Sexuality Tips For You.

August 5, 2008

How Do I Talk Dirty to My Boyfriend and Make Him Go Crazy With Desires?

By Blaine Mark

Most women who find dirty talking intriguing often ask, "How do I talk dirty to my boyfriend?"

First of all, talking dirty does not necessarily have to involve the use of profanity in order for it to be considered dirty talking. It is more about talking in a seductive manner that will cause your boyfriend to become sexually aroused, or stimulated with a heightened sense of sexual excitement.

Dirty talking goes further than what you say verbally, it also involves your body language, and how you react overall to the things your boyfriend does to you. There is a wrong and a right way to practice dirty talking. If it's practice in the wrong way, it will lead to miscommunication and ultimately to a turn off!

To be effective at dirty talking, you have to understand that timing is very important... you need to know the right time how, and when to initiate talking dirty.

What my girlfriend usually does if she happens to be seeing me when I was having a bad day.... she would first greet me warmly by putting her arms around me, and then get me to rest my head on her shoulder. After which, she would then try to talk to me a bit, to help get my mind off whatever was causing me to be having a bad day.

As soon as she succeeds in getting me to relax, she would then proceed to talk dirty to me. You can use your imagination to figure out what usually follows next! (Smiling!)

What might have worked for my girlfriend and I, may not necessarily work for you... if you are attempting to talk dirty to your boyfriend when he is having a bad day. You have to first figure out the best approach to take in getting him to take his mind off whatever is bothering him, before you start talking dirty to him.

The next thing you need do before you can begin to talk dirty to your boyfriend... Find out what words or methods will stimulate excitement in him! And also find the most ideal setting that you both will find comfortable, which is conducive to talking dirty. Some people say they like talking dirty in the shower. I usually prefer the other aspect of dirty talking once we hit the shower. the aspect that goes beyond the initiation stage. (I'm sure you know exactly what I'm talking!)

On regular occasions, whenever my girlfriend is about to start talking dirty to me... she would first give me that seductive look... followed by running her hands up and down my back gently, before kissing me behind the ear. As her lips are pressed against my ear... she would begin to speak in a strong seductive tone telling me the things she is going to do to me.

As I get aroused and start physically reacting... she would continue by telling me what she wants to be done to her in return, and how she wants it done. She would often seductively caress herself in expression of the excitement she was feeling. Which would just do it for me, and having me start jumping all over her.

I hope telling you about my girlfriend and I helped to answer your question - "How do I talk dirty to my boyfriend? And don't forget, the most important thing is to find out what works for you and your boyfriend... if you want to be effective at dirty talking.

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