Sexuality Guide

September 22, 2008

Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Starting With S

By Levi Reiss

Do you want to improve your sex life? It seems that most people do, whether they are heterosexuals, homosexuals, or somewhere in between. If you are like most of us, you want more sex and you want better sex, and you want it now. We have so many suggestions for improving your sex life that we are putting together an alphabetical list of what to do. Just so you don't miss out, we are also putting together an alphabetical list of what not to do. Don't waste all your time, effort, perhaps money, and perhaps love by putting your foot in your mouth when you know what you really want; we all know what you really want. We present a double series of articles for the letter S. The focus here is on scan, screen, and seduce.

S is for scan. Let's say that you arrive at a party alone. If you are really good you can scan the room and quickly determine who might be pleased to leave the party with you. What should you scan for? Obvious answers include sex, age, and if you are uptight about that sort of thing, height. What other factors should you consider? If it is not a costume party I strongly suggest that you avoid anyone in a nun's habit. You may be missing out on one of the most interesting people that you have met in a long time, but... If she is dressed like a hooker (the details vary enormously from culture to culture) then keep scanning. If he is dressed like a Mafioso, I would suggest that sensitive ladies keep scanning. Take a careful look. But remember, you can't judge a book by its cover. And that prim looking person sitting quietly in the corner may be a few hours from a sexual explosion, with you.

S is for screen. Screen your contacts. I'm not talking about dating only movie stars. But make sure that you stay away from the sickos. Meet your blind dates in a public place. Make sure that you can get home alone, on your own. Of course, no screen door can keep out all the insects and vermin.

S is for seduce. There is nothing like seduction. Even most guys will admit that they would rather seduce a gal than have her jump immediately into the sack with them. How to seduce women? That sounds like another article; that sounds like another series of articles. Making promises you know you can't keep is a very low form of seduction. So about the seduction articles, no promises. At this time.

Levi Reiss has authored or co-authored ten books on computers and the Internet, but to be honest, he would rather just drink fine wine, eat fine food, and enjoy life. He teaches classes in computers at an Ontario French-language community college. Among his many web sites he is particularly proud of his new site celebrating all kinds of love including physical love at http://www.sexsexesex.com. You will find a wide range of jokes, articles, and quotes devoted to various aspects of sex and a great collection of photos. If you don't know French, enjoy the translations. Check out his global wine website at http://www.theworldwidewine.com.

The Downside of Frequent Sex

By Francis K Githinji

Everybody and especially most marriage counselors encourage couples to have more sex as a way of bringing back passion into their marriage. You tell anybody that you are having more sex and the interpretation is that you must be very happy. Nobody ever thinks that having frequent sex can actually affect your smooth relationship. Yes it can and it makes some women feel like giving it so freely makes the man take her for granted and this in result means less tender loving care is offered to her. Most are the times that it indicates that an ongoing relationship is thriving. However in some situations one or both partners might be using sex as the escape gate for their problems. If a relationship conflict seems too large for a partner, he/she might evade talking about it by having sex whenever the two are together.

In some instances, frequent sex is an indicator of waning feelings to one partner. It might be that every time he sees you he thinks of easy sex. If all over sudden you start having outrageous amount of sex, think twice. It might be because both of you have become more intimate and more closer but unfortunately it might be a sign of some stress factor in or outside the relationship that he/she does not want to address. The quantity of sex might not be a problem only if it is quality romance. What is it like? Does it involve foreplay and kissing? Is it fast and plain? If you feel that the act is impersonal there might be an underlying problem which needs to be overtly worked on.

Frequent sex is not good especially if it is mechanical. A perfuntionary love making does not always result because a partner does not love you. It might be because he feels angered by something and he objectifies you subconsciously. Do not be too fast to accuse him of cheating. You might be the cause of his coldness and you better try to find out before going wild with accusations. Talk to him about it using the right words and the right tone. Lovingly, get an explanation from him as to why the sex is curtailed. Do not just refuse to respond to his sexual advances because he might feel rejected and get even more resentful.

Familiarity breeds contempt. Credit to the person who came up with this saying. When you get used to getting something without much effort you tend to take it for granted. Men who get frequent sex from their women have confessed to getting tired and losing excitement in having the common sex. This is sad but true. Men who do not have frequent sex with their wives and girlfriends treasured the few moments they got intimate. This means that the amount of sex determines its quality. One man likened it to drinking water after a long spell of thirst. The water tastes and feels like something very sweet. There is nothing wrong with frequent sex if it is done with the same thoroughness every time it is done.

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Problems in Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Starting With S

By Levi Reiss

Whether heterosexual, homosexual, or somewhere in the middle we all want to improve our sex life. Who wants to be alone? I really do believe that you can perk up your sex life whoever you are. We present a double series of articles for the letter S. This article focuses on the problems and pitfalls that prevent you from improving your sex life. Another series focuses on what you should be doing. Both our "negative" and "positive" suggestions will help you get what you want. Here we examine sad, scene, and smoke.

