometimes. I cannot be certain I've made things more clear for the reader or more muddy. This is the reason I need your feedback, negative and positive. I do hope you find my website helpful. Thank you for allowing me to serve you.

Can You Use Mind Control to Seduce a Woman? The Secret of Magnetic Men Revealed

By Danny Fredricks

In this article we are going to look at the power of mind control to seduce women and how so MANY men are able to become magnetically and magnificently attractive...EVEN while outwardly appearing unappealing by so many more conventional standards. So if you are looking for an EASY way to become more attractive to women that ordinarily would seem OUTSIDE of your ability to get, continue reading as as we explore the wild and wooly world of MIND control techniques for men who WANT to be MORE successful with women everywhere! Read on..:-)

Filed Under: The Art and Science of Adventure

The very simple truth of ALL mental persuasion techniques that are worth exploring is the POWER of turning a likely "NO"...into a rabid and raving "YES!" in rapid fire turn around time...:-) This is FAR easier than it seems once you know how to PATTERN interrupt when talking to a beautiful woman. Don't let any of the EXOTIC and intellectual language of Conversational Hypnosis and mind control fool you, it's simply about creating powerful and compelling stories in the subconscious mind of the subject, and taking them for an exciting ride on the sexy surfboard of adventure...ALL within the confines of confident conversation!

Filed Under: Tips and Techniques

The key to becoming more conversationally magnetic is through astute observation. Studying conversational cues is powerful.....looking for foundational statements, recurrent patterns and leading questions is a key component of ALL covert cognitive psychology and is NO different here. Reading between the lines is OFTEN where the fruit lies, and simply learning to dissect meanings that her inner self is "leaking" is a fantastic way of delving and diving into her inner world of thoughts, needs and desires. Milton Erikson, the founder of what would later be called Conversational Hypnosis believed in "pattern interrupts" to gain confidence...but to also create "ethical" confusion in the subject, leading to greater trust and bonding in conversations both large AND small alike. Very powerful stuff!

Filed Under: The Simple Facts

Women LOVE a confident man. You don't need me to convince you of that, right? EVERYONE knows that the men who score with the hottest women are NOT the best looking guys, but simply the ones that are IRRESISTIBLE. Rest assured, you CAN use conversational hypnosis to ethically become a powerful conversationalist, and phenomenal LISTENER and a passionate advocate of the elaborate adventure that goes on BOTH in the subconscious minds of all of us, as WELL in the hearts and heads of BEAUTIFUL women everywhere. This much I promise!

And remember, to become POWERFULLY magnetic should be the aspiration of EVERY man (or woman) who simply wants to SUCK all of the JOY and juice out of life and eat from the fruits of unlimited power, PASSION and potential. I believe we are EACH given the ability to focus our MINDS, and our desires on that which we DESPERATELY wish to achieve, and that THIS is the fundamental truth and promise that hypnosis holds for all who dare to indulge in it's secrets. Unlocking your own hidden potentials, and freeing yourself from FEARS, phobias and unresolved issues is JUST the beginning. Once you learn the true key to how OTHER people's brains really tick, you will be able to effortlessly and ETHICALLY enter and occupy their mind space with CONFIDENCE and care, illuminating your own power, charisma and INFINITE appeal to all who gravitate to your space. There is MAGIC in this world if you know where to look....for the mind control expert the GATES are OPEN!

Should a Christian Husband Demand Sex?

By Chess McDoogle

Christian intimacy is a wonderful aspect to Christianity, and a very, very important element to a Christian relationship. Having said that, if intimacy within a Christian marriage is severely lacking or even non-existent, then should a Christian husband demand sex? Here are the answers:

1. What Christian sex is and isn't:

Sex within a Christian marriage differentiates itself by having a set of general rules which Christians should abide by. One of those rules is that intimacy be of a shared nature. Therefore, if the wife is not wanting or willing to partake in sexual intimacy, then even despite how important it should be towards the relationship, the Christian husband should not demand sex from his wife.

2. What the Christian husband can and should demand:

Now while answering the question should a Christian husband demand sex by stating that, no he should not, he should rather demand something else, that will in turn lead to more intimacy. He should demand that his wife explore her problems of intimacy and explore why she is resisting the amazing gift God has provided for all Christians to partake in, sex! He should demand, that together, they research the beauty of intimacy and why it is so important to celebrate this great intimate practice, and how it can and should bring Christian couples closer together, creating a long, strong, and spiritually sound bond that most couples never experience to the fullest.

3. How to increase sex within a Christian marriage:

The subject needs to be met head on. An excellent way to bring the matter forward is by getting a Christian sex guide or manual which will perhaps shed new light on how and why Christian sex is so important, and should be practiced regularly.

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