By Zachary M Achachi
You might have heard stories about a mysterious spot inside a woman's vagina that, if properly stimulated, will send her to levels of sexual ecstasy. The spot is known as the G-Spot, whose name came after Ernst Grafenberg, a German medical doctor who wrote about "an erotic zone located on the anterior wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra that would swell during sexual stimulation". This area that is located 2-3 inches towards the stomach has been the subject of several books and countless magazine articles. But the question is does it really exist? If it does so, how can you find it?
The G-spot lies directly behind the pubic bone within the front wall of the vagina. It is usually located about half way between the back of the pubic bone and the front of the cervix, along the course of the urethra and near the neck of the bladder, where it connects with the urethra. The size and exact location vary. Imagine a small clock inside the vagina with 12 o'clock pointed towards the navel. The majority of women will have the G-spot located between 11 and 1 o'clock a few inches inside the vagina.
Unlike the clitoris, which protrudes from the surrounding tissue, it lies deep within the vaginal wall, and a firm pressure is often needed to contact the G spot in its un-stimulated state. Usually it is a pea sized spongy area which responds to stimulation by hardening and swelling as blood rushes to it.
To locate the g-spot, lie on your back on the floor with your knees bent and rest your feet on the bed in front of you. Insert your middle finger into your vagina and gently stroke the front wall behind the pubic bone, about two inches up. You should feel a patch of a slightly rough skin that has a different texture from the rest of your vaginal walls. By using a "come here" motion of you finger, press into the center of this ruffled patch until you feel an area that is sensitive to pressure. That's your G-Spot, also known as your urethral sponge. On the other side of your vaginal wall are the sensitive Skene's glands, which is why you'll probably respond more to pressure than light stroking. The area is about the size of a pea, but its size can double when stimulated. Many women feel like they need to urinate when this area is stimulated. This is due to the fact that, as it enlarges, it presses on the same nerves that signal a full bladder. A number of women find, however, that as stimulation is continued, this feeling goes away and more pleasurable sensations develop.
Zachary Achachi is passionate about educating couples on how they can enjoy a great sex life. Visit his blog http://g-spot-sex-position.blogspot.com where he discusses a lot more on how to achieve an explosive sex life! |
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