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November 11, 2008

3 Places Where You Can Find the G-Spot - Yes! There is More Than One!

By Samantha Rogers

First, we need to know what we're looking for. What does the G-Spot feel like? I like to tell people that it feels a bit like sandpaper. It's a bit rough. Trust me, you'll know when you find it. It differs from the rest of the vagina. Another way to know if you found it is because your lover with react! She'll love it! TARGET="_new"

We must remember that all women are different, so the G-Spot might be located in different places. This is not to say that the G-Spot will be in entirely different places. Anatomically, the G-Spot must be relatively in the same spot. If you're confused, don't worry, I'm about to explain.

The first place the G-Spot can be located is just inside of the vagina on the upper wall. You will not find it, however, with a straight finger. You must crook your finger just a bit in order to probe the top of her vaginal wall. When you've found it, that rough little patch, begin to apply pressure and use a "come hither" motion. Some women enjoy stimulation directly on the center, but other women find it pleasurable when the sides are stimulated.

The second place you can find the G-Spot is deeper in the vagina. This spot is called the "A Spot." The "A" stands for anterior in case you were wondering. Using the same technique as above can prove very pleasurable for your partner.

Lastly, I'm going to tell you something obvious than many people fail to realize. You can stimulate both the G-Spot and the A-Spot at the same time! Using your pointer finger and your middle finger, crook both and find both areas, slowly massaging and applying pressure. Do not be afraid to apply significant pressure. Often women are relatively numb in this area, but when adequate pressure is applied, these two spots prove exceptionally erotic!


Once you're able to find these spots with your fingers, try it with your penis. Remember, however, that that A-Spot is not easily accessible without an fairly good sized penis.

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Spice Up Your Sex Life - Keep Her Interested in the Bedroom and Coming Back For More!

By Maria Holland

As we know sex with the same person can become mundane over time if you are just doing the same routine over and over. This is why it is important for any relationship that you spice it up in the bedroom, this means changing what you are doing and making your sex life fresh and new. In this article I am going to be telling you guys how you can spice it up and leave her loving every single moment of your time together!

1) Porn Movies - Watching porn movies with your partner can really get both of you really hot and ready for some action, also if you do not normally do this then it is a nice change of pace and you can really feel naughty with each other. If you are lucky as well you may be able to pick up some good tips while watching!

2) Take a Walk Together - When I say take a walk together I do not mean take a nice moonlit stroll along the beach while holding each others hands and telling each other how much you love them because we are here to spice up your sex life! What I mean by take a walk together is go out into the public and find a nice secluded spot and get into it there! This is a great way to spice up your love life and is one that most women often fantasize about, just make sure that you do not get caught.


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Pheromones and Sexual Attraction

By Adam Quilt

Research has shown that humans are highly skilled at "sniffing out" compatible sexual partners. Evidence has revealed that natural body scents play a pivotal role in deciding whether we find someone attractive.The research was published by the Philadelphia's Monell Chemical Senses Center in the journal Psychological Science. By using brain scans, researches were able to show that pheromones in male sweat stimulated the brains of heterosexual women.

The Relationship Between Pheromones and Sexual Attraction.

While we may not be consciously aware of pheromones, they do have significant effect on behavior.In the study, researchers found that two compounds - the testosterone androsterone, and androstenol as potential pheromones. 36 heterosexual men were asked to smells samples of ansrostenone and androstenol.The results of the study revealed that androstenol activated a region of the brain called the hypothalumus that influences sexual arousal.

Pheromones Known To Cause Sexual Arousal

Much of the buzz about pheromones can be attributed to three active compounds found in high-quality pheromone products:

Androstenone -- This pheromone is found in both men and women, is predominantly known as a male pheromone. Users wearing androstenone typically project a dominating, masculine feeling towards women. Therefore, pheromone products containing this are likely to project an aggressive alpha impression (either alpha male or female), which might help you to be the centre of attention and be noticed more. There is also some evidence that it may cause sexual arousal and excitement in women. To cause members of the opposite sex to become slightly intimidated by you can be attractive, so this pheromone helps in this regard too.

Androsterone -- Androsterone is a human pheromone that produces a sense of trust around it's wearer. Thus, androsterone makes the wearer appear to be more masculine and/or dominant, but without the aggression of androstenone. This pheromone also creates an aura of safety, protection and reliability normally associated with a more peaceful alpha male.

Androstenol -- Androstenol comes int two types - alpha isomers and beta isomers. The alpha and beta have nothing to do with the pheromone projecting an alpha aura. Both seem to cause chattiness and friendliness. It can also increase sexual appeal, making it an "icebreaker" pheromone. The alpha isomer makes the usre more approachable to women by creating a friendly atmosphere. It seems to be more of a neurotic chatty pheromone than the beta isomer, touching more on empathy and romantic feelings.Androstenol also creates a feeling of youthfullness and health which can be a sexual turn on for women. The primary reported response to Androstenol or Androstenol containing products has been an increase in chattiness and friendliness from both sexes, but as mentioned above it can increase sexual attractiveness as well. It has been referred to as an "ice-breaker" pheromone.

