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September 7, 2008

The Best Female Orgasm - Learn the Secrets

By Bryan Burbank

It is most important that when you are giving your female partner an orgasm that you some of the secrets to help you be a better lover. The problem that you may run into is that men are usually in a hurry when it comes to sex and with a woman you must take you time and be patient. A man will have an orgasm much faster than a woman so you may have a situation were the man have been satisfied and the woman has not and this creates the woman faking it.

The first thing that you want to do is to set the mood of the evening so that your female partner can get into the mood and ready for pleasure. Next you want to make sure that you focus all of your attention on her so that she will feel special and this will get her in the mood for a night of excitement.

A lot of people don't realize it but a light kiss can be a real affective way to make your lover have a orgasm. You want to use this technique on her neck, back and thighs because this will warm her up and help her to achieve a climax. You want to make sure that she is totally into you before you go to for the kill. It is important that when you want her to have an orgasm that you make sure you know were the G Spot is.

The G Spot is a very sensitive area of the woman's body that is located about 2 inches inside the vagina. You want to make sure that you apply pressure to this area and message it is a constant rotating motion. This will help you achieve a mind blowing orgasm.

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All About Orgasms - How Can I Tell If I've Had an Orgasm

By Bryan Burbank

Most people view an orgasm as the final result to having a great sexual experience and it is important to understand that if you focus on each other more than the pleasure will follow. We want look at making each other happy and enjoy being together and then having a great climax orgasm will come naturally.

It is also important that we know how to define an orgasm so we know whether we have had one or not. Men and women are different when is comes to having an orgasm because form a physical standpoint we are talking about different parts of the body that have different functions. From a psychological angle they are similar because they both have a release that both men and women will experience.

It is easier for a man to tell if he has had an orgasm because when he does it is used for a reproductive function. But with a woman it can be harder to tell because there are a lot of mental emotions that go along with having an orgasm. True there is a sensation that we have with the blood rushing to the sexual part of our body but with that alone for women can fall short of climax. Having a true orgasm is like climbing a mountain and getting to the peak. It always you a sense of release that is felt in no other way.

It is important that when you are having a sexual encounter that you should enjoy the moment and make sure that you do not over think having an orgasm. In many cases this can cause you to be to concerned and you may fall short of your goal. Just relax and be yourself and you will have a very satisfying sexual experience.

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Love Making Advice - The Best Love Making Positions For More Pleasure

By Terry Wood

Here is the what I have come to know as the ultimate love making positions for couples that can virtually be done anywhere that is legal..living room, bathroom, kitchen, the car, the garage and even the table! Usually the most unusual areas yield the best love making experiences so don't be afraid to explore your options. Let me give you some of my favorite love making positions that brings the most pleasure for couples. Trust me these give tremendous amounts of pleasure to both sexes.

The T: This position has several variations but the best is to have the woman lie down with her legs spread or lifted up and the man hold her legs while entering or thrusting.

The Turn: Men enjoy this position a lot because the woman is on top while the man is either lying down or sitting but she has her back to him. This love making position scores a touch down every time.

Doggy: Still a favorite among the best love making positions that bring more pleasure because of the different angles that can be used. Here the female is on her hands and knees with the male behind her. This can be very enjoyable as long as the man remembers her also and just not himself. For more pleasure have the woman lay her head on the pillow while remaining on her knees. The change in angle will bring about a great change in sensation.

The Connect: I named this one because what happens here is the man will lay down with the woman facing him while she is on top; however, she will not lean into him but lean back and thrust back and forth. This is great stimulation for her clitoris but I must advise don't lean back to far because this can be painful for him. Men to ease the tension she puts on your tool try sitting up. Either way this position is one of the best love making positions that gives more pleasure to both parties involved.

I have given you just a tip of some of the more effective love making positions for more pleasure.

This article was written by Terry Wood, an up and coming expert in relationship building. If you found those tips helpful you can certainly find out more tips and information by visiting http://www.lovemakingtipsexposed.blogspot.com

Evaluating Your Sexual Health Needs

By Steve A Johnson

Sexual health is an issue that is becoming more acceptable in today's society and many are offering ways to improve it. From choosing the right diet, exercise program and possibly the right sexual supplement, here is a guide to improving sexual health.

Here are just a few of the issues that might be affecting your sexual health.

Your general health, obesity, self-image, impotence, and lack of sexual satisfaction.

