Sexuality Tips For You.

August 22, 2008

How to Arouse Your Senses and Have Great Sex

By Rajgopal Venkataraman

The sexual act is just not a mundane expression of a man and woman's union. There is a lot of background activities involving our 5 senses and if one is able to please the senses to the hilt then the sexual act and its completion can be more rewarding. Here are some great tips to get your senses aroused like a radar for great sex.

SIGHT:
1. Move in front of the mirror and get front-row seats for the action!
2. Make eye contact with your partner. Closing eyes during love-making is a bad habit and can plant seeds of suspicion in the partner that you are imagining someone else.
3. Watch porn together if your partner does not object. Never expect your partner to perform like the stars though and do not overdo it.
4. Lights should be soft and filtered.
5. Use the warm glow of candles for special effects.
6. Take turns doing a strip-tease for a romantic number.

SMELL:
1. Pheromones, the perfume of sexual attraction can be a great turn-on if your partner is comfortable with it but do not overdo it.
2. Rose petals scattered on the bed or a sensual bath in a bathtub filled with them can be a great turn-on.
3. Wipe gently your lightbulbs with perfumed oil and they send calming or sensual scents around the bedroom.
4. Sprinkle scented dusting powder on the bedsheets.
5. Slightly menthol scented hygiene washes can be used to wash your body for that fresh tingly smell.
6. Use mint or a mouth-freshener before kissing your partner.

TASTE:
1. Chocolate sauce, strawberries, grapes or whipped cream will help you explore the world of sexy tastes.
2. Flavored warming massage oils come in multiple flavors like strawberry, cherry and banana. These sexy oils not only create heat and lubrication, they taste good, too!
3. Hand-feed each other fruits with peculiar textures like pomogranate and lychees for a truly gratifying effect.
4. Drink champagne from sexy champagne glasses, caress the long stem and lick each other's lips.
5. Edible underwear in different flavors can also be experimented with.

SOUND:
1. Give your partner some auditory arousal with hot compliments. Do dirty talk and tell each other what you would like to do to them.
2. Play a slow, romantic CD. Moan when your partner hits the right spots during the act.
3. Read erotic stories aloud to each other.
4. Make sure your bed does not make squeaky sounds.
5. Shut out distracting noises like street sounds and television sounds by taking appropriate measures.

TOUCH:
1. Keep your room at the right temperature and adjust as the session becomes more steamy!
2. Make sure the mattress is comfortable and cover your mattresses with silky/satin bedspreads.
3. Arrange some lightweight, soft pillows on the bed and they can come handy while experimenting various positions.
4. Stroke each other's hair and to further arouse this, give each other a back massage. Use feather, flowers, and petals to stroke the body and send shivers down the spine.
5. Hold an ice cube in your palms and as it melts let it drip on your partner's abdomen or chest.
6. Trigger the nerves that connect the genitals with a foot massage.
7. Lick each others trigger zones and breathe on the neck and ears.

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