Sexuality Tips For You.

August 5, 2008

5 Ways to Unleash Her Inner Sexual Animal Side

By Alex R Coulson

If you've been with a woman for any length of time, you'll find that sometimes the sex get a little stale. It's no one's fault; it just happens. Here are a few ways to spice things up and have fun with each other again.

Play act your fantasies. Everyone fantasizes. They just usually don't let other people know about them. Some evening, turn down the lights, or light up some candles and sit down together and cuddle. Ask her what is her favorite fantasy. If she says 'I don't have one', don't accept that as an answer. Coax and tease it out of her by tickling and being just a little ornery. When she tells you the answer, then act out her fantasy with her. You will be amazed at how excited you both will get. Later on you can act out one of your fantasies. At least the ones that require only one partner.

Remember the game 'Truth or Dare'? It ranked right up there with 'Spin the Bottle', but it was a little more dangerous. When someone asked you a question you had to answer with the truth or take a dare. Now as much fun as it was to play as a young teenager, it's a LOT more fun when you play with your partner. Make it all about sex. Ask intimate, playful questions. If she doesn't want to answer, then make the dare her doing a strip tease for you, right then and there. You can't lose either way.

Be a little kinky. Remember a few paragraphs back when I suggested that you act out your fantasies? Well, this is along that same vein, but with a little twist. Get dressed up. You know, use costumes. I know it sounds a little weird, but this is SUPPOSED to be kinky. So what if you look ridiculous! Laugh and have a great time while playing. Get hot and bothered and play it out. You'll be surprised how a little play and dressing up will spice up your sex life.

Now, this last suggestion you'll want to be cautious with. Video tape or photograph your girl. You'll make her feel like a supermodel. It makes a woman ABSOLUTELY hot when she feels like she's beautiful. They become freaking Amazons! Just be careful to let her have the ownership of the video or the pictures.

Lastly, if you want to draw out the sex animal in your woman, just take command. Be the lead of every single aspect of sex for the evening. When you take charge, and she is the object of your sexuality, she will become like putty in your hands.

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Sex Games - The Copy Cat

By Tony Higgins

In the "Copy Cat" sex game we pay attention to what our partner is doing and then we mirror this. When she kisses you softly, you kiss her softly. When he holds you tight, you hold him tight.
There is a certain "Law of Sex", which states that we always make love to someone in the way we would like this someone to make love to us. With this game you actively use this law to give your partner a very special experience. This is how it is done:

1. This is a game in which you don't discuss with your partner what you are doing. This is not dishonest, because you do it for mutual pleasure, and telling what you do would only make her self-conscious, and cause her to behave differently.

2. Pay attention to every detail, and mirror it back to her. For example:

-If she holds you by putting her hands on your lower back, you also put your hands on her lower back.
-If she moves slowly and deliberately, you also slow down and do the same.
-When she kisses, and sticks her tongue deep in your mouth, you stick out your tongue too.
-When she makes love to you roughly, you don't touch her gently, but just as rough.
-When she is quiet, you are quiet, and when she begins to moan, you also become vocal.
-When she talks dirty to you, talk back dirty.

3. Do not exaggerate the first time you do this, just pick out some details and mirror them back to her. If you would mirror everything back, and you are a good actor, she might sense what you are doing, and it would be less natural. Slowly and smoothly introduce the "Copy Cat" sex game into your bedroom.

4. In long-term relationships we often play this game sub-consciously, and get used to how our partner wants to enjoy her sex. But bringing this game to a conscious level speeds up this process. By the way, if she ever notices what you do, simply admit what you are doing; explain what you do and that you do it for your mutual pleasure.

Getting in the habit of playing the "Copy Cat" game will help you get to know your partner much better sexually. When you pay attention to details, you can "play her like a violin" and make some good music together...

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Tony Higgins

8 Questions You Must Answer in Order to Find Out If You Are Satisfying Your Man in Bed

By Steve Ubah

1. How do you react when your man makes those midnight moves on you to initiate sex? Do you push him aside, or do you simply tell him that you want to be left alone because you have a headache?

2. How many times in a month do you initiate sex with your mate? Is it once, twice or never? The more you initiate sex, the more your man will fall in love with you.

3. When you want to make love do you simply lie down and let your man do all the work? And, do you have problems doing the same things he is does in order to turn you on?