There are different ways to try to overcome these issues to get you on the right track to having great sex. If you are overweight, try to lose a few of those extra pounds. You might not find the difference in losing only 5 pounds, but over the course of a strict diet and as the months pass by, you will sure to see a difference. Overweight people have a decreased libido and therefore do not get the most out of sex.

Exercise is necessary for sexual health. Ever wonder why after sex it feels like a workout? Because it is! No one is saying you need to go out and get an expensive gym membership in order to be in shape. Being physically fit can be a big plus while being in the middle of it.

Walking or light jogging is one way to increase your heart rate and get you conditioned for it. As long as you exercise long enough to get your heart pumping, it really does not matter what you do. Whatever program you put yourself on, you need to do a cardio workout at least 3-4 times a week.

Exercising will help you to lose weight as well. Exercising will help you boost your testosterone levels and this will increase your libido, creating more sexual performance.

Another important general health issue leading to sexual problems is the amount of sleep you get each night. Sleep and rest are important to overall health as well as sexual health. Without the right amount of sleep, sometimes a person can be moody and not feel at their best.

Since everyone's day to day schedule is different, evaluate your sleeping situation to determine if you are getting enough sleep. Most professionals consider getting between 6 and 8 hours of sleep each night.

The importance of sleep also depends on your mood that day. How many of you have woken up without enough sleep and you already know you will not have a great day? If you have just a small amount of free time during the day, take a short nap. Experts also say that a nap during the day actually makes you more aware of the events going on around you.

The next leading role in sexual health is stress. I cannot directly tell you how to live a stress free life, since that is up to each individual and their lifestyle. If you have too much on your mind and are stressing about that important project at work that is not due for another few weeks, your mind is obviously not on sex or how to make it better. My advice is to seek out your own answers about how to live with and conquer stress. One suggestion is to make a list of what stresses you out everyday and take action to change it.

There are also some amazing sexual supplements you can get to assist with your sexual life. Men and women are different when it comes to sexuality, so there are different supplements for both. You know better than anyone what your sexual issues are and what you need to make your sex life better. When choosing a sexual supplement, please be careful and read as much about it as you can.

Steven Johnson is interested in maintaining a vital, active, and healthy lifestyle. For more information or to obtain antioxidant related products, as well as other life-enhancing nutrients, please visit his website Alternative Health Supplements.

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Passionate Sex Forever - Part I - Secrets You Need to Know

By Stephanie Buehler, Psy.D.

Are you one of those people who mistakenly believe that passionate sex only happens between strangers? While it's true that new lovers may experience heightened excitement, lovers together a long time can experience great passion, too. In this first of a three part series on passionate sex in long-term relationships, you can learn some secrets for keeping an intimate physical connection alive in your relationship.

First, you need to be able to let your partner know what's on your mind. How can your partner know that you're a little tired or bored of the same old sexual routine if you don't share your thoughts and feelings? Yes, it may hurt your partner's feelings a little if you tell the truth, but better to discuss it than to go outside the relationship or let it cause passion to keep dwindling. Just assure your partner that your intention is positive. Tell him or her that your goal is to have a more satisfying sexual relationship for both of you.

Second, use scientific research in your favor. Brain scientists and psychologists will tell you that when you first fall in love, a chemical called dopamine rises in the brain. This chemical gives you a feeling of reward when you are with your lover, and especially when you have sex. But you can keep this rewarding feeling going by doing novel things with your lover. Your brain loves surprise and change.

A lot of people think this means having "vacation sex," but while vacation sex can certainly spice things up, there are ways to have vacation sex more often. Just trying a new type of lubricant (there are always new ones coming onto the market), a new toy, or an old toy in a new way (men: have you tried toys?) can make sex more novel and delightful.

Third, be open-minded yourself. One of the reasons you may not want to share your need for change with your partner is that you, yourself, are a bit hesitant to do something new. After all, the current way is comfortable, and it's worked for so long-isn't it easy to tell yourself that? Be willing to find out what your partner thinks could be fun, sexy, or loving to try, and then try it. If it turns out you enjoyed it, too, great! If not, great! At least by taking a risk, you and your partner may trust each other and be more willing to try new things together.

And if you want to learn more about passionate sex, Dr. Stephanie Buehler has written a free e-book, "Sexual Discovery: 25 Secrets for Incredible Passion," available at http://www.yourpassionexpert.com Dr. Buehler is a licensed psychologist and sex therapist in private practice at http://www.thebuehlerinstitute.com where she works with individuals and couples seeking better sex. She is frequently quoted in the media and is available for interviews and speaking.