S is for sad. I know that opinions are mixed on just about any sex-related issue but I don't think that going around with a sad expression is the way to meet or keep partners. In essence you are saying: "Help me get out of the mess I'm in." And your prospective partner is likely to say: "Why should I bother, I have plenty of problems of my own. Now if I could find someone to help me out of my own situation..." It seems like Dylan from the old 90210 (Beverly Hills) fantasy show was a counter example. If I recall correctly he wasn't sad from a lack of female companions ready to help him deal with his sadness. You can try such a tactic. But don't be sad if it doesn't work.

S is for scene. It's one thing to make the scene. It's another to make a scene. The first is positive, the second is a definite no-no. Let's assume that you're in one of your favorite restaurants and your partner has just announced that his or her status is now that of ex. Whether or not you hear that famous phrase "It's not you, it's me," don't make a scene. No Hollywood talent scout is sitting at the next table waiting to scoop you up. And nobody will be so impressed by your reacting-to-getting-dumped performance that he or she tries to fill the gap in your life. Don't make a scene. Lick your wounds. Take a close look at what went wrong, and why. And get out there and make the scene.

S is for smoke. Don't smoke. It's a filthy, smelly, expensive habit. And it can ruin your health and the health of those you love. I'm a wine lover and I know that drinking in excess is bad as well. On the other hand, and we're not necessarily talking about hands, smoking down there is a good thing. Actually you have to determine the cause of the smoking. A cigarette lighter is definitely out, and dangerous. The chances are that you won't smoke. But you may sizzle.

Are you tired of all this negativity? Take a look at our companion series that accentuates the positive.

Great and Funny Sex Facts

By Francis K Githinji

There are some crazy funny sex facts out there, some of them are really hilarious. For example, did you know that during the world war 11, the condoms that were there were used to cover the rifle barrels so that they could not get damaged. Apparently, the salt water could damage the rifle barrels and the only way to be sure that they got across the river safely as the soldiers swam by was by rapping them with condoms. That is very funny. It was also found that thirty years ago,the sperm count of the average American was higher than what it is right now. Doesn't science just make you wonder? And that in India, a condom is too expensive and it is being compared with prostitution. According to some people, it is more expensive to buy a condom than to sleep with a prostitute! That is a sick one.

If you are feeling any kind of pain, the best medicine you can give yourself is sex. They even go further ahead and say that sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. During orgasm in women, endorphins is produced. This is a very good pain killer. Some more funny sex facts for you, if you want to loose weight, relax on going to the gym. Get yourself a good person and have a lot of sex. Sex is known to burn about three hundred calories in an hour. So for every sex you have for an hour you can count the number of calories you are loosing. In some of the states in the united state of America, if your man is impotent, you can file for a divorce and win the case. You no longer have to stick with an impotent person just because you are married.

Did you also know that condoms were made out of linen and they were used in the early 1500's. This people knew right from those years that they needed to protect themselves. The women are the ones who used this linen condoms. They however used the linen condoms to protect themselves from unwanted pregnancies and not necessarily diseases. Having sex according to some researchers is also good for skin. They say the during sex, women produce a hormone known as estrogen in large quantities that helps in making their skin and hair look good. There was a scientific test done on this test people, you had better believe it, those are some funny sex facts to wonder about.

When you make love in a gentle manner, you decrease chances of getting some skin conditions. Did you also know that people who make love frequently attract a lot of people of the opposite sex? This is because, people who have sex often give out a chemical known as pheromones which is basically a sex perfume. There are a lot of funny sex facts around that are true, though they are funny and you might not want to believe them they are true. Next time you have sex, think of the many things you could preventing yourself from or you could be curing yourself from and enjoy the act.

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Are You Good in Bed?

By S Choi

You want to be the ONLY one that your partner longs for and desires, loves, and wants in bed? Oh yes...

What if you were good in bed, oh no, absolutely fantastic in bed? Is there a way you can achieve that? absolutely yes!

It's time for you to get free from in-bed anxieties and insecurities.

I know some of you are very reluctant to try new stuff, or too shy or ashamed to even talk about this with your partner, but if you really want your RELATIONSHIP TO WORK, and WORK ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUSLY, YOU NEED TO TAKE A STEP, RIGHT NOW!!

* Try different positions!

* Try eating the right food for harder erection (if you are a guy, of course)

* Lighting and music DO matter!

* Talk sexy!

* Touch in the most effective manner!

* Communicate with your partner

UGH! SO SIMPLE, yet DIFFICULT, if you do not know how. But trust me, these will get you two back into where you used to be. When there were butterflies and sparks! Make your partner long for you! Make him or her want it more and more..I am here to help you and guide you to achieve an improved love life.

Promise me that you will do as i say, then i guarantee you a successful relationship and very satisfying sex.

SEDUCE them! Make them come to YOU!

Now, your worries are over, just do as i tell you, step by step, and do make sure you do them all to keep an exciting sex life with your loved ones.

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