What Made Your Sex Life Lose the Real Fun and Sensuality?

By Neha Kaushik

Often you guys would have noticed that all of a sudden your girl goes slack in the middle of sex and even at times she is faking her orgasms. Have you ever tried to find out what makes it happen? If not, 'm going to tell you some of the points that you need to take care of while having sex with your partner. This will help you in enhancing your sexual experience.

First and foremost it's important to understand the basic fact that sex is not alone about seeking pleasure rather it is all about giving pleasure to your partner and seek it in return. There should be a mutual response from both the sides.

Directly fishing for the cherry is the most common of all the mistakes. This makes her feel nonplussed and the flame dies of there and then. You must know the fact that women take longer to achieve orgasm and the foreplay is the driving force. It makes her body hot and prepared for orgasm. And, when you instead of caressing, kissing, cajoling, fondling, and talking to her in whisper about her body heads straight for the finale she feels let down. She looses interest however she keeps up the rhythm so as to not to let you feel disappointed.

Again when you are about to reach climax, your asking her when she is going to get orgasm makes her slack. She may be on the way to reach her climax but you're asking for it in middle blows the passion off. She feels as if she has been paid for being in bed with you so get done with it as soon as possible.

Biting and gnawing at her nipples as if you are some distinct species of vulture trying to prey on her is seriously going to make the situation worst. Nipples are the most sensitive part of her body so be gentle towards her buds instead of pulling at them as if they are thorns in the bush.

Kissing roughly also leads to the disastrous end of the play even before the act has begun. Women love warm passionate kisses and not the going at it wildly. This can be reserved for few wild forays but not all the times. Keep these general but too important points in mind and sizzle up your sex life.