By Chess McDoogle
For Christians who often wonder what is allowable during intimacy, it can be a frustrating and confusing search as there seems to be differing opinions on what is allowable and what is not. What I've done is narrow things down to 2 very important rules which I believe is all you really need, or at least they will serve as a strong backbone to start out with.
The 2 rules to Christian sex:
Rule 1:
I think we all can agree that safety should be a strong and very important factor in Christian intimacy. It should be used as a backbone when looking at what is allowable and what is not. That is, one of the first things you should question, is safety. If it fails being a safe technique or practice, then it fails being allowable within Christian sex.
Now, a couple should not automatically disqualify every position in the book because it may have a chance of not being safe. Safety in regards to sex only refers to the things that are obviously dangerous and pose a greater than normal risk. Of course there are safety risks in everything we do in life. But it is the most obvious ones that we naturally avoid. The same holds true for Christian intimacy. Anything that poses an obvious high degree of harm should be disqualified from practicing.
Rule 2:
The second universal rule to Christian sex evolves around agreement. Practices, positions, tips and techniques, should all be agreed upon between you and your partner. That is, your intimacy practices should be practices which the both of you agree to be sound, enjoyable and safe within your relationship. If there is a position or technique which is very uncomfortable to your partner then you should discontinue that form of practice. If there is a sex technique that your partner objects to for whatever reason, then that is a technique which should be absent from your sexual intimacy practice.
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