How to Have Better Sex

By Tyler Privado

Everyone wants to know how to have better sex... and why shouldn't they? The great thing about us human beings is we're always trying to improve ourselves and there's no exception when it comes to the bedroom.

In my opinion though, rather than asking how to have better sex, we should be asking how we can please our lovers more. Remember the age old saying, give and you shall receive. I believe that wholeheartedly when it comes to sex.

If you learn how to pleasure your lover better, they'll return the favour. Plus, the better time they're having, the more often they'll want to engage in some fun under the covers... or in the kitchen... or in the backyard... I think you get the idea...

For men, there are two main ways to amaze your lover:

1) Improve Your Technique

Unfortunately, most guys don't really know their way around a woman's body. Don't blame us though, it's not like they come with an instruction manual. It's also typical for women to expect us to know what to do... without giving us the feedback we need.

However, that's no excuse. If you want to pleasure your lover you're going to have to spend a bit of time studying her body. Play with her, explore her. Ask her what she likes and doesn't like but more importantly, learn to read her reactions.

The female body isn't as tricky as you might think and you can easily and effectively be stimulating her erogenous zones with a little practice... All 12 of them...

2) Turn on her mind

Men usually rely on physical stimulus to enjoy sex so it's not surprise we don't realise the importance of a woman's mind in the process. Turning on a woman's mind can be more important than her body but 99% of men don't know how to do this consistently.

You have to create a loving and trusting environment in the bedroom, whether you're in a long term relationship or just a one night stand. You need to show her that you enjoy being with her and make her feel special.

You also need to slow down and enjoy the journey. Too many guys are obsessed with the destination and don't take the time to smell the roses along the way. If you spend more time exploring and pleasuring your lover's body she'll have a more powerful orgasm later.

So the one thing you should take from this is slow down and enjoy pleasuring your lover's body. That's the not so secret way how to have better sex.

Tyler is a regular guy who enjoys sex and pleasuring his lovers. When he realised a lot of other guys were having the same problems he'd had in the past, he started his website: http://www.AmazingYourLovers.com - that contains tons of free tips and articles. He also recently launched his insider guide, "How Regular Guys Amaze Women In Bed" and it's been well received by men and women alike. Visit his website to find out how to get your hands on the insider guide that is changing the sex lives of men around the world.