By Sarah J Parker
Do you and your man connect on every possible level? Is your sex life as hot as it can possibly be? Or are you looking for that X-factor to send your passion bubbling over the edge?
You've noticed the couples that can't seem to take their hands off of each other, that are always whispering to each other and staring at each other. Maybe you think some people, like those touchy-feely couples, are just meant to have more sexual desire, while others, like you, will just always have a lukewarm libido.
Or maybe your libido is through the roof and you have a seriously fulfilling sex life, and you are always on the hunt for ways to keep it new and fun. Whatever your situation, there is always room to learn some new tricks to keep your lover satisfied and wanting more.
You've probably read those funny lists in Cosmo where they suggest things to do to turn your man
on. What's the one thing that makes it on ALL those lists? Talking dirty! And I have to agree-dirty
talk, at whatever level you feel most comfortable with, is an absolute MUST for any sexual
relationship, and there are several reasons for this:
Communication is key if you want to make sex great for both of you. If you're one of the 80% of women who can't climax from sexual intercourse alone, then you and your partner are going to have to be willing to try some different things to get you there. And that is going to take a lot of communication. This is dirty talk at its tamest level, and it's a level that you really must master.
Nothing turns a man on more than seeing his partner totally lose herself in her passion and pleasure. If you talk dirty to him, he'll know that you aren't just "phoning it in," so to speak. You'll connect sexually on a level that you never have before, and he'll be that much more eager to find new and better ways to please you.
And you know what? What's one of the main things that men fear about commitment? They're afraid that if they settle down, they have to give up their wild, awesome sex life! If you show your man that you're always going to keep things fun and sexy in the bedroom, he'll be less afraid to commit.
So now you understand how important talking dirty is, but here's the problem...yeah, everyone is telling you to get into it, but no one is telling you HOW.
If you're like most women, you just don't see how you could ever be comfortable going too far past the "Sexy Sounds" rung. And I understand that-you feel extremely vulnerable. But when we really open ourselves up and let ourselves be vulnerable, we almost always reap great rewards.
Once you have mastered the sexy art of dirty talk, you will not believe how much more satisfying your sex life will be! You and your partner will gain intimacy, trust, and plenty of the "O" word!
So, the bottom line is that if you want to take your relationship to another level, or your want to surprise your man with a present he NEVER thought he'd get, try surprising him with some "dirty" talk. He'll love it!
| Sarah J. Parker |
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