By Antonio De La Cruz
First off guys - this one single mistake is probably something that most men are guilty of at one time or another.
It's Rushing
I know you've probably heard this before but rushing is fine - but only sometimes. To give your partner a white hot, mind altering orgasm, try a slower approach to start off.
Just start really slowly and keep building up the pace and intensity. You need to control yourself first.
Wrong time of the day
I'll let you in on something. To give her a mind blowing experience, move your foreplay clock into the same groove as hers.
Why is this important? Well, that's easy.
You see, to give your partner a truly mind blowing sexual experience, you've got to find out what's the best time of day for her. Many women are naturally more ready for you around 2 o'clock in the afternoon.
But, as we know, most guys are ready first off in the morning. The bottom line is just work out what time of day best suits your partner. Then adjust your approach accordingly.
Wrong spot
A frequent mistake is moving immediately to what is know as the "triangle area". Use your imagination here. Don't just start first off by going to the most obvious areas like her breasts and vagina.
It's best to start in less obvious spots first. Then, slowly, work your way to the "key" hot spots.
Wrong approach to clitoral stimulation
If you continue to blindly stimulate her using the wrong position, I'll guarantee you'll get the wrong reaction. So never use the wrong angle or too much pressure. Each woman is a little different. You have to start experimenting. And continually check how you are going.
You'll soon see if you're not doing things the right way.
Simply adjust your style to get a better angle and pressure. Change the motion. Check to see if it feels good for her. You'll get a far better response. You'll even avoid hurting her if you're way off the mark.
Surprisingly, in some positions, a woman doesn't like stimulation. She may prefer to do it herself. So be open minded. Check, adjust and monitor your style until you get it right for her.
Assuming there is only one way to pleasure her
This one may come as a shock to some guys. That's because your penis is not the only way to give pleasure to a woman.
In fact, most males would be better off using their tongues and fingers to increase their partner's pleasure.
Saying the wrong thing
This is another clumsy mistake often made by guys. Appreciate that it's all about how you talk to women.
How many times have we made comments to her that are just unflattering. Females have a different way of interpreting comments than men.
Perhaps start talking about her hair or lingerie. From there, you can start moving your conversation on to something else.
Having a messy, unclean home
When you invite your lady friend over, do yourself a favor. Clean up your home. And guys - especially your bathroom! Women make a big thing out of small details. Don't let her jump to any negative assumptions because of something she has seen.
So there you go. Seven clumsy love making mistakes and how to avoid them.
Finally, here's a power tip for great love making.
Simply start seeing things from your woman's viewpoint first before you consider yourself.
Give this a try and I promise you'll be amazed by the results.
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