How to Prepare For Your First Sexual Experience - Advice For Christian Newlyweds

By H R Miller

Ok, so you've finally taken that big step and gotten married to the man or woman of your dreams. Now it's your honeymoon night and you are ready to take an even bigger step and make love to your new husband or wife for the very first time. I'm sure you are feeling a million and one emotions all at the same time. And you should be. You are about to explore and experience a level of intimacy you have never explored before. But before you jump out the window here are a few tips to help you get through this exciting yet scary time. Remember, GOD created sex for you to enjoy it. So have fun with it.

1. Just Relax - Hey, I know you are nervous. Understandable so. But you have to relax ok? If you get all worked up you won't be able to enjoy it as much as you should. Take a deep breath. Think happy thoughts. Don't think about things going wrong instead visualize things being absolutely wonderful. Sounds crazy but it really works. Be confident in your abilities.

2. Take your time - Don't rush it. You will be feeling all kinds of emotions that you have never felt before. And that's ok it's actually a good thing. Just go with the flow. Remember, you are making love to the man or woman of your dreams for the very first time. You want this to be an unforgettable time. So take your time. Explore each other's body. Have extended foreplay. Did you know that the single best way to intensify orgasms is to have prolonged foreplay? Keep that in mind.

3. Pay attention - As you are kissing and touching each other pay close attention to the spots that make your spouse moan or grab you closer. This means they like it. If you find something they like you can continue to do it but switch it up a little bit. Don't continue to do the same thing over and over and over. This will get boring. If she likes it when you caress her breast then continue to caress her breast and then work your way up to kissing them gently. You see where I'm going with this? You continue to build upon what you know your spouse likes.

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