She's Addicted to Sex - Help! My Girlfriend is a Sex-a-Holic!

By Megan Zoile

In this article we are going to take a look at a rising phenomenon (no pun intended..:-) in todays dating and social scene: Women who APPEAR addicted to sex! Sounds like a GOOD thing, right? Well it is....but ONLY if you share a similar appetite! One of the most amazing revolutions of the past 5 or 7 years has been the sense of incredible liberty and sexual self expression that many women have begun to exhibit in ways that not EVEN the crazy stories from the 1960's can compare with. Lots of men are finding themselves with a lot MORE than a handful on their hands, and are asking for help and advice on what to do when they can't keep up! Read on..:-)

The first question you need to ask is....

Is it a purely physical thing, or is it an emotional neediness that you seeing? Some women ( and men as well) use sex primarily as a way to feel connected to their partner in emotional ways. Rejection of sex can feel like being rejected outright! In these cases you have to be VERY careful in what and HOW you say "I've got a headache....or I'd rather be watching the World Series..:-)" My best advice is that if you FEEL this is the problem, communicate! Let her know how much you LOVE being intimate, but you ALSO enjoy doing other things with her as well - i.e. - watching movies, going to dinner and whatever else you do together. Sometimes this sort of sexual clinginess will dissipate if she becomes more confident that the relationship won't end when the bedroom door re-opens.

Find Out What Her Fantasies Are....and Pursue Them!

If she constantly wants to have sex, even AFTER most normal couples would be fast asleep, ask her what her fantasies are? Do you know? Maybe she's really aggressive in bed, but really BAD at communicating what she really wants sexually and intimacy wise. Sometimes finding out what REALLY turns her on is a GREAT way of amping UP the enjoyment for both of you, and simultaneously releasing some of that unrequited release she may NOT have been getting before!

Lastly - thank GOD you've got a girl who digs you as much as she does...and LOVES to show it! You are a lucky man indeed!

And One Last thing.....Remember: Women admit that they would prefer a man who COMMUNICATES passionately during sex (which means she wants a little lusty dialogue..:-), they want you to learn the landscape a bit better ( understand her body) and they PREFER a man who has a powerful anatomy (a thicker penis is preferable). You can improve all three of these with JUST a little effort..and in my experience, the REWARDS they offer are EACH worth their weight in earth shaking orgasmic gold..:-) So Click Here to become a more Powerful lover and give her an ORGASM so STRONG ....she'll scream your name in her sleep!