How to Have Phone Sex

By Denise Bergeron

You can thrill your partner with dirty talk without even seeing him. It's true! Those in long distance relationships are very familiar with the concept of phone sex to keep the tension high and the relationship healthy. If you take your time and get creative with your partner, phone sex can be so good, it almost feels like the real thing.

The best way on how to have phone sex is to never hold anything back. You're not there with your partner, so you have to go the extra mile to make things even hotter. That might mean getting into kinkier fantasies than what you might every try in real life, and making sure that you describe everything in wild, vivid detail. Don't be afraid to say things that are a little "out there" - your partner probably has a few naughty tales of his own to spin, and you want him to share just as openly as you do, right?

Start out with your simple fantasies, or dirty talk phrases that will get him going. Tell him what you're wearing, and if you're not wearing anything at all, make sure you tell him exactly what you're doing as you are talking to him. Describe everything in detail. Wait for his cue before you use more graphic words. The rule of thumb here is that if he says it, you can say it, too.

Pay attention to your partner's breathing as you talk to him. The more aroused he gets, the more strident his breath will be. Listen to where he is leading you with his encouraging words. If he wants more, he will lead you there!

Finally, don't be afraid to enjoy yourself, too. The goal of phone sex is not necessarily to have an orgasm through all those dirty talk phrases - the goal is to stay close to your partner, even though you are separated by distance. If you can talk openly about your desires, staying close will be easy for you!

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