Talking About Sex

By Luke Jackson

Communication is essential for exchanging information so that you can enhance your own and your partner's pleasure. Learning to talk with your partner about sex requires guts and practice. Sometimes women want to protect their man's ego so they're too polite. Often they're unsure if they even have the right to ask for anything other than what they're getting. Too many men don't know how, why, or when they want something different.

It's great to create an intention together to be able to talk with each other about sex openly, honestly, and often. Admit it if it's scary if you've never done it before. Talk about your fears and the fears you imagine your partner has. This is a major frontier for most couples.

That's partly why we urge you to discuss the Partnering Questions (check for the link below) before each practice or lovemaking no matter how long you've been together.

Don't worry if you feel you're not doing them very eloquently at first. Whatever you do is good for intimacy and good practice to grow your communication skills.

Sometimes it's necessary to coach or redirect your partner when you're being physically intimate. If you make an agreement beforehand about how you want to communicate during sex, it can be much less challenging. No one likes to feel criticized or put down, most particularly while in bed with a lover.

Gradually you'll transform the intimacy of your connection and create the foundation to transmute subtle energy into awesome ecstasy.

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