My Secret Techniques on How to Give a Woman the Most Incredible Orgasm She's Ever Had

By Daniel Scott

You've probably seen the horribly terrifying statistics.

Although they vary based on your source, they all have the same result to tell us - most women simply are NOT getting ANY sexual satisfaction from their partners.

So why is this?

Although there are many different theories on why this is so, I would say it's largely because most men just don't know what the hell they're doing in the bedroom.

They study a heap of complex "techniques", "strategies", "moves", and so on.

Newsflash

It's sex, people. Not a game of chess.

The reason most guys are unable to give their women multiple, wild, screaming orgasms is because of one very simple fact - they have the wrong focus.

What do I mean by that?

They spend all their time on the "advanced" and "little" stuff, while completely neglecting the "big picture".

So What Is the "Big Picture"?

It's simple, really. The big picture is about general principles that have a much larger bearing on her sexual enjoyment than any "tricks", "moves", or "techniques" ever could.

Some of these principles include building sexual tension, knowing how to perform foreplay properly, being able to "read" and connect with her on a sexual level, and so on.

Why Is It Better to Focus on the "Big Picture" Instead of Any Particular Moves or Techniques?

Here's why: every girl is different.

I have been with girls who loved being bitten, and girls that hated it. I have girls who loved me to tie them up and hold them down and those who wanted to be on top all the time. I have been with girls that kept begging me for sex in public and those that wouldn't do it anywhere but the bedroom.

These are the more extreme examples, but as you may be aware, sexuality is a very complex thing and we all have our own preferences for different techniques. You can probably attest to that yourself - when you're getting a blowjob, I'm sure there are certain things you like more and certain things you don't like at all.

Being focused on "moves" and "techniques" locks you into using that certain way of doing things. This results in a complete lack of flexibility and robs you of the ability to improvise and adapt to the situation. End result: you will never, ever be as good as someone who can read the situation on the fly and adapt.

I'm not saying "techniques" don't have their place, because they do. However, NO technique is "absolute" or "guaranteed". PRINCIPLES, on the other hand, are.

The Difference Between "Techniques" and "Principles"

Techniques are things that may or may not work in a specific situation. Principles are far less specific, and because of this, are more flexible and are able to be applied to any given situation. This is why they are far more useful in the bedroom.

We're not doing mathematics here - something where one plus two will always equal three. We are dealing with the human mind, which is a constantly changing, shifting, evolving mechanism, particularly sexually. What works today may not work tomorrow.

You are probably aware of this yourself. The hornier you get, the more certain things appeal to you. Something that was way too "weird" when you were not horny may seem just right in the right moment, and by the same token, what appealed to you then may be "too tame" when you're worked up.

THIS is why techniques are useless. The sexual landscape is a constantly changing, evolving lifeform. By applying the correct principles (such as building sexual tension, using foreplay appropriately, helping her relax, augmenting the physical stimulation with mental stimulation, and so on) is far more useful and powerful than any technique (such as "lick vertically up and down the clitoris") could ever be.

When you master the art of using these "evergreen" principles to give your partner the most mind-blowing pleasure she's ever received, you'll know exactly what I'm talking about. After all, it's a fantastic feeling to hear "that was the best I've ever had!".

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