How to Spice Up Your Sex Life - My Sizzling Hot Tips

By Daniel Scott

Are you and your partner stuck in a sexual rut? Is your sex life just not as exciting as it used to be? Do you want to recapture the feeling of having just met and having the most amazing sex your life? Do you want to know how to spice up your sex life?

Well, fear not, because today I am going to share with you some of my best tips for spicing up your lackluster sex life. Using these tips, you can go from having a boring sex life to having sex that has both of you screaming with pleasure.

Why Most People Lose "The Spark"

In the beginning of a relationship, sex is naturally a novelty. You're both with someone new, and getting to know each other's likes and dislikes ensures that you both have lots of sex trying to figure each other out. Eventually, though, you end up in a slump, and you just can't figure out what went wrong.

Problem #1: Not Enough Foreplay

Think back to when you first begin a relationship. The sex is passionate, intense, and lasts for most of the night.

Fast-forward to now. Sex is mundane, routine, and lasts all of ten minutes.

The #1 problem I have found in any sexual relationship - not just "old" ones - is the lack of foreplay. Many couples seem to regard it as a chore.

Nothing could be further from the truth. Having good foreplay is the SECRET to a fulfilling sex life. If you get the foreplay right, the sex practically just falls into place and will automatically be awesome. Foreplay is very much a part of good sex - so don't think you can just jump straight to the act itself. It doesn't work that way.

Every sexual session should be viewed as a wonderful opportunity to explore each other's bodies. Try licking and biting in places where you've never been game to do so before. Personally, I always viewed it as a game, and tried to get my partner as aroused as possible before the actual act. Good foreplay creates sexual tension. The more tension during the sex, the better the relief (or climax) is going to be, and the whole experience will just be plain better for it.

Problem #2: Not Trying New Things

Remember when I said that you should view sex as an opportunity to please your partner and find out what they like? Here's a tip that goes hand in hand with that: TRY NEW THINGS.

Explore your fantasies. Embrace your fetishes. Role-play. Dress up. Try some light bondage, S&M, anal play, dominant/submissive roles, whatever you want to do. Talk to your partner about your "hidden" desires - most of the time your partner will be extremely supportive in helping you fulfill them!

Even just trying different positions can have a hugely positive effect on your sex life. Try getting the Kama Sutra, and just flick through it and try a different position every night. Alternatively you can get board games from your local novelty or sex shop that have suggestions on what you guys can do. The random element can really keep things interesting and fun, and it takes the decision making out of the process.

Problem #3: Not Enough Romance

If you're in a rut, it makes sense that your relationship is reasonably long-term. Often we get so caught up in our day-to-day lives that we forget how important it is to tell that special someone what they mean to us or just time out to chill out with them. Try some sensual activities like taking a bath together. You could also try making love by candlelight, or using incense, or the old classic - food play. Cover your lover's body with different foods and lick it off, or, alternatively, take turns feeding each other fruit like grapes and strawberries, but trail the fruit over their different curves gently before feeding it to them.

Basically what this all boils down to is ways to create a bit of sexual tension in your relationship. If you can get the sexual tension aspect happening, then really everything else kind of takes care of itself.

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How to Give Your Girlfriend the Most Awesome Orgasm EVER

By Daniel Scott

Before We Begin

This is for those of you that want to give their girlfriends an incredibly awesome orgasm. Not just a good, great, or even fantastic one, but one that she will be thinking about for the next year.

Obviously, this title assumes you can give your girlfriend an orgasm. In fact, for the context of this article, you really need to know how to give your girlfriend orgasms fairly regularly, and consistently.

What Is an "Amazing Orgasm"?

Simply put, an amazing orgasm is a really, really intense orgasm that a girl just cannot NOT love. When she experiences it, her whole body will shake, she'll probably scream out, and if she's a squirter it's highly possible that she'll do that too.

What it is NOT - this orgasm is very powerful, but is largely triggered by her physical and mental (and emotional, and possibly spiritual) senses working together to produce something larger than the sum of its parts. It's not triggered by use of any one specific type of stimulation (such as clitoral, vaginal, or G-Spot) and its not triggered by any particular techniques.

Doing the Prep Work to Ensure Success

Like most good sexual experiences, the key here is to lay the groundwork to ensure that this kind of orgasm is actually capable of happening to your girlfriend. To ensure this kind of environment, first we need to make sure that the appropriate preparation is handled to maximise your chances of success. For the ease of reference, I've labeled these as numerical steps, as follows.

1. She must trust you a LOT. Basically you have to really put her at ease and let her know that nothing bad is going to happen. Talk to her and let her know that if she says stop, you'll stop. Explain to her that it's entirely possible she will be experiencing an amazing amount of pleasure, and that sometimes the brain mistakes all this pleasure for pain. The good news is once she "conquers" this feeling she will be able to have the most crazy orgasms ever, and it is only a slight possibility - however, better to be prepared.
   
