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November 3, 2008

Fantastic Foreplay Ideas That Will Drive Her Wild - Our Favorite Ideas For Steamy Sex Are Here

By Megan Zoile

In this article we are going to talk about some absolutely FANTASTIC foreplay ideas. Now, if you've been reading our articles and blog posts for any length of time, you have certainly come to the stark realization that we are HUGE fans of foreplay, right? Of course you have...and ALL girls are, so that shouldn't be a huge surprise. But you want even MORE ideas, right? A complete soup to nuts blueprint of what you need to do to turn her on! Well, you NEED to show some imagination guys, after all...it is YOU who needs to put it all into play..:-) But, due to popular demand, here are 3 MORE sexy foreplay ideas I GUARANTEE she is going to love for sure! Read on..:-)

Filed Under: Buy her some HOT neglige' and......

Watch her put it on (and THEN take it off..:-) Women LOVE to play dress up ( or down!) and this is a dead simple way to make BOTH of you enjoy the beauty of her body. Every woman wants to show how sexy she can be...and giving her the RIGHT creative outlet ( or outfit..:-) is just what many of us have in mind!

Filed Under: Get CLEAN...before You Get Dirty!

Showering or bathing together can be one of the most emotional aphrodisiacs there is! Soaping your girl up or down, washing her hair and more can be a HUGELY erotic experience for both of you, and can REALLY make her feel dirty once you've got her all cleaned up for sure!

Filed Under: The Magic of Massage

I've said this before...and I'll say it again! Nothing is quite as erotic and romantic after a long day than a firm, hot and soothing pair of hands all over your body! I'm talking about a massage....:-) And it's one of the BEST ways to turn her on before sex, as well as let her know she's the complete and utter object of your attention. Very hot indeed!


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Sex Tips, Ideas, Guidelines and Suggestions - Starting With Q and R

By Levi Reiss

We modestly offer sex advice consisting of short alphabetical pieces. We aim to improve your sex life. Each article includes at least two positive and two negative suggestions, based on words that you never thought were sexy. Review these proposals and schemes before closing your door on the way out, and once again before opening your zipper on the way in.

Quickie. I don't think I have to tell you what a quickie is. When asked what she thought about the Minutemen (Heroes of the American Revolutionary war) 1920s sex goddess Mae West said, "I like a man who takes his time." She probably never heard of a quickie. But that didn't mean she was slow.

Quim. Quim is an old-fashioned, rather vulgar word for the female genitals. In his famous book Ulysses, James Joyce said: "Ho! What do I here behold? Were you brushing the cobwebs off a few quims?" I don't recommend using this quote unless you're with an open-minded literature student or teacher. Be careful or there may be fireworks, and not the kind you were looking for.

Read. Don't be sexually illiterate; learn how to read the signs. Why curl up with a good book when you can curl up with a good reader, one who might make your toes curl. There's nothing wrong with reading in bed, it all depends on what you read. You may want to act out the scenes of a good erotic tale. You may want to act out the scenes of a bad erotic tale. Which brings us to our next word.

Rear. If you want people to follow you build yourself a good rear end. Don't think for a moment that this is a sexist comment. Most gals are interested in a guy's butt as well. No ifs, ands, or butts. It's worth going to the gym and developing your assets. As the phrase goes, "The bigger the cushion, the harder the pushing." And that's not just an old wives' tale. You need not necessarily pity someone who has been rear-ended.

And now for some things to avoid.

Quiz. Don't go around asking too many questions or you may find yourself with the wrong answers. I remember starting a let's-date conversation by asking her, "How did you like such and such a play?" When she answered, "What are you doing, taking a survey?" I knew the quiz show was over. No question of hitting the jackpot. So unless you're playing Scrabble, don't quiz.

Rage. When things go wrong don't go into a rage, even if it's all the rage. Calm yourself, especially if you want to uncalm yourselves. Mad sex is a slippery slope. Count to ten. If that's not enough to return to normal then count to sixty-nine. Don't go to bed angry. Settle down. Then you may get to settle up. Remember rage is French for rabies. And it's not the most pleasurable way to foam at the mouth.


Levi Reiss has authored or co-authored ten books on computers and the Internet, but to be honest, he would rather just drink fine wine, eat fine food, and enjoy life. He teaches classes in computers at an Ontario French-language community college. Among his many web sites he is particularly proud of his new site celebrating all kinds of love including physical love at http://www.sexsexesex.com. You will find a wide range of jokes, articles, and quotes devoted to various aspects of sex and a great collection of photos. If you don't know French, enjoy the translations. Check out his global wine website at http://www.theworldwidewine.com with his new weekly column reviewing $10 wines.

November 2, 2008

Great Sex is Like a Great Movie

By Tyler Privado

A quick search tells me about 600 movies are released in US theatres each year. Now have a quick think and work out how many of those movies you actually watched. Then have another think and decide what ones you thought were actually great movies.

Now, putting aside personal preferences, there are some movies that capture the imagination of millions of people. Sometimes these are the movies that attract a lot of buzz like the latest Indiana Jones movie... but that doesn't guarantee people will love it.

If you look at the various lists of top movies, I find there's one common thread that runs through them. They took the audience on an emotional journey.

Think about your favourite movies... what emotions do you feel? Do you fall in love with the characters? Or do you hate them? Do the movies scare you? Or do they make you laugh? All great movies cause an emotional reaction in the viewer.

