Should You Wait Until Marriage For Sex?

By Bernadette Santiago

A lot of things in life don't come easy. One has to be patient and persevering in order to achieve a particular goal. This goes true with the three letter word called SEX. It is so true that young ones by nature are so impulsive, experimental and like to go beyond limitations. More often than not, a lot of young people opted to do things that are forbidden to them. They want to explore the world without ever thinking of the circumstances of their every action. I guess, that's the nature of young people. When young people heard that their friends are doing it and actually bragging about having done it, some are challenged. They want to be even better than those who have done it. Well, young people, never let peer pressure get into your way. An action automatically elicits a reaction. It could be good and bad though.

As for sex, if it is done in times when one is not yet capable of taking responsibility, the problem pops out. Parents now play a very vital role in the lives of their children. Open lines of communication must be at all times observed and maintained. Try to be there with your child as often as you could. Never nag them all the time. Make your approach very friendly and light. Oftentimes, young people prefer to talk with their peers because they are evading disagreement from their parents. Young people prefer to turn to their peers because they are tolerated and never negated at all.

When young ones are in a relationship, sometimes they go beyond limitations. They go overboard and do things which they are not yet ready to handle. It could be attributed to love and most of the time, to lust. Actually, there is a very thin line between the two words. Young people often act without thinking first. As they explore on sex, they tend to forget the responsibilities of their action. Young people must be taught in an early age to value sex. Never take it less seriously because sex is the culmination of the love that two people feel for each other. It is far better to wait until marriage before engaging into it.

Both can enjoy sex to the fullest because they are not afraid that there might be a possibility of an unwanted pregnancy. The long wait is always rewarding both financially and psychologically. Anything that is achieved through a lot of patience and perseverance is worth sustaining. There is less chance of an easy break up from people who have maintained a certain limitations while they are still in a steady boy-girl relationship. But of course, there are some isolated cases. Should you wait until marriage for sex? The answer is a big YES!