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July 16, 2008

Your First Guide to How to Give Cunnilingus For Cunnlingus Orgasms

By Maurice Tate

Learning how to give cunnilingus is one of the best ways for men to learn how to give women powerful orgasms without being a super stud.

Many women do not come from intercourse, so they really adore cunnilingus orgasms from oral sex. Many sex surveys show that most women want men to do more oral sex and to spend more time giving cunnilingus.

And, men take note, if you give great cunnilingus, you will most likely receive yummy oral sex in return.

To learn the art of cunnilingus, you need a few tips to keep in mind.

Every women is different as regards to how she likes to be licked. Some ladies like it soft and gentle with no strong stimulation on the clitoris, while others love it hard and stimulating.

Just to confuse men, women can change how they like receiving oral sex, depending on their emotional moods.

So a man has to learn to tune into his lover by reading her body language signals, her erotic sounds and energy.

The best way to do this for a beginner is to ask her what she likes and does not like. Let go of being the expert and let her start to guide you to what she really likes.

One can ask simple questions like, "do you want more pressure" and see what she says. There is no point in doing one cunnilingus method when she really likes another and doesn't want to tell you as she is scared it could hurt your ego.

Now men love receiving oral sex at any time and any day. Not so with most women. It is very important a girl is in the mood for receiving cunnilingus, so great foreplay is a must.

Another great tip for giving cunnilingus is the art of the tease. This is done by licking and kissing the erotic hot zones of the body but avoiding the genital area. One can get close then move away. Tease her again and again until you know she wants oral sex from her body language. She could open her legs and arch her back as one sexual body language sign.

Advanced methods of learning how to give cunnilingus include combining g sot massage and oral sex. Women can have huge orgasms from this method that really shake their body. As this is too adult for this site, I discuss this method in my free newsletter at free cunnilingus

Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology.

One can also combine foreplay with dirty talking to ramp up the sexual energy before oral sex. I cover this at dirty talking tips

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Christian Sex Skills!

By Chess McDoogle

What is really important in a Christian relationship? Certainly love and commitment are paramount, but celebrating your union through intimacy should also be very important. And learning how to celebrate that intimacy so that it resonates to the highest degree possible is where Christian sex skills come in.

Every Christian couple should have a joyous, exciting and sensual Christian sex life. In order to do that, they should learn how to make intimacy the best it can be. Exciting, sensual and safe.

How to create amazing Christian sex skills:

First, get past any roadblocks you may have. This will include personal intimacy issues or problems. Most often, these concern evolve around the so-called "rules" of Christian sex. You can easily find out what is allowable and what is not by reading a good Christian intimacy manual. Mostly it is safety which is of paramount concern as far as rules go. You'll likely be pleasantly surprised at what all is accepted within Christian sex practice.

Next, find ways to elevate your sex life. This can simply be done by learning tips and techniques which are Christian safe, and will be very exciting, erotic, and pleasurable for both of you. Again, a good intimacy manual written by a Christian will be a great resource for dozens of ways to increase intimacy through lovemaking technique.

Finally, celebrate often! One of the main concerns of many couples is that their intimacy tends not to be as often as they would like. Why is that? Many times life can get the best of us and we can fall into a routine based around are work, while ignoring our personal life. This is natural, but a monkey wrench must be thrown into this hamster wheel way of life. You must take time for intimacy, and you must make that intimacy extremely pleasurable, erotic and exciting. The best, and easiest way to do it is by learning new and exciting Christian sex skills!

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How to Last Longer in Bed

By Emma Drosy

Lovemaking is an experience in itself. Both you and your partner need to enjoy this experience, it is therefore necessary that you last longer in bed to enjoy every minute of it. However, 93% of men experience having orgasm quicker than they wanted to be, desperate men seek unnatural remedies but still fail.

This article is therefore made to provide you with few advices on how you can last longer in bed to pleasure both you and your partner.

Things to remember about sex

ท Be confident. Worrying about your performance will definitely affect your performance in while lovemaking.

ท Do not think of orgasm as sex. Sex is in itself the experience and whether you orgasm or not, it is still sex. Thinking of orgasm will make you orgasm quicker than you wish it would.