And the same is true for great sex. Sure, you can have sex 600 times a year, but if there's no emotion it'll never be great sex. If you think back to your most memorable sexual experiences you can see how emotion played a strong role.

Maybe you hadn't seen your lover for a while or it was someone you had to chase for a long time. It could be that you just felt a lot of passion for that person or perhaps it was "forbidden" love. External events might have played a part and raised the emotion of the situation as well.

Emotion is what makes the difference between good sex and great sex. Sure, you can love someone and have good sex with them on a regular basis, but with a bit of a kick start you can turn this into great sex.

To do this you might try:


  • Having a special romantic evening

  • Teasing your lover

  • Having sex somewhere "naughty"

  • Abstaining... for a while

  • Playing out fantasies

  • Trying something "forbidden"

  • Creating anticipation in advance

There are many ways to heighten emotions during sex and I recommend you try everything you can think of. A little bit of thought is all it takes to take good sex and make it great sex... and who doesn't want that?


Tyler is a regular guy who enjoys sex and pleasuring his lovers. When he realised a lot of other guys were having the same problems he'd had in the past, he decided to do something about it. Visit his website to find out how to make love to a woman's mind and body and download his free report "Why You Might Be Bad In Bed... And What To Do About It."

He prides himself on being different and avoiding unnecessary hype and huge promises. While other "sex gurus" promise mind bending multiple orgasms from super ninja g-spot techniques invented by Tibetan monks... he focuses on the power of a woman's mind for creating a powerful sexual response that lasts a lot longer than a night of passion.

If you're ready for the real, straight forward answers about amazing your lover in the bedroom, check out his website for more free information and articles.

Giving a Woman an Orgasm - Techniques!

By T. Lee

Okay, you just finished making love with a woman and you got YOUR orgasm but she didn't get HERS. She would have told you by now if she did and you don't want to spoil the moment of your intimacy by asking her, "So did you up end getting an orgasm?" Here are a few "giving woman an orgasm techniques" to help you increase your sexual experience with her.

Giving Woman an Orgasm Technique #1

Find the right psychology setting for you two to make love. If your room looks like an office cell, her internal senses won't be turned on quickly. Woman liked to feel that they like they are being courted, so you need to find a way to add some romance. To steam up the environment, sometimes all you need is some soft music playing in the background or some colorful scented candles placed in right areas around the room. This is the first step when planning to give her a HUGE orgasm later on.

Giving Woman an Orgasm Technique #2

Build up and foreplay is everything! Once you have the right psychology setting for her, start by working around her body. Whatever you do, remember that everything will eventually lead back to her vagina. Excite her by treating her skin as the most delicate thing on earth, not by forcefully groping her flesh until later stages. Touch and kiss will be your most valuable assets. Massage her shoulders, graze your hand over her face, and kiss her on her most sensitive areas like her neck and her inner thighs. Do this for a good amount of time. You'll drive her CRAZY by doing this for an extended period of time before she'll start signaling for you make the first sexual advance.

Giving Woman an Orgasm Technique #3

Once you're in her, pay close attention to her responses. Some women are more physical during sex while others express their feelings through their vocals. If she starts to grab you, meaning "go faster" then you need to go slower... If she begins to moan louder, you need to slow down... You want to increase the pace during one point, but then decrease the pace during another and doing this through multiple cycles. Also remember, you DO NOT want to orgasm before she does, since your primary goal is to pleasure her needs first. Build up AS MUCH of that anticipation as possible like a boiling volcano just ready to erupt at any minute, as this will help you give her an explosive orgasm later on.

These are just some "giving woman an orgasm techniques" that you should be aware of in order to fully pleasure a woman and give her the sexual experience that she's been craving for days. Good luck!


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Foreplay Tips - 3 Important Tips to Help Your Woman Become Extremely Aroused

By Susan Johnsson

Without foreplay, your woman will find it very difficult to enjoy intercourse, and therefore will take much longer to reach a climax. As a matter of fact, she might not achieve an orgasm at all. Foreplay helps to slowly and gradually turn your woman on. Unlike men, women need time to be aroused, and foreplay ensures that it happens.

By helping your woman to be aroused, she will be lubricated naturally, and therefore will be ready to enjoy intercourse with you. Because she is able to enjoy intercourse, she can concentrate all her efforts on enjoying the moment, thus making it easier for her to reach powerful climaxes.

In order to get the best out of foreplay, you need to make sure that you follow some basic rules:

- When you begin to kiss your woman, make sure that you understand that there are different types of kisses for different types of situations. For instance, the way you would passionately kiss your woman during intercourse would be totally different to when you are initiating foreplay with her. During foreplay, your kisses should be light, dry, and slow. This will allow your woman to enjoy the details of every kiss that you give to the surface of her skin.

- When you use your hands, don't grope your woman like someone that has not been with a woman for 20 years because he just came out of prison. Instead, caress her skin with your fingers in a slow manner, and gradually work your way around her whole body, especially the erogenous zones.

- Don't go straight for her most intimate parts. Take the time to slowly and gradually move in that direction, and while you are doing that, constantly tease her. This will create anticipation within her mind. By the time you finally reach your woman's most intimate areas of her body, she'll be in such an erotic high, that it will be easy for her to reach powerful orgasms.


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