These are the primary pheromones you should keep on an eye when comparing pheromone products. Understanding what these pheromones can do will help you select a pheromone that will give you what you want.


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Adam Quilt is a pheromone tester and user.

November 10, 2008

Is Sex a Necessary Part of a Successful Relationship?

By Deb Allen

For some of us a relationship without sex is nothing more than a friendship. But there are many long-term and very successful relationships that do not include sex. So the question becomes whether sex is a necessary component at all or if it is simply a fulfillment of lust.

To begin this discussion I would like to explain that many relationships are started out of a physical attraction for one another. Some people would say that this phase is a period of lust. In essence, the partners may find that they not only enjoy each other's company but also that they have a desire to have sex.

During such a stage in the relationship it is likely that the couple will have frequent sex and that it will be both fun and exciting. This stage usually lasts for a few months.

Then the couple is likely to move into the second stage of a sexual relationship which is designed around romantic love. For many couples this stage will last from about six months to two years. During the time although some of the lust may taper off the sex remains frequent and very enjoyable.

For many people this phase is optimal because the love relationship seems to deepen and a real connection between the partners becomes apparent. The bonds strengthen and the relationship acquires a comforting element which lends itself to longevity.

As time goes on the couple is likely to experience the next stage in their sexual relationship. During this period a mature love develops. The sex may diminish a little or a lot and some of the excitement may be missing.

It is during this period that problems often develop. As the break down in the sexual relationship happens there may also be problems with the communication in the relationship. The lack of communication coupled with the decline in sex can result in trust issues.

Some couples progress to the point that their relationship is built on dynamics more commonly associated with roommates or brothers and sisters than that of a couple. Although relationships go through various phases it is important to maintain the appropriate dynamics if the relationship is to continue to blossom.

Over a period of time sex can decline to the point that the couples feel uncomfortable with the topic. One is afraid to approach the other so sex becomes a missing component in the relationship. Even if the desire for sex is there it may seem to be completely out of reach.

Couples in that situation probably need to start slowly. Jumping into bed to have sex may not sound appealing. I suggest that the couple work on less threatening ways of building that intimacy level back up first. To begin I suggest that the couple spend time cuddling. I know, that sounds trivial but it really is important.

Simple steps like including a few hugs throughout the day can make a difference. Then progress to holding each other and gazing into the eyes of your partner. Soon you should spend time holding one another in bed. If you do not start this way then progress to holding each other while you are naked. By taking things a step at a time you are likely to freshen some of those feelings and desires that were once so natural and compelling.


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Foreplay - Five Easy Tips

By Leigh Reeves

1- Talk and Tease

During foreplay, the power of suggestion (especially with some dirty talk) can be as great as the sex itself for many couples. If you can describe how you want to touch your partner, where, and with which of your body parts, he/she will visualize it easily and eagerly.

If you know how to have sex with his/her brain (it is a major sexual organ), you can bet that your partner will be begging you to have sex with the rest of their body in due time.

If you need to touch while you dirty talk, avoid touching the major sex parts. Instead, focus your mouth and hands on the neck, wrists, inner thighs, lower back, and ears.

2- Get Started in Public

Foreplay doesn't need to be restricted to the bedroom. Try doing some fun things out in the open. Try patting your partner's ass in a restaurant, kissing him/her passionately while having drinks at a bar or dirty dancing at a nightclub.

Make an effort to turn your partner on wherever you are. When you finally do find yourselves in a private situation, the good times will lead to some carnal indulgences.

3- Strip Down

Strip shows aren't just for men anymore; women have gotten wise to the idea of having men perform for them.

Remove your clothes slowly (especially if you're fit). Remove your socks before you do anything; they're awkward and nothing turns anyone off faster than seeing a naked body with socks on.

Start by removing your shirt (unbutton it slowly while maintaining eye contact), then your pants, and finally your underwear. At this point, undress your partner just as slowly.

4- Use your Hands and Give Oral Pleasure

It is easy for me to say that usually every man enjoys being the receiver of oral sex.

Every woman is different, therefore, every woman likes to be touched differently. Some women do not like oral sex at all. Usually it is because she does not feel comfortable, so before you try, make sure she is comfortable. She will soon try it and realize what she has been missing.

5- Watch Some Porn

Porn can be a great way to get you and your partner in the mood, whether it is dirty or really soft porn. Put on something that both of you can enjoy and lay naked with each other while you watch it.

Remember that an "accidental" caress here and there is perfectly acceptable, even preferable. Every now and then, stop watching the movie to provide your partner's body some attention. Make sure to pay more attention to him/her than you do to the movie.

Watching porn is also good to throw some ideas your way. If you see something kinky that you'd like to try, make a comment about it.

The point is to get the imagination going.


Leigh Reeves
Creator - http://www.sexstrology.org
Managing Editor - http://www.getintimate.org