ท Think of sex as a pleasurable experience, which both you and your partner need to enjoy. This will stop you from thinking how well you perform.

ท Avoid using erecting lotions, creams, sprays and gels. It will hold pre-ejaculation but you will be less sensitive and will lose the great feeling of sex.

Techniques to last longer in bed

ท Relax, do not rush things, enjoy the experience and you may possibly control your orgasm long enough as you want it to.

ท Extend the foreplay. Foreplay will give a higher level of pleasure for your partner. Penetration will come easy when both of you have enjoyed the sex together.

ท If possible, be underneath your partner. This will help you control orgasm that will lead to longer sex experience.

ท Do not rush thrusting, being too excited about the penetration will speed up orgasm. You, of course, do not want this.

Relaxing and keeping pace during sex may be difficult, but if you want to stay longer in bed with your partner pleasured as you do, you surely want to learn how to do this.

Patience is always the secret of improving in any endeavor. Sex is an endeavor if you wanted to ensure pleasure for yourself and your partner. You need to learn how to control yourself and feel every moment of your lovemaking.

Seduce a Woman Into Bed - How to Seduce a Successful Woman

By Rob Dev

As the self-professed "dating guru" I always strive to let men know that gender stereotypes still exist. What do I mean by that? I mean that women will more often than not, wait to be asked for a date, wait to be asked for the second date, and wait to be lured into bed. We are taught at an early age, that this is the way it should be. In many ways, gender gaps have been narrowed, and differences have been bridged and that is good. This is still not the case where sex is concerned.

The only way for a man to know if the woman he is with wants sex is to be more forward, and find out. I try to make a point in all my articles and websites that no means no. If she says no, then its over, end of story. But short of that, it is true that women want sex too.

That is also true of successful women. Successful women want sex too, so why does this prize tend to allude us? Precisely because we think of it as a prize. If you are looking for a trophy for you mantel then forget about it, you are looking the wrong way.

You have to approach her as an equal. You both have brains, make sure she sees you that way. When I was a lowly retail clerk, I had the pleasure of an executive of a major international airline. She knew what I did, but she saw me for what I was, not what I did. If you approach her right, she won't be looking down on you, so you will not have to look up to her.

You need to strip down, psychologically. If there is any hint of a power struggle, its over.

When you reach the end of your life, what will you regret more, what you tried and failed, or what you didn't even attempt.

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2 Warnings For Sexual Assault Forum Users

By Sarah Waters

It is believed that 1 out of every 4 girls, and one in 7 boys will experience forced sexual contact before the age of 18. Internet forums abound to help survivors of child sexual abuse, but they should be used with caution. As unreal as it seems, these forums can, in some cases, inflict further harm on already damaged survivors.

The first thing to consider is whether or not the forum you choose can be read publicly. This means that anyone who is on the internet can read postings, not just people who are members of the forum. It may feel safer to know only members of the forum can read what is posted. On the other hand, it is possible that sexual predators may create false profiles and join the forums anyway. They receive sexual stimulation when detailed accounts of child sex abuse are shared, and more frighteningly, they may befriend abuse survivors and try to make contact outside the internet. Even in a place "safe" for abuse victims, you must be wary of those who encourage meeting in the real world.

The second warning is: Not All Abuse is Created Equally. There is danger in comparing your reaction to childhood sexual abuse to the reactions of others. There are so many factors involved, some of which are who did the abusing, what the abuse actually entailed, and the psychological development of the child at the time the abuse occurred. Individual victims' personalities also play a role in how they deal with the abuse. Comparing yourself to another victim is like comparing apples and oranges, and can cause you to wonder why you are not coping as well as someone else. The truth is there is no right way to deal with your sexual abuse. There is just the way you choose to deal with it.

Internet forums for survivors of childhood sexual abuse can be great resources for finding support from people who understand what you're going through. As with all things, you just need to be cautious.

Sarah Waters is a survivor of childhood sexual assault. She has written a gut-wrenching ebook about her abuse and the long term consequences she faces. You may learn more about her struggle at http://www.sarahsurvives.com