By John Phillips
Face it, we all have sexual fantasies. Some of these fantasies may be considered more "normal" than others. But really who's to say what's normal anyway? If you have a sexual fantasy that you want to experience, the best way to do so is to suggest it to a partner that you completely trust. Don't force your fantasy on a person that may not be open to it. Living out any fantasy starts with developing a very strong sense of trust.
If your partner is open to your suggestion, go slowly. Make sure you establish in advance that is either of you gets uncomfortable, you'll stop immediately.
Common fantasies for men include the much ballyhooed "two women at one time", and being "taken" by a powerful woman. Women's fantasies include making love to a total stranger, and being taken by a strong man.
There is nothing wrong with playing out fantasies, just as long as both participants are in total agreement on the ground rules, and that no one will get hurt either physically or mentally.
Properly set up fantasies and role playing can be just the thing to spice up a dull or sinking love life. Many couples report that being able to discuss and actively talk about fantasies that either person may have, and to agree on perhaps trying out a wild fantasy has saved their love life, and made it stronger.
If you and your partner have decided to try a fantasy, you may want to look online for costumes or toys that will help the fantasy come to life with much more realism. Nurses outfits, padded handcuffs, French maid outfits, and other costumes are readily available on numerous sites online.
| John Phillips is owner of http://www.500lovemakingtips.smmsite.com For a free book containing tips and ideas on keeping romance alive in your marriage or relationship, go to: 101 Romantic Ideas |
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