4. Do you enjoy kissing your man or do you prefer to make love to him without kissing him? Men love women who enjoy kissing while making love.

5. When was the last time you went to bed with your man while wearing a lingerie? Do you feel more comfortable wearing your regular night gown to bed?

6. When was the last time you told your man that you loved when while making love to him? Talk about an ego booster. Tell your man you love him while making love to him and you will see the biggest smile you have ever seen.

7. When was the last time you cuddled with your man on the couch and then made love afterwards?

8. Do you let your man know what he can do to make you reach orgasm, or do you simply let him figure out what pleases you in bed?

Once you answer these questions truthfully and honestly you will discover that you may not necessarily be doing all the things you could be doing to make sure you give your man a good time in bed. You may also discover that you are every man 's dream -- a woman that knows how to make love and satisfy a man 's sexual needs.

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4 Secret Ways to Sexually Attract Women

By Scott Patterson

Trying to sexually attract women can be incredibly easy for some people, and yet incredibly hard for others. Some seem to think that trying to sexually attract women is pointless, as it is something that is out of their control. While it is true that the rules for trying to sexually attract women are different than what men would want themselves, it is possible to tweak your first impression in an attempt to sexually attract women in a better and more efficient way.

By highlighting certain points of yourself, and lessening others, you can attract a woman in a way that you did not realize. By following these tips, learning to sexually attract women will be easier than you thought it could be.

#1 - Focus on How you Look, but Only to a Point

While looks are not necessarily the most important thing when trying to sexually attract women, it is still an important factor. There are many people who expect looks to be the only factor in terms of sexual attraction; these are usually men, as many men find looks as the most important aspect of sexual attraction. When trying to attract a woman, however, you must change your view on the situation. With that being said, it is still incredibly important to make sure that you look your best. Anyone who attempts to say that looks are unimportant are wrong; while it may not be the most important thing, those who are more attractive catch your eye easier. This is a great way to make an important impression before you even open your mouth to speak.

#2- Focus on your Personality

Women are drawn to men who have personalities. Sure, they want someone who looks good, but they also want someone who intrigues them. Trying to sexually attract women relies on more than just looks alone. By making certain aspects of your personality shine, you can help to work on sexually attract women. Be a gentleman; offer her a drink, a snack, or a seat. Showing positive personality traits will make you even more attractive to women.

#3- Focus on Conversation

Conversation is easily the ultimate way to get your personality across to a woman. By having conversation, she can learn more about you, and can become more intrigued by you. If you are trying to sexually attract women, you must be able to hold a conversation; women want more than just looks, as they want someone they can talk to. Believe it or not, the ability to talk is incredibly attractive to women.

#4- Focus on Humor

Being able to make a woman laugh is one of the quickest ways to gain her approval. By making sure you focus on being funny (when appropriate), you can succeed with women. Do not go overboard, however, as too much humor can be a put off.

If you are trying to sexually attract women, follow these simple steps. By following these steps, you can make sure that you are taking the correct steps to sexually attract women.

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How to Make Women Happy in Bed - Part II

By Rajgopal Venkataraman

In a previous article (by the same name) I had mentioned some statements that ought to be used in bed with a woman and these statements are so powerful that a woman will want to go to bed with you repeatedly. Here are some more statements that will make her drool for you.

1. You are such a good lover: For many men ego is a big drawback. They just think and assume that they are the best lovers and women cannot match them. Remember ego has no place in the bedroom if you want pleasure. Tell her how good she is at making love and see what you get back.

2. I have been fantasizing being one with you all day: If you are in a mood to talk dirty this is a good beginning if you are with your girlfriend or wife.

3. I love it when you --------: Fill in the blank yourself. Let her know when she does something that makes you feel great. If you love the way she pleases you in a particular way then let her know that and who knows you might get a better performance every time.

4. Does that feel good? Communication is extremely important while in bed. Do not just go through the motions like a keyed up robot.

5. I could kiss you forever: Great to use either before or after sex. Do not thrust your tongue down her throat but instead kiss her with more passion and that is a sure turn on for women.

Try to use these simple statements often and see the difference it makes to your sex life. Soon you will be getting exhausted due to her raging urges!

Like I always say most men have more sex in their brains than in their loins. Sex gets better when you understand your partner better.

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