Pleasing a Woman - The Right Way to Please Her Sexually

By Dale Rafferty

Pleasing a woman is something which goes without saying; unfortunately many men actually leave it to late and only try doing this when they realize that the relationship isn't going well. Seriously! If you're in any kind of relationship you need to make sure that pleasing her is at the top of your list. What I want to talk about here is the common problem which women have with men, men haven't got a clue when it comes to really pleasing a woman in bed.

Now before you start hopping around and getting all upset about my statement, just have a little think. When was the last time your woman came up to you after sex and said "you really know how to please me"? A woman will give a man the benefit of the doubt, she knows he may be tired after work or that he's under pressure because money is tight, but sooner rather than later she's going to start wanting you satisfy her properly.

As men we will come up with excuses until we turn blue, we'll think of anything to keep our reputation in tact; but the truth is some guys really haven't got a clue about pleasing a woman. You may be well endowed; you may even be able to perform all night - which is fine for you! Women on the other hand need a man who can excite her and leave her satisfied.

It's really hard to explain to people sometimes that it doesn't matter how big you are or how long you can go for, if you're not arousing her fully - you're wasting your time, pretty soon she's going to let you know that you're wasting hers too.

Here's one thing you should try: when she's taking a shower, get in the shower with her and wash her all over gently. When you get out of the shower massage her with a little scented oil, caress her and kiss her. Finally give her an orgasm either orally or using a sex toy (not your penis), once she's had her orgasm lay down next to her and wrap your arms around her and tell her that you love her. If you can do this and not demand satisfaction for yourself, you're on the road to sexually pleasing a woman.

This is only one way to please her, there are many more.

Pleasing a woman has several different factors and if you're not willing to go that extra mile; you're only giving her a fraction of the pleasure she deserves. Start to stimulate her in ways which she never thought you could. You can find out more by clicking - Pleasing Your Woman http://sexuallypleasingawoman.org