Sexuality Tips For You.

September 11, 2008

Some Great Positions For Cunnilingus

By Maria Holland

To really pleasure your girlfriend or lover during cunnilingus you need to constantly change what you are doing, not only with your tongue but with the position in which you are going at it.

The position in which you are attempting cunnilingus is really crucial in making your girlfriend or lover orgasm. Here are a couple of positions you can try and do the best job of making your partner climax:

Legs Up - This position involves your partner lying on her back with her legs spread as far and as high as possible. The good thing about this position is that you can access the entire vagina and are generally resting on the most important part, the vagina. Unfortunately with this position you tend to get cramp really quickly as the position you are resting in strains the neck.

69 - If you are not aware the 69 position is when you lie on your back and you partner lies over you with her vagina situated over your face, usually this position is used so you can both pleasure each other as her head is close to your penis. The best part of this position is that it allows for nice downward strokes of the tongue which really hit the spot for your lover.

Doggy Style - This position is similar to the sexual position as the woman is on all fours with her hips tilted so her vagina is pointing upwards. What you do is kneel behind her with your face within touching distance of her vagina. This position is great as it provides a very kinky feeling during any sexual encounter.


Technique during sex is one of the most important factors in pleasuring your partner, the best guide I have seen online to date is Secret Orgasm Tips. This guide promises to help any man achieve the task of making his woman orgasm.

For more information on this guide and an in-depth review check out Top Seduction Techniques

Make Her Have the Quickest Orgasm on Record - Top Sex Techniques Every Guy Should Know

By Maria Holland

Unless you have had your head buried in the sand for all these years you are fully aware that women take almost twice as long as men to orgasm during conventional sex. Baring this in mind all men should be striving to do something different so that they can make their woman orgasm as often as you do.

Well here are some top tips to have your lovers toes curling seconds after you enter her:

Tell her what you are going to do - Women can visualise things pretty good so if you talk to her before hand about what you are going to be doing this will get her really worked up and horny. Learn some dirty talking techniques and master it, practice it in the mirror if necessary.

It is all about the foreplay - Foreplay is essential if you want to make your lover orgasm during conventional sex, it is vital that you get her warm and ready for you. Now if necessary this means staying down there for a long time, take a book with you if you get bored!

Focus on what she wants - For this you need to really know what her fantasies are so you need to get her to open up to you. Once you have found out what she likes then you can really hit the right notes for her.

Talk to her during - Now that you have her built up and ready for it once you start make sure you ask her what she wants, you never know she might want to try a new position! Doing this is key because obviously she is going to know her body better than you are and she is going to know what will make her orgasm faster and harder!


Technique during sex is one of the most important factors in pleasuring your partner, the best guide I have seen online to date is Secret Orgasm Tips. This guide promises to help any man achieve the task of making his woman orgasm.

For more information on this guide and an in-depth review check out Top Seduction Techniques

How to Give Your Girlfriend Multiple Orgasms Every Time

By Maria Holland

Multiple orgasms are a mystery to most men mainly because they do not take the time to find out exactly what they are. So how do these men expect to give their girlfriend multiple orgasms if they do not even know what they are?

In simple terms a multiple orgasm is when a woman experiences an orgasm right after an orgasm and continuously orgasms for a long period of time. Now you may feel that this is really difficult to achieve but I am about to give you some good tips on how you can achieve the illustrious female multiple orgasm:

Find her G-spot - This is the main focus you should be aiming at when trying to make your girlfriend have a multiple orgasm. If you can successfully find her g-spot then you are really close to making her orgasm. The g-spot for those that are not aware is usually situated about two and a half inches inside the opening of the vagina, If possible you should always stimulate it with your fingers as it gives you more of a chance of touching it as your fingers have more rotation and direction than with your penis. The once you have found the g-spot you should always...

Keep her on the edge - Always keep her on her toes, build her up to the edge and then make her wait for it. Doing this builds her up and makes her more and more aroused. Then after you have built her up so much you can unleash wave after wave of orgasm upon her!


