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September 18, 2008

Nicola Legrottaglie - The Italian Stallion Abstains Until Marriage

By Sonya Gray

Handsome Nicola Legrottaglie is a famous Italian soccer star and a former playboy.

I use the phrase former playboy because, in a recent interview with Italian magazine Sportsweek, Nicola disclosed his decision to abstain from sex until marriage.

"I have not had sex in two years and honestly, it has not been a burden," Nicola said.

He was upfront about his previous conquests saying that if he didn't hook up every few days, "I panicked." Upon reflection of those encounters he said, "one who is able to live without sex, in the end, becomes a slave."

Nicola said he chose to abstain from sex until marriage, "not because I do not like women, but because I am waiting for the right woman with whom to have a family, a woman who shares the same values."

Hmmm...this guy is good looking AND intelligent. Eat your hearts out ladies!

Breaking Hearts On & Off The Field

Nicola's rise as a star defender in Turin, Italy's Juvenetus soccer club began on an equally prestigious Italian football club, the Associazione Sportiva Bari.

He played for the club as a youth for two years before moving on to other teams.

Nicola finally landed at the Juvenetus club where he had quite a bumpy ride. His new coach, Fabio Capello, didn't give him any playing time. He got bounced around to a couple more teams until the 2007-2008 season.

When another player was seriously injured, Nicola was promoted to starter.

Although Juvenetus finished third place in 2008, Nicola was awarded a 2-year extended contract due to his excellent form.

Hard work, perseverance, and dedication made him a star on the soccer field.

But it was growing up in a religious family that formed the foundation for Nicola's firm stance to abstain until marriage.


In my book, this makes him a star OFF the soccer field.

Sources:
LifeSite News: One Who Is Unable To Live Without Sex...
EmyDream: The Biography of Legrottaglie
Graphic: Newpress

Sonya provides information to help advance the message of total abstinence until marriage and its' advantages for people of all ages.

They say a college degree or a stellar work history is proof of expertise in a given field of study or profession. If that's the case, I'm in my junior year at the college of Total Abstinence Until Marriage. I'll graduate with a Bachelor's degree in Spring 2009. Then I'll concentrate on pursuing my Master's degree.

Seriously, though...

If you haven't figured it out by now, I have maintained a lifestyle of total abstinence until marriage for the past three years...with no regrets and a lot less headaches.

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Orgasm Secrets - Learn the Best Way to Have a Awesome G Spot Orgasm

By Bryan Burbank

When it comes to orgasm most people think they know it all but the truth is that we have very complicated bodies and an orgasm is not all physical there is a lot of mental stimulation involved as well. If you are a male looking to give your female partner a mind blowing orgasm then it is important to understand that she needs to be aroused mentally and emotionally as well as physically. It is important that you do not skip the foreplay because it is true that she needs to be warmed up and suing many methods of foreplay can be one of the best ways to accomplish this.

It is always best to set some time aside for the both of your to be alone and without distraction so that the focus will be on you and her not the cell phone, computer, etc. Once you have the evening to yourselves then you want to set the tone of the room such as adding some candles or incense. Also make sure you find some nice romantic music and this is best left up to what your taste are.

Next you want to maybe get a great romantic game such as foreplay dice. This will be a great way for you to have fun and get you both in the mood at the same time. The great thing about using a game is that you do not have to feel uncomfortable about what to do next because the game takes care of that.

Remember that when you are going for a awesome orgasm that you need to add a lot of foreplay and don't be afraid to try something new.


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A Woman Needs More Than Just Your Penis to Achieve Orgasms

By Zachary M Achachi

The female body is a complex work of art - beautiful to look at, but difficult to figure out especially when it comes to orgasm. Many men find it difficult to understand the female sexual response cycle simply because it differs so much from their own.

Unlike with the male orgasm, women have the ability to feel many different types of climaxes. These climaxes are dependent on the types of stimuli used, and whether the orgasm is clitoral or vaginal.

So, before you start poking and prodding in all the wrong places, learn all there is to know about the female orgasm - how it happens, and most importantly, how to make it happen.

