Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Starting With H

By Levi Reiss

Do you want to improve your sex life? It seems that most people do, whether they are heterosexuals, homosexuals, or somewhere in between. If you are like most of us, you want more sex and you want better sex, and you want it now. Don't believe that there is a magic pick-up line, pill, potion, or perfume that will make it happen immediately, if not sooner. But we do believe that our articles can make a major difference in your sex life, and even in your love life, if that's what you want. Why not give them a try?

We have so many suggestions for improving your sex life that we are putting together an alphabetical list of what to do. Just so you don't miss out, we are also putting together an alphabetical list of what not to do. Don't waste all your time, effort, perhaps money, and perhaps love by putting your foot in your mouth when what you really want; we all know what you really want. This article focuses on hear, hot, and hunch.

H is for hear. If you want a great sex life never forget that your ears are a major sexual organ. I'm not just talking about nibbling away, although that can be a real pleasure for both of you. Listen. Make sure that you hear and understand what is being said. Of course it's even better if you can read between the lines. The more you can read between the lines, the more you can be between the sheets. But it all starts with hearing what your partner has to say. As long as you're at it (and even before you're going at it) make sure to hear your partner's body language. There's a lot being said that isn't verbal. The better that you "hear" your partner the more likely you'll be hearing his or her moans and groans when the time comes. Get the wax out of your ears and start hearing. Needless to say, don't remove that ear wax in your partner's presence.

H is for hot. Don't be cold. Don't be warm. Be hot. Steamy. Sizzling. Sweaty. Sticky. I think I'm going to take a cold shower.

H is for hunch. Play your hunches. When you get that certain little smile don't think of everything that could go wrong, of all the reasons that it won't happen. Read his or her mind. Read her or his lips. There will be little signs. Don't ignore them. He or she (or both) are trying to play their own hunches. I've got a hunch that a hunch and a hunch can lead to quite a hunch, perhaps before lunch.

Levi Reiss has authored or co-authored ten books on computers and the Internet, but to be honest, he would rather just drink fine wine, eat fine food, and enjoy life. He teaches classes in computers at an Ontario French-language community college. Among his many web sites he is particularly proud of his new site celebrating all kinds of love including physical love at http://www.sexsexesex.com. You will find a wide range of jokes, articles, and quotes devoted to various aspects of sex and a great collection of photos. If you don't know French, enjoy the translations. Check out his global wine website at http://www.theworldwidewine.com .