   
   
   


2. She has to be open and willing to allow herself to have this kind of pleasure. A lot of girls "hold back" from these intense orgasms because they are scared of how they look or act while they're having them. I know it's silly, but again, you need to reassure her that you don't care what she does. Let her know it would really make your day (and get you off, if appropriate) to see her experience that kind of pleasure and you're really looking forward to it. However, make sure she's not hung up on achieving the orgasm, because that's the fastest way to kill your chances. Like any other sexual experience, you just have to enjoy the ride and not worry about whether or not that "Big Big BIG O" actually happens. Even when you do everything right, sometimes it just won't, so be prepared for that.
   
   
   
   


3. You need to be fairly knowledgeable on what her turn-ons and turn-offs are. To achieve this orgasm, you're going to be sending her multiple stimuli all at once. So in addition to fingering her or going down on her or having sex with her or whatever, you're also going to be kissing her, licking her, caressing her, talking dirty to her, painting scenarios in her mind, and so on. We will go into more detail on this later on, so don't worry about the specifics for now.

Making It Happen

So, if you've done all your prep work correctly, you've got a really good chance of making this happen. As those of you familiar with my other work may expect, the "hard work" is in the preparation. If you've done that correctly then this part really plays itself out.

Assuming you've built sexual tension correctly, she should be extremely aroused before you even get into the bedroom. The next step is the light foreplay. Make sure you really, really drag it out - the key to this orgasm is making her more aroused than she's ever been before.

Once she's really, really, really aroused, you're going to start giving her orgasms. Again, the key to this amazing orgasm she's about to have is baby steps. You don't try and make her first orgasm the big one. Start out by just giving her fairly bearable orgasms, working into more intense ones, multiples, and so on. When she's come a few times and is really getting into the swing of things, THEN you can pull out the moves to bring on the BIG BIG BIG O.

Remember how I told you before that you needed to know her likes and dislikes? This is where you put it all together. Start off by either fingering her, cunnalingus, "sixty-nine-ing", or having sex in her favorite position.

The way I teach people about this, is that this kind of orgasm is like a pizza. Her favorite sexual activity/position is the base, and now you're going to add the toppings as well.

If she likes her earlobes being nibbled on, do that. If roleplay is her thing, go for it. Talk dirty to her and get her even more worked up. If she likes having her nipples tweaked or her neck bitten go for it. Do whatever you can to send her wild.

The key here is that while you're doing all that other stuff, you can't stop doing your base activity. In addition your "base" has to be very strong, meaning a lot of stimulation. To put it in layman's terms - the main sexual stimulation has to be fairly intense.

All going well, while you do this she will start to feel an orgasm build, or at least it will feel really, really good. Don't back off yet. The minute you slow down you give her time to have an orgasm. It's entirely possible she will orgasm more than once while you're doing this - that's fine. It will all build towards this tidal wave of an orgasm that we are creating.

If she says she feels like she needs to pee, she probably doesn't. Just tell her to breathe deep and "push past" the feeling. Once she does, she will have the most massive orgasm ever and she probably won't have this problem ever again.

One last tip to finish - I have found that when you want her to have this massive orgasm, you should tell her verbally. The "command" can be somewhat of a trigger to allow her to have this massive orgasm, so make sure you try using it.

If all goes well, your girlfriend will have just had the most awesome orgasm ever - and she's only got you to thank for it. Just don't be too surprised when she tells you she wants another one - those things are addictive.

There's no reason you should be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the wild, screaming orgasms that she deserves. Visit my website to get our free email newsletter on why most men are completely unable to sexually satisfy their partners. Join the thousands we have helped already - visit us at incredibleinbed.com/article006.php right now and be the best she's ever had. You can also visit our blog at http://blog.incredibleinbed.com, where we have a whole slew of free articles giving you the secrets on how to be a stud and give your woman the most incredible sexual pleasure ever.

What Are Volume Enhancers and Why Every Man Should Be Using Them to Totally Satisfy Any Woman

By Chris Johanson

What are volume enhancers? Here's a clue, guys, we're not talking about the volume enhancers that people use to get thicker hair. We're talking about herbal products that have been proven to increase the amount of sperm a man produces.

Why is it important to produce as much sperm as you can? Read on, you might be shocked to learn what is in your sperm and why you need it to keep your woman satisfied.

Recent studies have shown that women who have unprotected sex with a man on a regular basis are generally happier and in a better mood. The women's happiness was assessed using the "Beck Depression Inventory", a standard questionnaire for assessing mood. Women who had protected sex with their man were more likely to be depressed and moody, even suicidal, even if they had sex just as often.

The doctors doing the study came to the conclusion that the woman who were having unprotected sex were getting the benefit from the sperm ejaculated into their bodies by their man. The reason was the chemicals found in sperm were being absorbed by the women's bodies. The women having the most unprotected sex were getting the most sperm and they were the ones who were happiest and in a good mood more often.