Here is a brief overview of what takes place during a female orgasm:

• Stimulation of clitoris

• Tension build-up is caused within pelvis

• Tension is finally released and orgasm is experienced

• Series of involuntary (yet pleasurable) muscle contractions sweep through body

• Contractions are felt in the vagina, uterus, and/or rectum

Women can have three types of orgasm: clitoral, vaginal and blended. But considering the latter which is literally the other two put together and therefore is not necessarily classified as a type.

However, clinical studies most sexologists now agree that an orgasm is an orgasm, no matter what area of a woman genitalia or body is being stimulated.

Nonetheless, here are the two areas of a woman vagina that can lead to the most satisfying female orgasm:

• The clitoris' only function is to provide pleasure for women. Keep in mind that, because the clitoris is much easier to find, female orgasm is usually achieved via clitoral stimulation.

• Inside the vagina, you can find the infamous G-spot, or the Grafenberg spot. The G-spot is located on the front wall (toward the navel) of the vagina, between the opening and the cervix. Theory dictates that the G-spot can be either a bundle of nerves coming from the clitoris or a gland (or series of glands) that produces a watery substance that may explain female "ejaculation". The tissue surrounding these glands, which includes the part of the clitoris that reaches up inside the vagina, swells with blood during sexual arousal. And there is some evidence that nerves in the area produce an orgasm different to one produced by clitoral stimulation.


Many people have questions about how they can make their female partner achieve orgasm. Find answers to common orgasm questions at http://how-to-achieve-female-orgasm.blogspot.com/

Pheromones - Can They Attract Someone to You?

By Tracy Kristalakis

Pheromones are chemical signals that plants and animals use to communicate with each other. The origin of the word is Greek (of course!) pherein = to transport; hormon = to stimulate. Of course we are only interested in the ones involving sex. Those are designed to attract a mate. The best example of this is seen in ants. When ants are in a line and marching along, you may notice that when one ant takes a side step the other follows. Those are pheromones at work. Wouldn't you like to put out your own pheromones and have someone you desire follow you? There are products on the market designed to do just that.

Here's the catch: no scientific study has absolutely confirmed that pheromones directly influence human behavior. Pheromones do exist readily in many other plants and animals like the above example of the ants. There is good news, however. Some studies have found that there is a possibility of pheromones in humans. It may have more to do with the association of odor as there has been found a link with special cells in the nose that can detect minute amounts of chemicals. Some salespeople swear that it helps bring clients to them and that it has increased their sales. Veterinarians and their staff also believe it helps to keep animals in their care calmer.

So while the scientific community continues to work in this area, it certainly doesn't hurt to use products that have them. You just never know you might attract.


If you'd like to have more passion, playfulness and positively great sex, get your FREE copy of 100 Love Making Tips of All Time by visiting http://www.your-great-sex-guide.com - All from Your Great Sex Guide®, Tracy Kristalakis MS, LPC.

Why Some Men Have Their Women Craving For Sex and Some Don't

By Teddy Shabba

Given the choice which would you prefer; a woman who craves having sex with you and can't get enough or a woman who has just enough sex with you to keep around?

Assuming that you man who is interested in having sex with the woman that he is with, which scenario do you think is more empowering to you?

Hopefully you believe and know that having a woman who wants to be with you sexually is much more empowering than one who doesn't.

So how is it that so many men end up in relationships where the woman is giving him just enough sex to keep him around if any at all?

For the most part it is because she was the first one to say I've had enough and once that happens a man finds himself chasing instead of leading in regards to the sexual relationship.

Women in general have long known and in a lot of cases even taught that if you give a man what he wants he has no reason to stay and more importantly no reason to give a woman what she wants.

Yet, the same holds true for women as well, give her what she wants or so much that she knows she can get it whenever she wants and she won't want it as much.

Now, that you know what you know about women and how to have them craving for sex with you a decision must be made in regards to your next sexual relationship with a woman.

Do like so many men do and keep on taking and giving until she knows she is the one in control and then have her ration it off or you can take and give until you are satisfied and then ration it off so that you continue to be satisfied and more importantly in control.


Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now.

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