By Steve Hill
A Kama Sutra massage can be both relaxing and pleasurable for a man and a woman. Massage can be the best foreplay when it is intended to lead up to sexual intercourse, or it can be done in place of sexual intercourse to experience each other in a sensual way. When Kama Sutra massage is done for the purpose of being a sensual experience, a couple can feel closer and more connected than at any other time in their relationship.
The first thing you should know about Kama Sutra massage is that the person giving the massage needs to know that it will not be reciprocal. At least not at that time. The person giving the massage will need to be content with knowing that they are giving pleasure to their partner and the giver must be just as satisfied in giving as the receiver is in receiving. This is very important in order to establish the connection between the two of you that Kama Sutra massage is intended to establish.
Kama Sutra massage should be very slow and deliberate while the receiver concentrates on relaxation, breathing and enjoying the experience. Massage oils should be used to provide a smoother gliding motion of the hands and to heighten the experience. The massage should start on sensual, but not sexual parts of the body. Start by gently massaging the face and neck, move down to the shoulders and chest, then down the sides of the body. Pass the genital areas for now and slide hands completely down the side of the body to the feet. Spend some time massing the feet as this is a very sensual and loving act. Then move up the inner calves and thighs, taking your time to add excitement. Remember to remind your partner to relax. Then finally at the genital area, slowly massage all parts of the genitals, ending at the erogenous zone.
Kama Sutra massage may result in the receiver having an orgasm and that is okay, but that is not the intent of the massage. The intent is to bring a couple closer in an emotionally loving and trusting way. If the receiver is about to have an orgasm, however, stop what you are doing and move the massage away from the genitals for a few minutes to let the receiver relax again. Then start over. Hold off on allowing the receiver to come to orgasm at least five or six times. Then when you do allow it, it is sure to be an orgasm that they will not soon forget.
| Steve Hill is a webmaster from Birmingham, he has interests in a number of websites including: |
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