Foreplay - Mistakes Men Make During Foreplay

By Susan Johnsson

There are a number of mistakes that men make during foreplay without realizing it. It is important to understand that these mistakes could be putting your partner off, thus being the cause of many lovemaking sessions going bad. Let us look at some of the common mistakes that men make;

Ear-Tonguing

Many men believe that sticking their tongue into a woman's ear is a turn on. In fact it is quite the opposite, and majority of women find it a turn off. If you wish to stimulate her, you can gently nibble on her ear lobe, or gently blow air on it. She will be far more receptive to this than having a warm moist tongue poking in her ear.

Sloppy Kissing

While kissing is a great part of foreplay, and should be encouraged, be careful not to be a sloppy kisser. When kissing your partner, do not drool or kiss with excess saliva in your mouth, as this will turn her off. Instead, try to swallow your saliva and kiss her gently and passionately.

Slow Down

This has been stressed a number of times; women need more time to get in to the mood than men. They need to be relaxed mentally and feel emotionally safe before they start to get aroused. Don't just strip her clothes off and head straight for her vagina, as this will certainly put her off completely. Take time to enjoy what she is wearing for you, and remove it slowly, exploring her body inch by inch.

Once she is undressed, try giving her a nice massage with scented oils. This will give her a feeling of well being and get her totally relaxed.

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