By Misty Ruttan
Let me ask you this, would you walk into a business proposal completely without pre-planning what you would say to win them over? Highly unlikely and yet most of the population walks into sex unprepared; and unplanned- and get this: believe that this is what is supposed to happen. Basically they believe it should always be spontaneous and not discussed just to occur. It's almost like the principle that olden day parents used to instill on their children: "be seen and not heard"; here is why planning is important to gain the most astounding sex life:
Why plan sex? Well just as you wouldn't walk into other things of your life unplanned- such as paying for a restaurant- you would bring your wallet, or if she was making dinner; she would prepare it before eating it. The thing with many people is they go for the raw food, and wonder why it tastes so bad- they have these expectations; then they think "sex isn't all that great anyways"... that's not true!
Sex can be the most amazing thing ever- you just need to see that planning makes the best sex; because it allows communication to occur. Once this occurs other barriers can be crossed and you can begin having real pleasure.
Talking is the main part of communication in sex! Being able to talk with your partner about what you want, and she talk about what she wants; and also discussing what can be improved allows you to fix and get better sex!
If you go unplanned always, you will never get the chance to go over these things; passion is one thing; but constant disorganized sex will not enhance your experience. Just as if you were going to eat your favorite meal, you would want it prepared as you like it; and all day you will be imagining that, and setting your mind to experience that. If you don't know it's going to be there; you won't have the mindset for it; and more likely than not it's a turn off... if it's always going this way.
A lot of times you may find she doesn't want when you want and vice versa- its because you don't plan; both of you need to set your mind frame for receiving it and planning what all goes into it so it can be the utmost best tasting pleasure you will ever have!
If you have an idea what is the greatest, your partner will never know; unless you talk to her, and plan that out before hand so when you do actually get into it you both know what ingredients are there- because sex isn't all genital contact- great sex has all parts of the body even the ones you don't see, such as the mind, involved...
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