The Key to Getting and Keeping a Beautiful Woman is What She Won't Tell You

By Chris Johanson

As a behavioral therapist and communication expert, I have worked with couples and men and women individually who were getting over a painful breakup or divorce. There are some important things I learned because women opened up to me. They felt safe in the clinical situation and trusted me. They felt they could tell me things they would never say to anyone else. Some of the things I learned were shocking. Of course, since they entrusted me with their secrets and confidences, I would never betray that trust. I would never reveal names or identities, but I can tell you this, as a therapist, I love to help people to find happiness and understand the mysteries of life. So I will share some information about women that every man should know or he will never be happy.

One of the biggest mysteries for most of us men is understanding women. I have had many men ask me, "Why can't I keep a woman?"

The number one reason that a man can't keep a woman is one thing that most women will never tell you. They will talk around the subject, but never come to the point. If you've had problems in relationships, problems keeping a woman, or just plain understanding a woman, you're not alone.

It is the number one thing men complain about in relationships. In plain English, "What does she want?"

Some men foolishly think that women want money, but how many rich men can't keep a woman? Plenty. Other men think it is faithfulness, well it is a good thing and should be part of your plan, but I've seen women stay with a man even though he runs around on them, haven't you?

Then there are the guys that think they have to open up and tell her everything about themselves. I've got news for you, some women would rather that you be the strong silent type, yes, many women do really like a guy who knows what he wants and doesn't spill his guts trying to get it.

Maybe you're one of those guys who think that a woman wants a handsome man. Some of the greatest lovers of all time were far from handsome. Haven't you ever seen a beautiful woman with an unattractive man and thought to yourself, "What is she doing with him?"

I have seen women stay with a man through all kinds of problems and there was really only one reason. It is sex. If a woman is satisfied in bed, if her body is purring like a kitten, she will put up with almost anything.

But what I also learned from the women I worked with is that only about 10% of the men out there really know how to satisfy a woman in that way. Forget about buying a woman with money or impressing her with your brains or looks, you can't buy love or impress a person into love, but if she is screaming in pleasure, of course she'll come back, who wouldn't?

Any man can do it, but only a few are born that way and only a few take the time to learn.

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