Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Starting With L

By Levi Reiss

Do you want to improve your sex life? It seems that most people do, whether they are heterosexuals, homosexuals, or somewhere in between. If you are like most of us, you want more sex and you want better sex, and you want it now. Don't believe that there is a magic pick-up line, pill, potion, or perfume that will make it happen immediately, if not sooner. But we do believe that our articles can make a major difference in your sex life, and even in your love life, if that's what you want. Why not give them a try?

We have so many suggestions for improving your sex life that we are putting together an alphabetical list of what to do. Just so you don't miss out, we are also putting together an alphabetical list of what not to do. Don't waste all your time, effort, perhaps money, and perhaps love by putting your foot in your mouth when what you really want; we all know what you really want. This article focuses on lavish, limber, and lust.

L is for lavish. Outdo yourself. You don't have to be the last of the big time spenders or Diamond Jim Brady himself but give a little extra. Please don't think of it as giving a little extra to get a little extra. Or a lot extra. Think of it as giving a little extra to set the mood and if things happen that's how the cookie crumbles. (Just make sure that your cookie doesn't crumble but that's a whole different story.) Think of it as giving a little extra to set the mood and if things don't happen we still had a good time and maybe next time. Mind you, not necessarily with the same person. You may want to save your lavishness for someone who is lascivious.

L is for limber. Keep those limbs and other parts limber. You are going to need flexibility for where you are going. You don't necessarily have to try all the Kama Sutra positions and more. But you should be ready to go beyond the classic positions. Remember, whenever you exercise a new muscle you may be sore for a few days. But it's worth it. Now I am no doctor and never dispense medical advice. If your doctor recommends non-strenuous sex you should listen carefully. And then ask for a second opinion.

L is for lust. Lust is great. Or more correctly lust can be great; it's the start of many a beautiful liaison. Don't forget the ground rules: consenting adults and no power relationship. I want to add another caveat, no broken hearts (third parties, etc.). If all these conditions are met, go for it. It? That's to say go for him, go for her, go for them. Did you ever think what lust stands for: Love Under (the) Sheets Today or for those who can wait longer: Love Under (the) Sheets Together.

Levi Reiss has authored or co-authored ten books on computers and the Internet, but to be honest, he would rather just drink fine wine, eat fine food, and enjoy life. He teaches classes in computers at an Ontario French-language community college. Among his many web sites he is particularly proud of his new site celebrating all kinds of love including physical love at http://www.sexsexesex.com. You will find a wide range of jokes, articles, and quotes devoted to various aspects of sex and a great collection of photos. If you don't know French, enjoy the translations. Check out his global wine website at http://www.theworldwidewine.com.