By Leigh Reeves
1- Talk and Tease
During foreplay, the power of suggestion (especially with some dirty talk) can be as great as the sex itself for many couples. If you can describe how you want to touch your partner, where, and with which of your body parts, he/she will visualize it easily and eagerly.
If you know how to have sex with his/her brain (it is a major sexual organ), you can bet that your partner will be begging you to have sex with the rest of their body in due time.
If you need to touch while you dirty talk, avoid touching the major sex parts. Instead, focus your mouth and hands on the neck, wrists, inner thighs, lower back, and ears.
2- Get Started in Public
Foreplay doesn't need to be restricted to the bedroom. Try doing some fun things out in the open. Try patting your partner's ass in a restaurant, kissing him/her passionately while having drinks at a bar or dirty dancing at a nightclub.
Make an effort to turn your partner on wherever you are. When you finally do find yourselves in a private situation, the good times will lead to some carnal indulgences.
3- Strip Down
Strip shows aren't just for men anymore; women have gotten wise to the idea of having men perform for them.
Remove your clothes slowly (especially if you're fit). Remove your socks before you do anything; they're awkward and nothing turns anyone off faster than seeing a naked body with socks on.
Start by removing your shirt (unbutton it slowly while maintaining eye contact), then your pants, and finally your underwear. At this point, undress your partner just as slowly.
4- Use your Hands and Give Oral Pleasure
It is easy for me to say that usually every man enjoys being the receiver of oral sex.
Every woman is different, therefore, every woman likes to be touched differently. Some women do not like oral sex at all. Usually it is because she does not feel comfortable, so before you try, make sure she is comfortable. She will soon try it and realize what she has been missing.
5- Watch Some Porn
Porn can be a great way to get you and your partner in the mood, whether it is dirty or really soft porn. Put on something that both of you can enjoy and lay naked with each other while you watch it.
Remember that an "accidental" caress here and there is perfectly acceptable, even preferable. Every now and then, stop watching the movie to provide your partner's body some attention. Make sure to pay more attention to him/her than you do to the movie.
Watching porn is also good to throw some ideas your way. If you see something kinky that you'd like to try, make a comment about it.
The point is to get the imagination going.
Leigh Reeves |
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