By Kat Williams
Do you know the number 1 mistake men commit in the bedroom? If you don't, and you're a guy, you better learn fast because you may be guilty of it yourself. Listen up too, if you're a woman, because you may be settling for less simply because you don't know any better.
So what could the number one mistake be? Having a small penis?
Wrong.
Improper technique?
Wrong again.
Low stamina?
This is a common problem but not the most common. Many women are unhappy because their lover does not know when to quit.
When you stop and think about it, the answer is quite obvious, and "typical" of a man.
Ladies, how many times have you and your man gone off on a road trip, with him driving and gotten lost? What does he do?
Does he pretend he knows where he's going? Does he pull out that old, crumpled, coffee-stained map from the glove compartment or does he start punching in coordinates on his mobile, mp3 playing, GPS detector?
Men are very different and no man is apt to have the exact same response. But a common denominator among men that cuts across age, race, nationality, religion and culture, is the reluctance or refusal to stop and ask for directions!
And not just on the road. Not asking directions is the most common mistake men make in the bedroom.
So many men either falsely assume they already know what a woman wants or he doesn't even think it through that far. He may be going off false information from unreliable sources like pornography videos, locker room bragging sessions and even pop music lyrics.
Many assume all women are the same and apply what worked for one woman on every woman. Or they have a mental "check list" they run down, step by step, not unlike how they would change car oil or fix a bicycle tire.
So guys stop making assumptions! Don't be afraid to ask your woman what she wants. And ladies, don't wait for him to do so. Take the initiative and tell him what feels good to you and what doesn't.
Guys, a woman may not always tell you that you don't please her. She may keep quiet or just move on to a more experienced partner. Take the time and care to learn a woman's body and mind. Go to http://www.greatsex4girls.com now. Sign up for free exclusive access to website and newsletter dedicated to female sexual pleasure. If you want to really learn about what pleases a woman in bed than sign up now at http://www.greatsex4girls.com Kat Williams |
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