Are You Afraid in Bed? Overcoming Male Performance Anxiety in Simple Steps

By Megan Zoile

In this article we are going to examine one of the most under-reported but often experienced anxieties that men everywhere endure in the bedroom: The ferocious fear of under-performing...both HER expectations and your own ego! Now, I'm going to tell you that for the most part this is an entirely unfounded fear...and one that can feed on itself in insidious ways unless you are careful. So let's take a look a what happens, and what you can do about it in short order! Read on..:-)

Filed Under: Size Esteem Issues

It seems like we proverbially come back to this doesn't it? It's true...one of the BIGGEST (no pun intended..:-) issues that brings on an acute bout of performance anxiety is the fear that physically you simply won't measure up! The best advice I can give you here is STOP worrying about it! You are the size that you are...and the truth is that there are a veritable avalanche of ways to stimulate a woman sexually. And besides, unless you are unusually small, you are probably FAR harder on yourself than you need be.

Filed Under: Performance Issues

One of the biggest fears some men face is being able to perform well...especially with someone they really like and may have just met. The good news is MUCH of this is simply ALL in your head. The bad news is much of this is simply ALL in your head..:-) What do I mean? If you begin to obsess over these concerns, the truth is your brain is going to unconsciously enter what is referred to as "fight or flight" mode...and whether you fight, or flee is often WAY outside your control. They key is simply to BANISH these thoughts when they arise, and recognize that 90% of sexual issues regarding performance CAN in fact be overcome by mental exercises alone. In other words - when you BEGIN to feel nervous, or worried about your ability to satisfy in the sack...simply STEP back, change your mental patterns to a more positive thought or association, and allow the fear and concern to subside silently into the background where it belongs!

There is NOTHING about yourself that you can't change if you try. Each and every fear and insecurity is simply a gateway for growth!

And One Last thing.....Remember: Women admit that they would prefer a man who COMMUNICATES passionately during sex (which means she wants a little lusty dialogue..:-), they want you to learn the landscape a bit better ( understand her body) and they PREFER a man who has a powerful anatomy (a thicker penis is preferable). You can improve all three of these with JUST a little effort..and in my experience, the REWARDS they offer are EACH worth their weight in earth shaking orgasmic gold..:-) So Click Here to become a more Powerful lover and give her an ORGASM so STRONG ....she'll scream your name in her sleep!