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September 26, 2008

What is the G-Spot - And Where is It?

By Ryan Kerns

It's often a joke between men about the very existence of the "G-Spot." Is it real, is it not and if it is real, where the heck is it? Well, the g-spot is named after a man named Ernst Grafenbergts was the first to explore this particular subject. Even today there is still some mystery as to its existence however, countless women have felt intense pleasure when the g-spot is stimulated.

The location of the g-spot is around 2 inches inside the vagina towards the front. It is also said by some to feel, for lack of better terms, like a raisin. If you want to get technical in finding the g-spot, it is located beneath the urethral sponge. This may be why women feel like they might have to urinate after stimulation, but rest assured that it's simply a feeling. There is no need to wait by the bathroom when there is a "feeling." For those willing to try g-spot stimulation, here is a technique I have found useful.

Have your partner lay down with their knees bent and a pillow placed under their buttocks. When you insert your fingers inside the vagina, curve them so that they point towards her navel. Press onto the wall of the vagina, don't be afraid to use a little more pressure since the g-spot is surrounded with muscle and tissue. Move your fingers from side to side periodically, your partner will be able to tell as the tissues will swell much like the penis does with an erection. Keep in mind that this is done best with using the proper lubricant. It will not only will it be frustrating for your partner, but also frustrating for you as well with your lack of progress and we would not want that mood you've already created to die down because of dry fingers would we? If you want to try g-spot stimulation through intercourse, rear entry or doggy is best. Naturally, the penis curves slightly allowing it to come into contact with the g-spot with proper pressure.

The most important thing to remember is that stimulating the g-spot is only as good and the mood you've created. What I mean by this is that a woman will respond better when you create a comfortable atmosphere for her and also paying attention to other things in addition to the g-spot stimulation. With the other hand you can hold her and tell her you lover her, you can run your hands over her body, you can pay attention to her breast and nipples, run your hand through her hair. Things like that create a mood and allows her to "get into it" and allows her to enjoy the whole that much more and can ultimately lead to the very best sex you've ever had. Oh yeah, I almost forgot...plus, you'll look like a real stud.


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