Technique during sex is one of the most important factors in pleasuring your partner, the best guide I have seen online to date is Secret Orgasm Tips. This guide promises to help any man achieve the task of making his woman orgasm.

For more information on this guide and an in-depth review check out Top Seduction Techniques.

Talking About Sex

By Luke Jackson

Communication is essential for exchanging information so that you can enhance your own and your partner's pleasure. Learning to talk with your partner about sex requires guts and practice. Sometimes women want to protect their man's ego so they're too polite. Often they're unsure if they even have the right to ask for anything other than what they're getting. Too many men don't know how, why, or when they want something different.

It's great to create an intention together to be able to talk with each other about sex openly, honestly, and often. Admit it if it's scary if you've never done it before. Talk about your fears and the fears you imagine your partner has. This is a major frontier for most couples.

That's partly why we urge you to discuss the Partnering Questions (check for the link below) before each practice or lovemaking no matter how long you've been together.

Don't worry if you feel you're not doing them very eloquently at first. Whatever you do is good for intimacy and good practice to grow your communication skills.

Sometimes it's necessary to coach or redirect your partner when you're being physically intimate. If you make an agreement beforehand about how you want to communicate during sex, it can be much less challenging. No one likes to feel criticized or put down, most particularly while in bed with a lover.

Gradually you'll transform the intimacy of your connection and create the foundation to transmute subtle energy into awesome ecstasy.


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Problems in Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Continuing With P

By Levi Reiss

It seems that just about everyone wants to improve his or her sex life. It's just not that much fun to be alone. Unlike many others, we won't offer you an article, magic pill, pick-up line, or anything else to send you and your intended partner right off to the bedroom. But I really do believe that you can perk up your sex life whoever you are and whatever your sexual orientation. We present a double series of articles for the letter P, sneaking in a letter Q.

This article accents some of the problems and pitfalls that can prevent you from improving your sex life. A companion series focuses on what you should be doing. Both our "negative" and "positive" suggestions will help you get the sex life that you want, need, and frankly deserve. Here we examine provocation, put down, and question.

P is for provocation. Don't fall for provocations, even if she is dressing provocatively. Can guys dress provocatively? If you think the answer is no you should get out more. Or hang around in new places. Actually these are the kind of places where people try to provoke each other in more ways than one and I'm not talking about a variety of sexual experiences. Let me rephrase, some of these provocations have a clear sexual aspect to some of the provokers (even if they don't fully realize that) while not of such interest to those who are being provoked. It can be complicated. Or it can be very simple. Is this thought provoking? One last item, if you shouldn't provoke should you antivoke. What do you think, Auntie?

P is for put down. Put down that desire to put others down. If one must be down for the other to be up there's a problem. And even if the sex starts out well, there's a problem. Don't put your partner down. You can, some say should, go down on your partner. Let's hope that those so equipped will get it up. You both should keep it up. But don't put your partner down. He or she doesn't have to put up with that. You can be put out in more ways than one. And they are non-sexual positions. But not like those in brown paper wrappers with the number 101 in the subtitle.

Q is for question. Don't overdo the questions in the bedroom. You don't have to know your partner's complete sexual history. In far too many cases by the time your partner ran up the full list you would be too run down for a run through. Or even a dry run. If you got the feeling that your partner is overdoing it with the questions you could answer a question with a question. What do you mean by sexual experience? What is the meaning of life? But few bedroom questions are worse than: What did you say your sister's phone number was? Actually I can think of another question that sucks and eventually may lead to a lot of sucking: You're what?

Are you tired of all this negativity? Take a look at our companion series that accentuates the positive.


Levi Reiss has authored or co-authored ten books on computers and the Internet, but to be honest, he would rather just drink fine wine, eat fine food, and enjoy life. He teaches classes in computers at an Ontario French-language community college. Among his many web sites he is particularly proud of his new site celebrating all kinds of love including physical love at http://www.sexsexesex.com - You will find a wide range of jokes, articles, and quotes devoted to various aspects of sex and a great collection of photos. If you don't know French, enjoy the translations. Check out his global wine website at http://www.theworldwidewine.com