Can you see where this is going? If you want to keep her happy and have her coming back for more, using a volume enhancer to increase your sperm volume is a great idea. So what is it in sperm that makes a woman happy?

There are mood-altering hormones including Testosterone, Oestrogen, Follicle Stimulating hormone, Luteinising hormone, Prolactin and several different Prostaglandins. Once introduced into the body, some of these hormones have been detected in a woman's blood hours after exposure to sperm.

So the bottom line is that if you want to keep her happy and coming back for more, you can inject her with powerful hormones and make her your sperm-junkie. And that is the number one reason that volume enhancing herbal remedies are so popular.

There is one word of caution here for women, unprotected sex is only a good idea if you are sure of your partner. The benefits of those hormones mentioned above would be far outweighed by an STD or unwanted pregnancy. Also, this may sound funny, but could be true, if you get too much of it, you may just get hooked and unable to say no to your man!

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The Key to Getting and Keeping a Beautiful Woman is What She Won't Tell You

By Chris Johanson

As a behavioral therapist and communication expert, I have worked with couples and men and women individually who were getting over a painful breakup or divorce. There are some important things I learned because women opened up to me. They felt safe in the clinical situation and trusted me. They felt they could tell me things they would never say to anyone else. Some of the things I learned were shocking. Of course, since they entrusted me with their secrets and confidences, I would never betray that trust. I would never reveal names or identities, but I can tell you this, as a therapist, I love to help people to find happiness and understand the mysteries of life. So I will share some information about women that every man should know or he will never be happy.

One of the biggest mysteries for most of us men is understanding women. I have had many men ask me, "Why can't I keep a woman?"

The number one reason that a man can't keep a woman is one thing that most women will never tell you. They will talk around the subject, but never come to the point. If you've had problems in relationships, problems keeping a woman, or just plain understanding a woman, you're not alone.

It is the number one thing men complain about in relationships. In plain English, "What does she want?"

Some men foolishly think that women want money, but how many rich men can't keep a woman? Plenty. Other men think it is faithfulness, well it is a good thing and should be part of your plan, but I've seen women stay with a man even though he runs around on them, haven't you?

Then there are the guys that think they have to open up and tell her everything about themselves. I've got news for you, some women would rather that you be the strong silent type, yes, many women do really like a guy who knows what he wants and doesn't spill his guts trying to get it.

Maybe you're one of those guys who think that a woman wants a handsome man. Some of the greatest lovers of all time were far from handsome. Haven't you ever seen a beautiful woman with an unattractive man and thought to yourself, "What is she doing with him?"

I have seen women stay with a man through all kinds of problems and there was really only one reason. It is sex. If a woman is satisfied in bed, if her body is purring like a kitten, she will put up with almost anything.

But what I also learned from the women I worked with is that only about 10% of the men out there really know how to satisfy a woman in that way. Forget about buying a woman with money or impressing her with your brains or looks, you can't buy love or impress a person into love, but if she is screaming in pleasure, of course she'll come back, who wouldn't?

Any man can do it, but only a few are born that way and only a few take the time to learn.

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Female Erogenous Zones and Position the Key to Powerful Orgasms and Total Satisfaction

By Chris Johanson

Everyone knows that position is critical to stimulating a woman in a way that will cause an orgasm. Some positions are meant to contact the clitoris and through friction to bring about a clitoral orgasm. Then there are positions, such as "doggie style," and "modified missionary," that are meant to bring the head of the penis in contact with the G-spot.

The key here is contact and friction. What is really happening is that many sensitive nerve endings are being rubbed and teased and eventually result in a spasm known as an orgasm.

Some people mistakenly believe that if they use one of the G-spot positions then they have mastered sex. Men who put a woman in a position and make contact with those nerves see her reach an orgasm and feel they have done everything that is expected of them. Maybe it is all that is expected, but what if you could go above and beyond the call of duty and drive her out of her mind with the most powerful orgasm she ever had?

It is possible, but in order to do it, you have to realize that there are many thousands of nerves throughout the human body and learning to use them together magnifies the effect. She can go from a great orgasm to being driven out of her mind. Once that happens, she will be yours forever and willing to please you in ways you may have never imagined.

Look at it this way, you can sit down at a piano and play it with two fingers and play a little tune known as "Chopsticks." You are making music. But if you are really good, you'll sit down and use all fingers and hit many keys at once that create a beautiful and sophisticated piece of music. Do you want to play chopsticks or make beautiful music?

By all means, use the right positions to achieve a clitoral or vaginal orgasm, but don't forget the rest of her body. I am talking about the erogenous zones that every woman has. For some women, it is the neck or ears. For others it is the breast of stomach. There are even very sensitive nerves behind the knees. The key to pleasing her like never before is in finding those spots or others and then using them correctly along with intercourse.

Everyone has a right to happiness and confidence. To learn the secrets of pleasing yourself and your partner, go to http://topdogmenshealth.homestead.com/index.html The Men's Health and Information site that tells it like it is.