By Chad Hunter
Now that you've both said "I do," you both feel like "You don't want to." The media has fed us a completely opposite image: a first year of marriage filled with non-stop romance and breath-taking sex. But, this is not always the case and the possibility of dull sex can be a strain as you start your married life.
Firstly, begin by talking. Communicating what you like, what you don't like and what you expect can build a bridge between you two. It can also aid in you both enjoying your sexual experiences. Talk, talk and talk because assumptions can lead to marital stress and neither of you can read minds!
Explore and experiment together. Don't shy away from new things in the bedroom. This is your chance to find new excitements and new adventures. Experiment and discover new areas of want and fulfillment in both of you. Don't feel like it's a state of sorrow in your new marriage. The issue of struggling sexuality typically is a long-growing problem that seems to suddenly rear its head.
Stay away from the unrealistic. The media, which includes magazines, romance novels and pornography, can introduce unreal expectations. Avoid them and the trouble they can bring into your already troubled sex life. Enjoy sex with your real live partner instead of imagined passion with the make-believe.
Remember that sex is another form of communication. Keep it from becoming a chore! It's another level where only you two connect. Sex is not something "to do" or that "you have to do because it's been awhile." Enjoy it!
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