The Dangers of Experimenting in the Bedroom and Taking Things Too Far

By H R Miller

Experimenting in the bedroom is a great way to get rid of bedroom boredom. Many couples actually improve their entire relationship because of a little experimenting. The only problem is that some individuals do not know what boundaries should not be crossed.

Don't get me wrong. Experimenting is a wonderful thing but if things go too far the consequences could be severe. Before you and your partner start experimenting sit down and set some boundaries. Let each other know how far you are willing to go. You should know these things before you start.

If you just decided to jump right into it and not set boundaries then someone can and probably will end up getting their feelings hurt. Some significant others seem to believe that experimentation is needed in order to fulfill desires they themselves feel incapable of fulfilling. If anything this leads to one partner feeling undesirable and neglected.

Another consequence of taking things too far is that you partner may develop a negative view about you. If you want to add another person in the mix your significant other may start to think differently about you. If you are trying to improve your relationship as a whole then keep that in mind before suggesting something over the top.

If you take experimenting too far your partner may no longer desire to have sex with you. They may avoid any type of intimacy all together. If your partner is turned off in the least bit by what you are doing then they will likely put off having sex with you for a period of time.

The one consequence you want to avoid at all cost is having your relationship come to an end because things went too far. Unfortunately, most people underestimate just how big of a deal experimenting in the bedroom can be. If you are not careful you can do more harm than good. You don't want to end up alone just because you wanted to get wild and ended up going too far.

Remember, the key to having a successful experimentation in the bedroom is to communicate with your partner before you get started. Set limits and boundaries and agree that neither one of you will violate those limits and boundaries.

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