By Tracy Kristalakis
Sex education whether formal or informal is still highly lacking in the United States. There are many people that have received information from friends and family members that is incorrect leading to common mistaken beliefs. Here are some of those beliefs and the truth behind it.
The amount of lubrication or wetness a woman has tells you how turned on she is.
Although women do secrete lubrication when sexually aroused, there are many factors that determine how much is actually made. The most determining factor is genetics. Other factors that affect it are the natural hormonal cycle, stress, and medication to name a few. When in doubt, use a quality lubricant product.
If you have sex in the water, you can't get pregnant.
Sperm are designed to swim. If you do not take preventive measures, than plan on getting pregnant. All it takes is one sperm at the right time.
People that watch porn are perverted.
Watching pornography is not about perversion. It's a form of visual fantasy. It's just one of many ways people (including women) can get turned on sexually. There are no scientific studies showing a link between pornography and perversion.
Pills and pumps can make the penis bigger.
There is no pill that has been scientifically proven to increase length or girth of the penis. A pump may temporarily add size, but will lose any effect once the pump is removed. The only pump that works is
one that is surgically implanted, but this is typically for men with erectile disorders.
If a woman doesn't orgasm from sexual intercourse, than the man isn't doing his job.
Around 80% of women need to have their clitoris stimulated in order to reach orgasm, so intercourse alone doesn't necessarily bring one to orgasm. Imagination and variety are the best orgasm tools.
If a man is interested in anal sex he must be secretly homosexual.
The anus is rich with nerves and anal sex can be quite pleasurable. Homosexuality is about being sexually attracted to a person of the same gender.
Having good sex comes naturally.
Sex is a skill like any other-it must be learned. Good lovers are those that are kind and considerate and make their partner's pleasure a priority.
There are many more misconceptions out there. By reading articles like this and passing it on to your friends and family, you not only become well informed, you are a sex educator, too!
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