By Levi Reiss
Whether heterosexual, homosexual, or somewhere in the middle we all want to improve our sex life. Who wants to be alone? We can't offer you an article, magic pill, perfume, potion, or pick-up line that will automatically send you and your intended partner to the bedroom. However, I really do believe that you can perk up your sex life whoever you are. We present a double series of articles for the letter M.
This article focuses on the problems and pitfalls that prevent you from improving your sex life. Another series focuses on what you should be doing. Both our "negative" and "positive" suggestions will help you get what you want. Here we examine macho and malice.
M is for macho. Guys, wake up. In many circles being macho just doesn't make it anymore. What might have flown once in the fairly distant past just shows how out of touch and how unlikely to touch you are. Being macho doesn't only mean strutting your stuff. It's a whole attitude; one that often includes attitude. Story time. This one actually dates several decades back. Hopefully it would occur less frequently today. A very attractive friend of a friend who never became that kind of friend was an excellent cross-country skier. When guys would date her they never stopped to ask any questions. They carefully told her in simple terms how to put on her skis and which wax to use. She would then proceed to ski circles around them. There were no second dates. Couldn't these macho geniuses at least imaged guessed that someone else would have already shown her the basics of cross-country skiing? Is there a female equivalent to macho? Undoubtedly.
M is for malice. Don't be malicious when something goes seriously wrong in your relationship. In fact don't be malicious even before something goes seriously wrong in your relationship. If worst comes to worst just walk away. Obviously we are not talking about marriage and children. Then you have to get your act together, while you are in the process of getting your acts apart. Generations ago people were told that they had to make it work somehow. The line was: Do everything possible to stay together, even if you hate each other. Sometimes it worked, sometimes people managed to patch up their differences and put it back together. Sometimes. But in far too many cases being prisoners together was a simple recipe for maliciousness. This way of doing things was supposed to protect the weaker sex. It didn't. Wouldn't it be nice if you could take a little maliciousness test before getting involved head over heels and heels over heads with that special someone? There isn't. What luck, bad luck for the victims and good luck for the jerks. Of course the truly malicious would manage to cheat their way through the test. And some poor souls who aren't the least bit malicious would somehow manage to fail it.
Are you tired of all this negativity? Take a look at our companion series that accentuates the positive.
| Levi Reiss has authored or co-authored ten books on computers and the Internet, but to be honest, he would rather just drink fine wine, eat fine food, and enjoy life. He teaches classes in computers at an Ontario French-language community college. Among his many web sites he is particularly proud of his new site celebrating all kinds of love including physical love at http://www.sexsexesex.com - You will find a wide range of jokes, articles, and quotes devoted to various aspects of sex and a great collection of photos. If you don't know French, enjoy the translations. Check out his global wine website at http://www.theworldwidewine.com |
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